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Debby, 44
United States, Oklahoma, Guymon

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About Me

How do you explain yourself in one short paragraph when you have a lifetime of adventure. I am to old for Drama, chaos, gossip, anger, pettiness. I have learned what I want in life is to live in peace, happy with all that is around me. When i go to family gatherings and drama starts, I state- "I am Switzerland" I take no sides. Life is to short for bullshit. I love being out doors, love knowing when I wake up I will hear the birds singing. I love long walks through natures silence, fishing, camping, spending time with someone who cares I am in their life and not just a fill in when there is no one else in their life. I own my own little business in which I create all natural products, I feel its wonderful to be able to take raw materials from the earth creating an enhancement into others lives. I create inspirations through daily living :) I don't know what makes me unique, I don't think like society as a whole, I practice celibacy. When I find the right person to share such a wonderful experience with I will cherish such a moment. I don't believe in hook ups or one night stands, I don't condone it, I don't judge people its just not for me. I am a wonderful romantic, I get to imbibed in the happily ever after. I want to find a friend who will eventually become my love. Even if we are just friends forever I will still cherish such a relationship. I march to the beat of my own drum, I don't think the word normal should ever be in a dictionary, nothing is ever normal so to speak. I am overweight, not insanely huge but I am working to improve my life in every way, I want someone who will encourage me to want to keep being a better person in my physical, emotional, and spiritual sense. I love kayaking, exercising, running, hiking, but it would be wonderful to find someone who would enjoy those things with me. If at first sight I disappoint you, then you have just lost out on a most incredible chance to meet someone who could change your world. I love living! :) My biggest conquest is to travel everywhere, explore, and continue to live adventures I have only read about...... a wonderful first date would be on a grassy hill watching the stars, soft music playing in the wind, and just talking. People don't enjoy talking any more everything is so technical :)

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Mathilde from Guymon | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
    Mathilde

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a single woman looking to meet some good men. If I end up meeting an awesome man that sweeps me off of my feet great if not then It will be more friends gained from this site. I love to joke around, so don't get offended if I say something in a joking manner, It's only a joke, not a death sentence. I love to meet new people. I love to go out and have a good time dancing with friends, I listen to country, rap, hip hop, alternative rock, NO head banger here. Not looking for a booty buddy!!!! so if that's all you want I'm not in!!! I started my own lil house cleaning and painting business, and yep I do all the work myself ! Which suits me well since I am a very clean and organized person. I don't like clutter or filth. Heads up I am no size 0, I'm what I would call thick and sexy. Don't most men like thick cheese burgers anyway? lol With that being said ,I changed my eating habits,3 years ago. strictly healthy foods, low carb I like to workout. I power walk an hour a day 5 days a week, tone up with the weight machines 4 days a week, and work on abs 3 days a week..I may be ready for a bikini contest this summer....Ummmm YEAHhhhh....NOOOO !!! But I have been melting down and toning up week by week ! Proud of myself! I may not have a perfect body but let's face it after having 6 kids who would?!!! But I do have a great attitude! I like looking good but I mostly workout because I am the last parent left and I want to be around to watch my babies grow up.I am def no couch potato, I'd rather do something productive than sit around and waste a day. As far as the shallow men go,Yall can't say much.about womens bodies..none of yall have ever been pregnant but your bodies look as if you have. Aren't we past the shallowness by this age? I think it's good to workout and be healthy but I don't mind extra weight on a man, That doesn't bother me at all. I prefer big men. My husband had always worked out and body builded until he had a blockage in his heart and had a stent put in, he was put on so many medicines for diabetes heart etc etc etc until it blew him up to ***lbs,for a couple of years. until he was taken off of some of them then he had lost back down. My kids are (B27, G24, B21, G19, B13, B5) all by the same daddy, We were married almost 25 yrs together ***yrs. So I never thought I would be thrown into the single life. My plans were to be married til we were very old. He passed away ***yrs ago in a car accident.My oldest son was with him and thankfully survived. He was a good man, I lost my momma suddenly in ***, her heart just stopped, and my granddaughter in ***. So I know first hand that saying is so very true...You really don't know what you had until it's gone!!! So enjoy your loved ones while you still can! OK kids class dismissed lol OK so let's see what's out there!

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  • Jettie from Guymon | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Guess I'll go ahead and actually fill this in now.After being on here a little bit I've found there is a great deal of BS!! So I will just put it like it is...It doesn't matter what I write in here you are still just really going to have to go off pics. If you have your life together appreciate someone who handles their life has morals and standards message me. For God sakes if you do drugs or think you have recovered from drugs becuz you haven't used in a couple months DON'T BOTHER ME!!! I'm not interested PERIOD IN A DOPE HEAD!!!!!!If you have no job no vehicle DON'T BOTHER WITH ME!!! I don't care what your age is or how cute you are I have nothing for you!!!! Get off you butt and take care of yourself!!!! Would just depend...

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  • Judy from Guymon | Woman | 45 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi! I work with nursing I'm a medical assistant and love it. I am a divorced mom with a 23 year old son. I love outdoors and being on the lake. I enjoy time with my family and friends. Looking for someone to join me in these fun times. Hopefully someone who will be my companion for life. But in the meantime a male friend would be nice. .Also I don't date out of my race.Thanks for reading and send me a message to talk furtherMelissa Meet up somewhere and talk and get to no one another maybe have lunch or dinner. See how things turn out maybe we will like each other and hang out another time .

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