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Fidelma, 41
United States, Nevada, Gardnerville

Offline, last seen Tue, 02 Jun 2026 05:59:00

About Me

I met someone on here & things were good for awhile. Then it happened & here I am again. This time I am taking it very slow. I am currently going back to school for my teaching degree taking classes online. My biggest fear is that I won't find the right man for me.I have just rededicated my life to God, and I am a better person for that. I am learning to read the Bible and actually enjoying it this time. I am not one of those people that will shove God down your throat, but I will tell you that my faith is strong.I love to read, go dancing, watch a good movie while cuddling on the couch, walks on the beach (day or night), playing cards, working out and spending time with my grandson & great niece's & nephew's. I am not afraid of a little hard work and I love to work out (don't like cardio so much), however, I am on the heavy side. Don't judge the cover before you know what is inside. I will work just as hard if not harder at most thing as a man will. I just have a hard time getting the weight off. I don't judge others and I hate being judged. I am a caring and loving person and I wear my heart on my sleeve. No matter how many times I get hurt. It is just the way I am. I would rather love with an open heart and get hurt then be cold and not give love or know it in return. Someday God will send me my perfect mate! I want to get to know someone really good this time. Spend time at his place and have him spend time at my place. I want to be friends first and then go from there. I want to laugh together, talk about our past, present, and future, and if it calls for it even cry together. Just have a good time spending time slowly getting to know each other. I wish you all the best of luck looking for that one good fish....... I know mine is out there Blind dates are hard, so lets meet casually, just chat and make it relaxing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Animation Thriller American Football Dirt Bike Racing Soccer / Football Poker
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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