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Jenessa, 43

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About Me

I've learned to appreciate good people, avoid drama, enjoy the moment you're in :) I’m attracted to an active, down to earth guy who likes to get out and enjoy life :)Me ~ outgoing, grounded, logical, creative, passionate, fun, feisty, considerate. I appreciate people for being goodhearted, their smarts, goals, thinking outside the box, a willingness to take chances in life, optimistic attitudes, and preferring an active and productive lifestyle rather than being a couch potato on a gorgeous day. I'm attracted to a confident personality, a man with opinions, ideas, can make a plan, is communicative, comfortable in the kitchen and handy stuff around the house, as I am :) I definitely enjoy life and see the positive in things, and appreciate a man with an equally positive outlook :)I'd like to meet just one good guy who I click with, and can enjoy a fun day & good conversation with. We make a fun team, we can talk and are real friends, do fun outdoors stuff, go for a drive up the coast, stay in with a good movie, cook yummy meals together, share fun times with our friends, have weekend bbqs and dinner parties. I’m loyal, passionate, and when I like a guy, I’m affectionate and like to do little things letting him know I’m thinking about him. I think the key to a healthy relationship is expressing mutual respect, compromise, open conversation, and both be willing to put some effort into making things work. If you think we have some interests or mind frame in common, let me know, I list a ton of interests here, and my mindframe about who I feel I click with. Do we share interests or values in common? For an idea of my values, you can take a look at my list of heroes. (If you know who these people are and what remarkable accomplishments they have done, that list is an insight to what I respect and admire.. not because he's an actor and racecar drive, but because he started a company who has donated hundreds of millions to charity, he's giving back to the community). In general, I think if people took the time to get to know each other (and to know themselves!) relationships would be healthier and happier. I prefer a healthy monogamous relationship rather than long term single :) I don't want to date forever, do you?!To everyone out there shy or hesitant to reach out to people here and in life's path... It's choice - not chance - that determines your destiny. true true :)Fyi who I don't feel I click with - super religious guys, men who don't like to get out and be active & adventurous (bike riding, trying new foods), nor big pot bellies and triple chins. An ideal first date would include the chance to talk, laugh, get to know each other :) These might be fun at some point:~Ice cream or gelato on a warm day :) ~Mojitos poolside ~Interesting beer or saké tasting~Comedy show; Art exhibit~Bowling or a water park for some good laughs :) ~A bike ride at the beach~A chill live band at a smaller venue ~Sushi; A bite to eat~Kayaking if we can find a place to go!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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