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Tomika, 43

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About Me

Back again, not giving up just yet :-)I have dated with an open mind and stepped out of my comfort zone but learned that chemistry is the key. I want passion, affection and romance. I don't need a man that makes a lot of money but I would like a professional with financial stability. Someone who loves sports, particularly basketball and football. A man with some sort of style, good communicator and loves the idea of a family. A man that knows what he wants and is done with drama and games. I pride myself in being a successful mom, daughter, friend and professional. I am dedicated to all the important aspects in my life. I am outgoing, giving, caring and love to laugh until I cry. I have been at the same job for 25 years, teaching less-fortunate children. I am very blessed, I feel it is important to give back. With the right man, I want to stay in bed all day under the comforter and watch the snow fall, cuddle in front of a fire and watch a movie, walk in the rain, travel to little getaways, cook in the kitchen, sing at a concert, cheer on my little athletes and be someone's best friend.If any of the above sounds intriguing, I would love to hear from you. HOWEVER, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW ME. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS, A SEXTING PARTNER OR BOOSTING A GUY'S EGO. I AM SEARCHING FOR THE REAL THING.Thanks and wishing you the best of luck......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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