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Abigail, 45
United States, Nevada, Mesquite

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About Me

I’m down to earth with a simple southern charm with big city class and a uniqueness of my own. What you see is what you get, I’m easy going, easy to please, low maintenance, don’t play games, don’t like drama, have no baggage, don’t have it or want it. I’m the person I really am all the time and don’t pretend to be something I’m not just to be liked, I tell it like it is, am straight forward, don’t candy cote or straddle the fence. I can take control yet appreciate when I can take a backseat and let another be my guide. I try hard; do right, am honest, secure, giving, loving, sensual, passionate, kind and grateful. Like others I enjoy the finer things in life and welcome gifts and surprises but am not a materialistic person and enjoy the simple things that money can't buy. I’m an old soul,open minded, free spirited with a belief in a higher power but don't rely on religion as a crutch. At the end of the day you’ll find me relaxing with a glass of wine at home or out with friends. I’m not into nagging,complaining, jealousy, angry outbursts, backstabbing, gossiping, lying or cheating. I’m old fashioned about dating in that I prefer the man to make the first move and take lead which means that I will only respond to *** profiles that interest me in appearance, substance and intellect...major turn off!Life is too short to miss and too important to take seriously so I enjoy having fun with friends, people I love, traveling, painting, living life out loud, taking chances, meeting new people, being happy, positive,laughing, smiling, and being with others who do the same. I love to wine, dine and dress up but also love simple pleasures like the beach, sunsets, pizza, a cold beer, cuddle on the couch with popcorn and movie in my PJ’s. I do what makes me happy, have many friends, and attend social events when I can rather than be a homebody. I’m friendly, outgoing and get along and make friends in any crowd. I have a sense of humor; laugh as much as I can even at myself and like others who do the same, love a ride on the back of a motorcycle, a long bicycle ride, and intellectual conversation. I keep up my appearance and body but am not a sport or gym junkie, I prefer my man to mirror me in his appearance and have hair that I can run my fingers thru. I’m not settling for less and want a man that makes me sigh in awe when I gaze at his handsome face, tingle at his touch, my toes curl in ecstasy and my eyes roll with his skilled kisses.I’m an artist and successful business owner with integrity, high standards, and endurance that allows me to work hard and serve others. I’m fearless, intelligent, educated, skilled, highly trained with an impeccable career as a police officer and investigator for 14 years. I’ve learned that our criminal justice system is faulty, everyone makes mistakes but not everyone gets caught, smart people make stupid decisions, bad things happen to good people, and it’s not my place to judge or condemn anyone for their past. It is what it is. I’m not into bad boys, outlaws, mama’s boys, crybabies, basket cases, liars, cheaters, couch potatoes, posers, holy rollers or someone with emotional baggage from a former love. I want a man to be professional, open minded, handsome, smart, fit, close to my age,,successful, kindhearted, sexy, fun with a sense of humor who loves to laugh,travel,spend time together yet do fun things out with friends and has a free lifestyle to allow it. It would be nice to find someone to explore the wonders here with. I'm interested in making new friends and finding a stable exclusive relationship with attraction, chemistry, passion, compatibility in likes, dislikes, intellect, conversation, stimulation, lifestyles, activities, daily routines, and sensuality that is positive and fun.The right person brings out the best in you, improves the quality of life, allows your dreams and passions to become reality, lifts your spirits, fills the desires of your heart, mind, soul and body,is your best friend and is someone you can spend the rest of your life with. If you are interested, sincere in your search, looking for much of the same, and don't mind becoming friends at first, then send me an ***, which is the only way I will respond if I'm interested as well. If you have no pictures I won't reply. The more you can show and tell me the better. My idea of a first greet and meet is getting together at a local place and having a drink (I don't do coffee and if you you can't handle an adult beverage then you're wasting your time). Within the first few minutes we will know if the right kind of chemistry is there and if not we can part as friends. If things progress well then we might decide to talk over dinner or make plans to meet up again soon. You never know until you meet in person what will happen, so neither of us should be offended if one doesn't "feel it" for the other, this is all a hit or miss deal. Be who you are from the start out the gate!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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