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Zena, 41

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About Me

I am a character who can play plenty of roles before the week is through. During the week, I manage a sales help desk at a successful Silicon Valley company. I work with fabulous people, and enjoy my job, but at the end of the day, I don't aspire to be identified by my career. Life is so much more than what I do to make money. If I can make a friend laugh, accomplish a personal goal, get to the gym, all while balancing a plate on my head, then it's a good day.What I'm looking for (or more grammatically correct, For what am I looking? hee hee) Oh, the usual: a dependable, stable guy who isn't nuts, who is bright and articulate and funny, spiritual and kind, and who can balance all aspects of his life while enjoying it at the same time. I love to joke, kid around, gently mock and generally spar with words, so if he's quiet and withdrawn, it won't be much of a match. I enjoy being outdoors, being active, but also enjoy that cuddle time on the couch. I don't have to do everything with someone I'm dating, but I do need to feel there's a significant place in his life for me. If he loves to travel, cook, hike, can string sentences together, all while balancing a plate on his head, then there's potential for a relationship. :-)An added note: If you are interested in meeting me, I'd ask that you actually write me to tell me that. I'm not really fond of the "meet me" section; it so lacks any kind of effort. C'mon, type me a sentence--I dare you! I promise not to correct your grammar...this time. ;-) I'm going to give a very generic but honest answer: over coffee to chat and get to know one another. We'll know pretty quickly if there are sparks and can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    i'm sitting here at my musician/photographer friends mancave trying to be clever. i'm not rushing to the altar but i'm not looking for just one night either. i would really love to spend time with someone who is at peace with himself. i like learning from others so i'd like to know what your interests are and what you could share with me. i feel about 25 on the inside most of the time. my friends describe me as silly. i love making people laugh. send me a quik hello and tell me something about you. i look forward to it! must be in public

  • Hunter

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for someone different...someone who doesn't necessarily have a Harley, or is the biggest Packers fan....someone who might like hunting or fishing but also loves the arts...and cities, with a nod to the country from time to time...I enjoy exercise, movies, music, and spending time with my daughter and friends. I would love to learn to play an *** enjoy dancing. I also like traveling and visiting museums. Someday I would like to learn how to sail and to have and raise a dog. :-) I really like learning about the world and meeting new people. I am outgoing and love to travel. I hope someday I will know another language fluently. I have studied french, spanish, and italian... I am a compassionate and accepting person. I believe we should be kind to all those we meet because each of us has our own struggles in life. I try to be empathetic to others. I am a liberal politically but do not care much for politics. I do not go to church but I do believe in positive energy-living it and passing it on. I do get stressed out sometimes though-have been known to yell at someone on the road from the safety of my enclosed car. I accept that I am not perfect but strive to be nonetheless...I LOVE music and listen to many types. I do not care for modern country, hair rock, or opera too much. I also do not like screaming in music or offensive rap music. But for the most part music really hits my soul deeply...I am looking to meet a friend, a companion who loves life and wants to live it to the fullest...together. I think first dates should be simple-good food and time to talk and get to know one another.

  • Janell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    hello i am Shelli. I.m old tired of being alone looking for that Mr. someone to put up with me. i am a wonderful person. love talking.trying new things,dancing and just darn right out fun.i love to laugh and have fun but, know when to be serious. i work full time you could say work master. i love to try and learn new things always have my mind open to everything. i own my own truck and home so i am not looking for a supporter just a friend and what comes along with that time can tell. i am very honest sometimes it gets me in trouble but, telling fibs takes to much time and thought i rather move on and focus on what is in the future. if you like i would love to hear from you just drop me a line anytime.look forward to meeting you and seeing where this might go:). dancingHow I picture my 1st date: Well, it could go many ways actually.... We could go out to eat, go see a movie, or go for a walk, maybe have a drink or 2 somewhere as long as we get time to sit down & relax as we talk about ourselves. I would like to learn about you on our 1st date. I don't want to jump into anything quickly unless fate takes it that way..... It's like walking into a dark room blindfolded. maybe fun BUT You never know what to expect... :)

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