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Tomika, 43

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About Me

Back again, not giving up just yet :-)I have dated with an open mind and stepped out of my comfort zone but learned that chemistry is the key. I want passion, affection and romance. I don't need a man that makes a lot of money but I would like a professional with financial stability. Someone who loves sports, particularly basketball and football. A man with some sort of style, good communicator and loves the idea of a family. A man that knows what he wants and is done with drama and games. I pride myself in being a successful mom, daughter, friend and professional. I am dedicated to all the important aspects in my life. I am outgoing, giving, caring and love to laugh until I cry. I have been at the same job for 25 years, teaching less-fortunate children. I am very blessed, I feel it is important to give back. With the right man, I want to stay in bed all day under the comforter and watch the snow fall, cuddle in front of a fire and watch a movie, walk in the rain, travel to little getaways, cook in the kitchen, sing at a concert, cheer on my little athletes and be someone's best friend.If any of the above sounds intriguing, I would love to hear from you. HOWEVER, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW ME. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS, A SEXTING PARTNER OR BOOSTING A GUY'S EGO. I AM SEARCHING FOR THE REAL THING.Thanks and wishing you the best of luck......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    About me...I am a spiritually minded creative person with a ton of passion. I love yoga and art---it is my work and my center. I am open minded and have been known to be very honest and feel communication to be very important. I have done my work and feel I am at a wonderful place emotionally and spiritually. I love nature, traveling, adventure, learning and people. I have a strong support system of friends and family which is very important to me. I believe that everything in life is a part of the plan and there is no mistakes, just places to learn. My nine year old is the center of my world and a big priority. I am happy as a clam being single but know that there is someone out there that will share my joy and we can co-create a wonderful life together.I'm looking for...A spiritually minded man who is honest and communicative. Someone who will encourage and support my life and dream and in turn, I can his. A man who is into adventure and travel, yet is happy and content with the little gifts of life. Someone who respects women and wants to be my friend as well as a mate. A man who is authentic, comfortable with being man, and really appreciates who he has become.I also like the idea of having three C's:1. Chemistry. Does he make your heart pound and your toes curl? When you’re alone in bed at night, do you replay all his tender touches, the words he used to make your heart melt? At the end of a date, do you want to rip his pants off and have your way with him right there on the doorstep? If, however, you don’t feel this way yet, don’t worry. Remember, women are like Crock-Pots, they heat up slowly, and men are like microwaves, *** to go. As long as you think he’s cute and you have fun with him, he’s a contender.2.Compatibility. How do you “roll” together? Are you comfortable with silence? Do you feel constant pressure to prove yourself to him, or does he make you feel like you’re perfect the way you are? Do you “get” each other? Do you love/hate the same things? Compatibility basically means that your routines mesh, you enjoy doing the same things, and you want the same things at the same time. For example, if you want kids and he doesn’t, you are NOT compatible.3.. Communication. Do you feel you can tell him anything, or do you have to watch what you say around him? How do you each express your emotions, wants, and needs, and are you comfortable talking about them? How do you argue? How do you settle disagreements? It’s not an issue of whether or not you have a difference of opinion, what’s important is how you resolve those differences. Consideration is the key to communication, because if you feel cherished, you’ll reward him with respect, and like Verizon, no one will ever have to ask, “Can you hear me now?” Cup of coffee or meal, nice environment, quiet conversation....insert imagination here.

  • Digna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Life is meant for 2......But tired of the game playing.I'm looking for my partner in crime to enjoy life with. He should also be kind-hearted, sincere, have a good sense of humor. I'm looking for someone who will bring out the best in me, and will let me bring out the best in them. After all relationships are about two people enjoying one another both physically and mentally, right?.....Honesty, communication and understanding are a few of my strengths, would like to find some one with the same values. However I can be a bit sarcastic as times... Gotta enjoy life!.. Looking forward to the change. Something simple.... Drinks, dinner. Somewhere that allows us to talk and see where things go. No pressure... Just fun.

  • Aimie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well lets see maybe im going at this all wrong ..... im a down to earth good old fashion southern raised women. I love the outdoors and don't mind trying something new at least once. Im a hopeless romantic and love to cuddle and kiss....... love a man that can show affection and doesn't mind who sees it. I don't want someone who will just settle for me but truly knows im what he wants and shows me more then once. I can do just about anything im pretty crafty.I love animals and kids and always seem to get both to warm right up to me. I don't have much money and money isn't everything to me but I have a big heart and a lot if love for the right man. Im not looking for just a hookup so if u are please move on and don't waste my time. Good luck on your search hope u find your princess! Well a first meet is always hard til u get to talking and relax, so I say something simple to break the ice. Maybe a walk in the park or a small picnic by the lake. Or drinks and something lite to eat.

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