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Tatum, 44
United States, Oklahoma, Guymon

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About Me

Don't love someone because you only want somebody when life is making you lonely. Do love when you're ready to love and be loved.As you become more clear about who you really are, you'll be better able to decide what is best for you - the first time around. - Oprah WinfreyAge is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter. - Satchel PageIt's quite simple really; be the person your Heart wants you to be. ~*~My life is pretty busy which brings challenges in the dating world. I'm a spiritual person, open minded to most things and constantly questioning the "facts." I love to learn and feel if you stop learning, you stop living.Be warned...I'm one of those people who wakes up happy and rarely has a bad day. I want everyone to know life as I know it; truly, incredibly, almost unbelieveably happy, so helping others is extremely important to me. I'm an Independent Consultant for Arbonne International. While I'm not a vegan, I love what my future looks like introducing others to vegan-certified, botanically-based cosmetics, skin care, and nutrition products. I feel like I did when I was a massage therapist 10 years ago in that I can help others feel better and be healthier. Please don't waste my time telling me you're interested in Arbonne as a means to get a date. I can't believe I had to write that but it happened. I'm also really active in dog rescue and advocating. There's so much to do in life that I'm determined to squeeze something I'm passionate about into as much of my time as possible. I promise I will find time for us should we become an us. Of course, it also means I'm even busier than I was however time freedom is my goal so it's only temporary. I love to laugh, dance, read, write, hang out with my friends, sing, play pool, throw darts, ride 4 wheelers, roller coasters & fair rides, and spend time with my dogs & horses. I also love doing volunteer work for whatever cause I come across that inspires me to help. I'm sure I've missed some things here so don't think that because it isn't written, I wouldn't be interested in doing it. I am who I am yet I can see things from other people's perspective. I can also admit when I'm wrong and take personal responsibility for who I am and what I do. My life is my own and I make the best of every moment. Physical attraction is most likely what brought you to my page, so please, have a picture that shows what you look like, up close, before you *** help get you in the door; however, what's inside determines if you stay and can add or negate your good looks. ;)Drop me a line...have a beautiful day! Life isn't measured by how many breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away. What you do isn't as important as who you are with. I received the most wonderful *** I had to share it with everyone. These things, if sent genuinely, brighten a day the way few things can. Thank you so much Shawn for your heart-felt poem.The warm feeling touches your spirit and a flood of passion starts to flow.To see such beauty in one's life can only be a blessing from above. For true beauty to come from heaven like an angel full of true love.It is a great honor to actually see someone who's beauty is pure and true.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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