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Shanda, 41

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UPDATED ***The white mountains are calling...hiking partner wanted... the foliage is awaiting! ;)By chance do you speak Spanish??...I could really use a handsome tutor to help me through this class!!! ;) lol~ ~ ~ HEY GUYS... I don't need just any man... I would like to find "the one"...so please... * it takes MORE than a" hi," OR a " how are you?" ***; to elicit a reply! ** If your profile states "currently separated" or "wants to date but nothing serious" PLEASE MOVE ON ***. please do not take this the wrong way, but my preference is CAUCASIAN :) ****and NO, I DO NOT want a "casual" encounter!!! (Tired of all ridiculous *** get so please do not waste my time with any of the above....promise you...your *** deleted!!)LET'S START AS FRIENDS WITH GOOD INTENTIONS...EVERY SOLID RELATIONSHIP NEEDS A STRONG FRIENDSHIP BASE...RESPECT AND TRUST MUST BE EARNED...AND ALL RELATIONSHIPS TAKE TIME, BUT CHEMISTRY IS A MUST!! :)I WILL NOT SETTLE...I AM LOOKING FOR THAT TRUE CONNECTION HEART AND SOUL! I WOULD RATHER STAY SINGLE THAN BE WITH THE WRONG PERSON. MY STYLE: I have been described as a chameleon of sorts...meaning I can fit into any surrounding... SO I hope you can hang in jeans(as most of you do so well, lol) or step it up a notch comfortably. SOCIAL/ACTIVITIES:I love camping, hiking, kayaking, cycling, the beach just as much as being in a dress/ heels having a dinner and attending a show at PPAC after. You get the point! I would love a guy with this versatility. I would also love to try some new adventures like SNOWSHOEING this winter too. Are you up for some dancing or live music? WARNING: I do love to dance!! How about social gatherings with friends/family? Quiet time together is a must too! Can you handle take out, a movie, and cuddling up in our comfy sweats on a rainy cold night? WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:CHARACTERISTICS: Like myself, I hope that you are respectful, romantic, honest, strong, passionate, inspiring and will challenge me to be a better person with you than I was alone. Hopefully, you are not afraid of a little PDA(public displays of affection) and/or to tell/show how you feel. Communication is so key!! A sense of humor is a definite plus too!! I can dish it and take it!! lolYes believe it or not, women really do want a nice guy! Are you the type of guy my mom would love and my father would respect? Do guys even care about those things any more? ****Remember the true character of a man is how he acts when he IS with you and how he acts when he is NOT with you!!**** A great love has that "chemistry" that even strangers can pick up on......the kind of love that make others envious. That's what I ultimately want... that one guy that just leaves me breathless, gives me butterflies, that special someone I could never imagine my life without. To me, a good relationship is equal parts love and lust ~ physically and mentally ~ Friends and lovers! Seriously, what a gift to find friendship and romance in the same persons smile!! :) SASSY, QUICK-WITTED FUN-LOVING AND SWEET I'M THE INCREDIBLE GIRL NEXT DOOR YOU JUST HAVE TO MEET A WELL KEPT SECRET AS MY MALE FRIENDS WOULD SAY I GUESS YOU'LL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU SEND AN *** I'M PASSIONATE IN ALL I DO AND EVERYTHING COMES FROM THE HEART ULTIMATELY, LOOKING FOR A LIFELONG RELATIONSHIP BUT GETTING TO KNOW ME IS A PERFECT WAY TO START!!! ********************************************************************** We are all here hopefully for the same reason ~I hope you find the one that completes you!! :) SO I WONDER: Will it be your eyes I get lost in from across our table for two? Will my hand fit in yours perfectly as we walk side by side? Will I feel safe and protected in your embrace? Will you be my last first kiss? Will you be the reason for the unexplained smile on my face? Will you be "not so perfect" but perfect for me? Hmm.. I guess we'll see!! ;) Remember...SMILE, its the second best thing to do with your lips!! ;) FYI: I DO NOT REPLY TO THE FOLLOWING: *mystery senders without a picture... *emails with text message short hand.. *inappropriate *** age or content.. PS if I have added you to my favorites its because you caught my eye and its my way of "bookmarking "your profile! ;) A first meeting and a first date of course are two different things. A FIRST MEETING: something with no pressure, no expectations...why not enjoy an ice cream and a nice walk or a coffee/tea at a quant coffee house~lets see if we connect and have dating chemistry...if not, no harm , no foul..maybe you make a friend right?!If the chemistry is there ...A FIRST DATE: . that is strickly custom fit. It will depend on the person, personality and our mood.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claris

