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Shelli, 42

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About Me

Sooo, I've been on and off these wonderful online dating sites for a while and apparently I can't get enough because I'm back again ~ I've been told I'm really picky and I think that's ok...I hope all of you great guys are too! I am a happy, outgoing and independent person looking for a man who is stable and secure (has his "stuff" together). I am very loyal and faithful, witty, have a great sense of humor and love to make people laugh. My faith is important to me (and keeps me sane:)) and it is important for me to find a man with a belief and faith in God.....I love to travel, go out to dinner, dancing, etc. but I can also just as easily stay home, watch a movie and be perfectly content. I am a mother, part time model and a real estate agent and I am looking for someone who is willing to make me a priority ~ if you are emotionally unavailable or not looking for a relationship, don't have time for one or have a crazy ex~wife, please pass me by.....been there, done all of that and I'm at a good place emotionally and looking for something real....that seems to be very hard to find....UGH!Just FYI, NO PICTURES AND I WILL NOT RESPOND AND if I don't reply, please do not be offended or keep *** I know the type of guy I'm looking for and there's no sense wasting my time OR yours if I don't think there will be a connection......oh, and please be a real person and post pictures of you, not some hot guy you want to be...eventually, it will come out so why not be straight up from the get go.....just a thought!! :))I get a lot of *** what I am looking for in someone....I don't really have a "type" ~ just looking for a connection and chemistry and attraction ~ all of those are very important to me and should be to you! I want the whole package and someone who makes me laugh and I can be myself with but I want to be crazy attracted to my guy too.....I am not a fan of facial hair ~ scruff is good but goatees are not ...sorry! I will not date anyone in their 20s (way too old for that!) and if I can give some advice about profiles that is a big turnoff (maybe just to me but I doubt it!)......pictures that you take of yourself in the bathroom mirror ~ even worse are the ones you take in the bathroom mirror with your shirt off....leave a little to the imagination and keep your clothes on!~ those are creepy! We are on here to see if we are attracted to someone and I am not going to be attracted to your picture of the sky or your dog! Maybe these observations will help some of you rethink your profile so you can find the perfect girl for you! :)))I'm not looking for the perfect guy, just the perfect one for me...! A drink to see if there's chemistry and an attraction and if so, then maybe dinner....please do not ask me to coffee......and if you ask me to tea, odds are that my answer will be no...I love tea but that's just strange...!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Young

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I believe that no great relationship can last without true friendship. Looks bring people together but the personality and chemistry is what keeps the relationship going. Integrity, honesty and honor are qualities that mean something to me, hopefully this is you too? A great sense of humor will win me over and if you can't laugh at the situation, something is definitely wrong, I like to have fun and smile and enjoy life. I love relaxing by the river watching the boats and sunsets. I enjoy a date where we do something fun and spontaneous and if you like to dance and listen to live music that is a great bonus!I have a very strong Faith and God is #1 in my life. Hopefully there are a few men with Faith left? If you also like working out (running is great) .. I try to stay healthy but every once and awhile I gotta have Taco Bell, In and Out Burger or Pizza :) Age really isn't important because it is the maturity of the person in the body that makes the difference. I am not looking for a relationship with someone in their early 20's. Sorry but that is just tooooo young :) If you believe that a relationship is what happens on a one night stand...don't *** is NOT why I am here I am hoping to find a guy who is looking for more than a text buddy or someone to call when he has nothing else to do. I don't need a guy with me 7 days a week but going out once every other month is not enouugh time to grow any relationship. I am here looking to date and eventually and hopefully find someone who would like to get off this site with me and end the crazy shopping process.Thanks for viewing my profile and if I haven't scared you away by now, feel free to message me. I know I didn't say too much about myself but if there is something you have to know, just ask...(keep it respectful please) If you message me and I do not reply forgive me..If I feel an attraction and think we might connect I will reply :) Simple yet creative is best :) I think we will both know in the first 20 minutes if there is chemistry or not. No need to drag things out :)

  • Harmony

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi. Thought I would give this a shot. I am an independent woman who owns my own house, have a great job that I love and would like to find that missing part in my life, a partner..... I love to laugh and try not to sweat the small stuff. I can be a kid at times and just jump in a puddle because it's fun...... :-) I enjoy everything outdoors..... We can save the rest for later. We stil have to have something to talk about...

  • Lissette

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im brutally honest & say what's on my mind. I love music,movies& outdoors. I like to hangout with friends & my kids. If u want to know more ask. Looks aren't everything,but if I'm not attracted to u it won't work.. Looking for someone who treats people how they want to b treated. I think that every adventure in life is a learning experience, cuz successes & failures make u who u r. Anywhere we can get to know one another

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