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Tomika, 43

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About Me

Back again, not giving up just yet :-)I have dated with an open mind and stepped out of my comfort zone but learned that chemistry is the key. I want passion, affection and romance. I don't need a man that makes a lot of money but I would like a professional with financial stability. Someone who loves sports, particularly basketball and football. A man with some sort of style, good communicator and loves the idea of a family. A man that knows what he wants and is done with drama and games. I pride myself in being a successful mom, daughter, friend and professional. I am dedicated to all the important aspects in my life. I am outgoing, giving, caring and love to laugh until I cry. I have been at the same job for 25 years, teaching less-fortunate children. I am very blessed, I feel it is important to give back. With the right man, I want to stay in bed all day under the comforter and watch the snow fall, cuddle in front of a fire and watch a movie, walk in the rain, travel to little getaways, cook in the kitchen, sing at a concert, cheer on my little athletes and be someone's best friend.If any of the above sounds intriguing, I would love to hear from you. HOWEVER, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW ME. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS, A SEXTING PARTNER OR BOOSTING A GUY'S EGO. I AM SEARCHING FOR THE REAL THING.Thanks and wishing you the best of luck......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    About me...I am a spiritually minded creative person with a ton of passion. I love yoga and art---it is my work and my center. I am open minded and have been known to be very honest and feel communication to be very important. I have done my work and feel I am at a wonderful place emotionally and spiritually. I love nature, traveling, adventure, learning and people. I have a strong support system of friends and family which is very important to me. I believe that everything in life is a part of the plan and there is no mistakes, just places to learn. My nine year old is the center of my world and a big priority. I am happy as a clam being single but know that there is someone out there that will share my joy and we can co-create a wonderful life together.I'm looking for...A spiritually minded man who is honest and communicative. Someone who will encourage and support my life and dream and in turn, I can his. A man who is into adventure and travel, yet is happy and content with the little gifts of life. Someone who respects women and wants to be my friend as well as a mate. A man who is authentic, comfortable with being man, and really appreciates who he has become.I also like the idea of having three C's:1. Chemistry. Does he make your heart pound and your toes curl? When you’re alone in bed at night, do you replay all his tender touches, the words he used to make your heart melt? At the end of a date, do you want to rip his pants off and have your way with him right there on the doorstep? If, however, you don’t feel this way yet, don’t worry. Remember, women are like Crock-Pots, they heat up slowly, and men are like microwaves, *** to go. As long as you think he’s cute and you have fun with him, he’s a contender.2.Compatibility. How do you “roll” together? Are you comfortable with silence? Do you feel constant pressure to prove yourself to him, or does he make you feel like you’re perfect the way you are? Do you “get” each other? Do you love/hate the same things? Compatibility basically means that your routines mesh, you enjoy doing the same things, and you want the same things at the same time. For example, if you want kids and he doesn’t, you are NOT compatible.3.. Communication. Do you feel you can tell him anything, or do you have to watch what you say around him? How do you each express your emotions, wants, and needs, and are you comfortable talking about them? How do you argue? How do you settle disagreements? It’s not an issue of whether or not you have a difference of opinion, what’s important is how you resolve those differences. Consideration is the key to communication, because if you feel cherished, you’ll reward him with respect, and like Verizon, no one will ever have to ask, “Can you hear me now?” Cup of coffee or meal, nice environment, quiet conversation....insert imagination here.

  • Angelena

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey guys! I'm here looking for friends. Maybe we will become more if there is a connection. I would like someone to do things with and maybe grow into a relationship. I love doing anything and can have fun doing just about anything. I am simple and honest. I will meet at a public place, please don't ask if u can come to my house or if i will come to yours, no motel, no hotel, no holiday inn.. Y'all got me messed up if u think Ima be the star in the next lifetime movie! I enjoy hanging out with good people, watching movies, fishing, almost anything outdoors, but most of all laughing! I am open to trying new things.. I love music, mostly rap, R&B, jazz and top 40. Looking for a friend first and then see if we are compatible.... Will u stand out above the rest?? Smootches y'all... :)~ Doesn't matter.. I can have fun at McDonalds gettin the dollar menu if the company is good....

  • Angie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a fun person (one part hopeless romantic ***part bad girl - Okay, not really bad but ALWAYS loyal and faithful. It's the Sicillian in me.) with a great sense of humor and am looking for the same. Material possessions and social status are not important to me, however, the goodness of one's heart is. I see the joy of healing and the grief of loss every day at work. How you leave your mark on this world is how you should live your life every day.I have a beautiful little girl (age 8) who has the same quirky sense of humor as I do - she is my "Mini Me" and my world. I'm looking for someone who is spontaneous, intelligent, a bit of a prankster, and open to new things so that we can explore them together. Someone that doesn't sweat the small stuff in life.I have to admit, I can be very feminine but also a bit of a tomboy. I can camp, hike the mountains, bait my own hook, and catch my own fish. I enjoy a challenge! Oh, and if you ever hear a rumor that I fell down playing Wii, well, that's true. ;-)I absolutely love music (mainly rock) and a great live show!I get quite a few messages on here asking me for medical advice. I'll save you the time and just post the only advice I'll give you here: Don't take a laxative and a sleeping pill the same night. Some surprises just are not pleasant. That really depends on the person and what our common interests are. I'm up for most anything that offers the opportunity for conversation.Disclaimer: Hey, I enjoy sex as much as the next person, however, I am not (I repeat, NOT) here for a hookup or one-nighter. If that is your intent (which seems to be the case with many here), then please save us both the trouble and pass me by. Capiche? ;-)

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