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an adventurous, fun-loving, independent woman looking for a man that truly wants a meaningful, long term, committed relationship.....so I guess I need a good tour guide to show me all the beautiful sights this province has to offer.My ideal match must be willing to have too much fun, laugh uncontrollably and get out there and live life to the fullest cause if you don't it's just going to pass you by. You need to have a sense of humour. Dance like no one is watching I say!A few random things about moi....I'm terrified of the dentist. I am an dog lover! Big time! I hate celeryI have a feet phobiaI think bacon makes anything taste better :)I love shoes and I think it's a shame I can only wear one pair at a timeI sometimes swear too muchI hate wearing lipstickI have visible tattoos (apparently that's an issue for some men, although I can't understand why...kinda narrow-minded but hey to each their own I suppose :))....I love my ink and damn proud to show it off.)Contrary to popular BC belief, pot is, in fact, a drug and I am NOT ***friendly. Drugs of any kind have absolutely no place in my life and I expect the same of a potential partner. I take good care of myself physically. I took up running and found it does wonders for the body and mind, as cheesy as that may sound.!!I recently bought a road bike so I'm looking forward to getting more involved with cycling. :)I have a rather sarcastic sense of humour and I like to laugh...alot!! I am looking for someone who is active but who also likes to relax on the sofa and watch a movie sometimes. I want someone who takes pride in their appearance but is not narcissistic. I want someone who respects me and allows me to be the goofball that I am without judgement! Being a romantic wouldn't be such a bad thing either! I would love to meet someone who is spontaneous. I can be a bit of a planner so it would be nice to be with someone who brings out that different side of me!I love mafia movies.....Godfathers....all of them....even #3....Goodfellas or anything like that are my favorites but don't get me wrong, I like a good chick flick too!I love, love, love to cook! I enjoy testing out new ingredients without a cookbook and just see where it goes! If it doesn't work, I can always order pizza! LOLI love to travel. My dream trip would probably be Spain or Tahiti!! Hopefully someday I will get to both places!!If any of this is interesting to you, send me a message! I would love to hear from you. I'm up for anything except a movie or anywhere you can't talk to the person you're with. How can you possibly get to know more about someone on the first date sitting in silence????A fun first date for me would be a tour of a winery, some wine tasting then dinner. The winery tour helps break the ice so by the time we get to dinner we are comfortable with each other!!

  • Kinsey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Iam Fun, Very Loyal,I love to enjoy the nice weather, Love spending time with people that make me laugh! Collect Tattoos and am a Jane of all trades!Iam Very Independant and I say things rather than just think them... I dont Like creepy People...And when I say creepy I really mean creepy.... ( Like do NOT message me and talk about sex) Thats just weird!I have more guy friends then i do Gals.... Anyone I choose to date I must find attractive (Thats a broad spectrum. I like TALL men and tend to date people YOUNGER than me ***...I would never seek out a couch potato.. I like A MAN! Can you fix things? I like exploring, laughing, camping, Other than that im not convinced you can meet your soul mate online but what the heck do I know :)Just like meeting new people and hang out!PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF YOU ARE NOT IN MY AGE GROUP!!! ( Meaning my dating age group or at least close) PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PROFILE PICTURE!PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE A DECADE OLDER THAN ME AND HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH ME JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK IM HOT, SEXY, BEAUTIFUL, BLAH BLAH BLAH! I will not respond to any messages of those in nature....Iam covered in tattoos but yet iam a classy PTA Mother as well, If you have a negative opinion on girls with Tattoos please do not bother messaging me....If your famous pick up line is going to be "hey I like your Ink" Dont bother.... Theres a lot more to talk about now days other than Tattoos! :) Any first dates if i were to try it out would be in a public place that is kicked back & comfy for both! And When meeting someone new for the first time I dont realyy consider it a "Date"

  • Ambrosia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am the mother of 3 wonderful girls, who are my life but getting older and not needing mom so much...So it's time for mom to find someone to hold hands with, cuddle and stay up all night just talking too.. Honesty is a given to me and must be for you..I love the beach day or night, and doing the family thing...Spend a lot of time outside doing many activities except camping....I run 3 to 4 times a week but mostly as a stress relief not so much to stay in shape.I believe in being a good person and absolutely believe in Karma. Eating healthy and taking care of muself is important to me...I love to cook but would love someone to cook with..BBQ ing and hanging out with friends and family is a good Sunday...I am italian and have very strong family values...If you are looking to play games or a one night stand , just keep going as I am interested in finding the man I cant wait to wake up with every morning and go to sleep with every night. I can make a PB and J sandwich or host a party for ***with ease.. If you are the man I can look across a crowded room of our family and friends and lock eyes with you and know how spectacular things will be when we are alone later then please don't be shy...Send me a message..Feel free to ask me anything but always be ready for the truth...good, bad or indifferent...Good Luck to all !!!! Surprise me !!

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