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Pearle, 42
United States, Oklahoma, Guymon

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UPDATE: July ***Understand, when you read my profile, it may come off as "harsh"....but it's due to experiences and preference. Please have recent photos posted.If you can read this profile with an open mind, that says a lot about you.....Below are some things I am NOT looking for.... I do not want to waste each others time....If you've been married or been in a relationship then you understand, that there are just some things you cant overlook and why settle with someone knowing down the road its gonna be an issue? First a Question:Why are men so infatuated with coming up with ideas to get women into bed???Writing that their interests are Cuddling and Snuggling, Just very weird for a man to write that in a profile to women they've never met??If you are looking for a female to "party" with or to have "one nightstands".... ***> its best you hit back button and click on another....If you have "no commitment or casual dating" written in your profile....We're not going to be a good match..... Just *** you have/or had a CRIMINAL HISTORY OR A DRUG PROBLEM ***> IM NOT INTERESTED.ALSO... I really don't think this is too much to ask.....NO weirdos, NO serial daters, NO MENTAL DISTURBANCE, NO PERVERTS, NO Fakes, NO Pretenders, NO PLAYERS NO Anger Management( That means ... I don't argue period), NO liars, No CHEATERS, No Complainers or being negative)......OR men that WHINE....... if I dont respond to your message... that simply means Im not interested and I dont want to waste either partys time....... And being interested DOESN'T mean one worded responses ..... I'm not going to carry the conversation while you sit back and do nothing .... If the conversation doesn't pick up.... that means your not interested and Ill not waste my time. (( delete )).**I do not go to bars, that's not my idea of fun. If you frequent these types of establishments were probably not a good match....:/IF YOU MAKE UP EXCUSES OF ANY KIND...NOT INTERESTED. I'm not interested in "sarcastic or vulgar talk". Most of the men on here are very nice....but recently ...it seems like I have to touch base on this ..... :/Looking for a professional guy....outdoors .....that keeps in shape for the most part....Not trying to be mean but.....***you know what I mean......eating healthy.... FYI ---! ;) A man that acts as thou they are completely interested in talking to you...........and who doesnt get bored easily..... who doesnt yawn excessively ..... to be completely comfortable and there shouldnt be an awkward silence...... you know that feeling..... *** am looking for a man that is "SINGLE"... that means he shouldnt have a girlfriend.... And definately NOT SEPARATED....that means he shouldnt be MARRIED legally with a wife! Get a *** types of men out there.... one who isnt afraid to be with a woman who knows what she wants and one who isnt afraid to be *** offense: but Im not attracted to Men with LONG HAIR OR TATOOS ((SLEEVES)).... no offense (( you like what you like ))Btw: I'm tatoo and piercing freeA converstation/chatting on here first...... then a phonecall (if all goes well).... you can pick up on "certain things".... a good vibe or --->OMG let me off the phone vibe... and you know what I mean.... ((eye brow raised))..... then maybe with mutual interest....A meet and greet at some point. But......If you dont want to put in any EFFORT...... and you dont have the TIME....... because you are too BUSY....... for whatever reason.... then whats the point? Well, WHY ARE YOU HERE? Or ...ummmmmmmm.....Then theres where the serial dater vibe comes in..... Or hiding the fact you are secretly married? Eh? And that has happened....:/Ok....If you have gotten this far, then that means you are possibly interested..... I am looking for a man that has a heart of Gold....just a GOOD guy :) Morals, sweet, respectful, handsome, you have to be MASCULINE ( not sissy ) and awesome personality....with of course the***> attraction and chemistry, great attitude, positive, caring, respects the law.....LETS TALK ABOUT "THE TEXTING" :I DO NOT LIKE TO TEXT, ok.... I hate it.After getting to know someone off here and numbers are exchanged mutually .....Then its Possibly a deal breaker***> if your compulsive texter... During dinner... While your with that person... :/What? Keep making excuses to avoid talking on the phone?? ((shaking my head)) red flag There are some *** texting is like a message because your working or in a meeting and phone conversation isn't possible.Although, To me, if a guy wants to text all the time..... its either he doesnt want to talk... or he has several contacting him at the same time... OR HES PLAYING GAMES.... ***yes to all. Anyway....THE FACT IS.....There is so much "miscommunication" in texting.... I dont feel like trying to explain the TONE....because you just cant. A text can be read ... so many different *** so you have survived the novel.... :)Thank you for reading and for being patient.About me:Im a caring person with a big heart, that cares more about others....than myself.Im slightly old fashioned, that still believes in morals and will hold out for that missing piece in my life.....I know we are not all perfect but I do believe there is a person for everyone.... Im looking for someone who is been out of a relationship or been divorced for a while.... no recent divorces or relationship issues where your thinking about returning..... I don't want any drama. I have a very calm and relaxing world....I love being outdoors, any adventure.Love me some Starbucks Chocolate is the cure for allMusic is relaxing and a great way to express yourself..... meet over coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Cycling Playing Cards German Thai Turkish Animation Horror Western Dirt Bike Racing
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