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Jenessa, 43

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About Me

I've learned to appreciate good people, avoid drama, enjoy the moment you're in :) I’m attracted to an active, down to earth guy who likes to get out and enjoy life :)Me ~ outgoing, grounded, logical, creative, passionate, fun, feisty, considerate. I appreciate people for being goodhearted, their smarts, goals, thinking outside the box, a willingness to take chances in life, optimistic attitudes, and preferring an active and productive lifestyle rather than being a couch potato on a gorgeous day. I'm attracted to a confident personality, a man with opinions, ideas, can make a plan, is communicative, comfortable in the kitchen and handy stuff around the house, as I am :) I definitely enjoy life and see the positive in things, and appreciate a man with an equally positive outlook :)I'd like to meet just one good guy who I click with, and can enjoy a fun day & good conversation with. We make a fun team, we can talk and are real friends, do fun outdoors stuff, go for a drive up the coast, stay in with a good movie, cook yummy meals together, share fun times with our friends, have weekend bbqs and dinner parties. I’m loyal, passionate, and when I like a guy, I’m affectionate and like to do little things letting him know I’m thinking about him. I think the key to a healthy relationship is expressing mutual respect, compromise, open conversation, and both be willing to put some effort into making things work. If you think we have some interests or mind frame in common, let me know, I list a ton of interests here, and my mindframe about who I feel I click with. Do we share interests or values in common? For an idea of my values, you can take a look at my list of heroes. (If you know who these people are and what remarkable accomplishments they have done, that list is an insight to what I respect and admire.. not because he's an actor and racecar drive, but because he started a company who has donated hundreds of millions to charity, he's giving back to the community). In general, I think if people took the time to get to know each other (and to know themselves!) relationships would be healthier and happier. I prefer a healthy monogamous relationship rather than long term single :) I don't want to date forever, do you?!To everyone out there shy or hesitant to reach out to people here and in life's path... It's choice - not chance - that determines your destiny. true true :)Fyi who I don't feel I click with - super religious guys, men who don't like to get out and be active & adventurous (bike riding, trying new foods), nor big pot bellies and triple chins. An ideal first date would include the chance to talk, laugh, get to know each other :) These might be fun at some point:~Ice cream or gelato on a warm day :) ~Mojitos poolside ~Interesting beer or saké tasting~Comedy show; Art exhibit~Bowling or a water park for some good laughs :) ~A bike ride at the beach~A chill live band at a smaller venue ~Sushi; A bite to eat~Kayaking if we can find a place to go!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Avianna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let's start with if you don't have a picture on your profile and you're not going to send one with a message, please don't bother sending me a message because I won't reply. You can see what I look like so it's only fair.A bit about me. I have a passion for keeping fit and staying healthy. I work out on a regular basis and look for the same in a man. I'm looking for someone who is also athletic. If your body type anything other than athletic, I won't be interested. It seems not everyone has the same definition of athletic. My definition doesn't mean someone who is thin, it means muscular as in, more muscles than I have lol. Sorry but I'm picky and just being honest. Someone who goes to the gym also will understand why I love to go.I've been salsa dancing for over 5 years now and I really enjoy it. I don't get out dancing as often as I'd like.I'm very independent and I work hard at my job. There are times of the year that I work long hours and don't have a lot of spare time but even with that, I try to have good work/life balance. I like to play the guitar and I'm self taught. I'm not the best at it but I enjoy learning new songs. I'm also interested in photography and learning how to take better pictures. I don't always have time to get out and shoot, but I try do it on occasion.I'm not in a rush to jump into a serious relationship right now. I do want a relationship eventually but don't want to rush it. I'd rather create a friendship and see if that leads to anything else. I enjoy just staying at home to watch a movie and I like to go out on occasion too but I'm not really into the bar scene. While I do enjoy watching a few favorite tv shows, I also like to get out for physical activities as I'm not a couch potato :-)I like different kinds of music. I enjoy top 40, rock, country, some bluegrass (not the old twangy stuff). I'm not to fussy for heavy metal, rap and jazz.What I'm looking for in a man (probably what everyone else says too***Athletic (someone who goes to the gym)Kind heartedFunny/happySomewhat sensitiveNiceHonest/sincereNot a big drinkerSomeone who can dance (not a necessity but would be nice)RespectfulSomewhat romanticFinally, please don't be offended if I don't reply. There's no point in wasting someone's time if there isn't an interest from the person's profile. Perhaps meeting for a coffee or a walk.

  • Lacey

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ok.. If you really want to know.. Here it goes.. I'm a good person with a good heart .. I'm a rare breed.. Super loyal and honest. I hate liars, it's a pet peeve of mine. I believe that relationships are ***. I want to be treated like you want to be treated, with respect...I'm not one to have to go shopping for clothes or purses or have a shoes fetish. Like taking things from trash to treasure.. I'm super resourceful.. I'm also a farmers daughter. I love all types of music. I love to travel, specially weekend road trips on a whim, as well as kicking it at home, snuggled on the couch. I like old historical towns. I love watching football, people watching, movies, shows, concerts(never been to one, awkward, I know). Also like car shows, motorcycle shows, and boat shows. I want to eventually retire by water (that's my goal) lol. But all in all, I'm looking for a nice guy who has a good head on his shoulders, with a job and that can hold his own.. I love kids, even though I never had any of my own so a guy with kids is a plus, But not a big deal and no momma drama... I love to go and do fun things.. So he needs to be open minded. I'm a very passionate person, and would like to find a passionate guy also. Family and friends are everything to me, so I like to find a guy who feels the same.. So if this it up your ally, give me a message. I'm not looking for a f**k buddy or FWB or to be a mistress to a guy that's just getting back at his girlfriend or wife.. Nor, I will be a stand by while your thinking of getting back with your ex.. If this is you.. Continue on fishing.. I'm looking for a real gentleman. Good luck out there fishing for your prize catch.. I don't know.. I'm pretty simple.. But first impressions is key.. But want them to be themselves at the same time.. Just saying.

  • Katy

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-61

    Hi! My name is Katy. I am divorced protestant caucasian woman with kids from Laughlin, Nevada, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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