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Zena, 41

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About Me

I am a character who can play plenty of roles before the week is through. During the week, I manage a sales help desk at a successful Silicon Valley company. I work with fabulous people, and enjoy my job, but at the end of the day, I don't aspire to be identified by my career. Life is so much more than what I do to make money. If I can make a friend laugh, accomplish a personal goal, get to the gym, all while balancing a plate on my head, then it's a good day.What I'm looking for (or more grammatically correct, For what am I looking? hee hee) Oh, the usual: a dependable, stable guy who isn't nuts, who is bright and articulate and funny, spiritual and kind, and who can balance all aspects of his life while enjoying it at the same time. I love to joke, kid around, gently mock and generally spar with words, so if he's quiet and withdrawn, it won't be much of a match. I enjoy being outdoors, being active, but also enjoy that cuddle time on the couch. I don't have to do everything with someone I'm dating, but I do need to feel there's a significant place in his life for me. If he loves to travel, cook, hike, can string sentences together, all while balancing a plate on his head, then there's potential for a relationship. :-)An added note: If you are interested in meeting me, I'd ask that you actually write me to tell me that. I'm not really fond of the "meet me" section; it so lacks any kind of effort. C'mon, type me a sentence--I dare you! I promise not to correct your grammar...this time. ;-) I'm going to give a very generic but honest answer: over coffee to chat and get to know one another. We'll know pretty quickly if there are sparks and can go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryam

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am interested in meeting new people to spend time with. I like a good sense of humor and a playful personality. Much like mine. I like to discover new things to do, as well as spending time at home with family. I am fun to be around and want the same from the people I spend time with, but there is a time and place for everything and when it is time to be serious that is what I do and would expect the same.I exercise on and off and appreciate what it brings into my life and plan on making it a bigger part. I like being outside in nice weather. I also like the rain it sounds so peaceful and smells so fresh. I love the sound of the ocean and the smell of the salt air.I like to ride bikes leisurely on the American River Bike Trail. I have a funny little quirky thing I love cooking shows, recipes and cookbooks but I don't often create them do to the dissatisfaction of my audience..ie.... my children I know funny but true :),I need a better audience. I am not looking for a intimate encounter I would like to start with friends and see where it goes obviously chemistry is a factor but I need to be in your presence to see if it is there... so with that we can go from there. I am sure we can figure something out between both of our interests and comfort zones and make a great plan.

  • Jaynie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to cook and bake. I keep a clean house. I enjoy time alone with my significant other. I like movies, having a drink or two. I'd like to go back to school at some point but right now work and children have most of my time. I like spending time with family and friends, bbq'n or hanging out. Enjoy my camping trip once a year. Go to Starbucks and talk until we've had enough. Have a casual dinner then maybe a walk.

  • Jazmyne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have had my fill of being stupid and the party thing...........a long walk to nowhere......Dont get me wrong I do have a desire for a thrill and dare now and again. I have a fun side and all it takes is a handsome smile to surface the "devil" I love a handsome smile and sparkling eyes......Just went back to school and have a job I now love and find very rewarding...I have a teenager that makes me crazy but at the same time keeps me sane....I own my own home and car.......If you have any questions please free to say hi and ask......just please keep it clean.....getting tired of the games. I really dont want to waste eather of our valuble time with the BS!!Thank you for taking the time to read :o) Something to make us both laugh?

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