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Aleah, 43

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About Me

Please READ my profile..If you can't handle a successful woman and all that comes with it....It won't work. * I'm not trying to be ugly, but it's my preference and a waste of time contacting me if otherwise.*I am diverse and well rounded. I embrace all life brings and stay busy. Between children and business I work very hard. Being the best person/parent I can be is very important to me. I enjoy my downtime. I love the ocean... I love to travel, I am... adventurous, smart, witty, loyal, outgoing, sweet, kind, confident, generous, loving, affectionate, love to laugh and not being treated like a lady is a deal breaker. I love intellectual conversation...I can go from a ball cap to a ball gown. I'm very down to earth and always try to see the positive side in any situation. God is at the center of my life.I am always open to learning and exploring new things and places. I am a self starter, philanthropist and entrepreneur. I have many different interests, far too many to list here.Please have a pic on your profile, after all initial chemistry is where it starts.I deplore liars. I will not date anyone under 5'10. My preference...Attracted to 5'***'6 tall (I'm 5'7 put on a pair of heels=tall) I am not interested in dating anyone younger than me. There is no wisdom greater than experience. I am attracted to self confident men, not arrogant, there is a big difference. Presence is a must. If you're insecure, I am not the one for you. My guy has to be loving and compassionate, but strong enough to handle me. Looking for quality individuals to spend time with and get to know starting as friends. Live by the Golden Rule...God is in charge of my life and has blessed me many times over. I am not perfect by any means, but strive to be my best. Actions speak louder than words. Control freaks.....Move on!As for you, your sense of humor will make me cry, your intelligence will keep me riveted, your smile will become an indelible image in my mind, and your eyes will reveal your love of humanity. You are never fake or pretentious - it's just not who you are. Your creativity in any way, music, writing, designing, technology, building, painting, hands that heal or words that move people, will capture my curiosity. You naturally have a way of bringing out the best in me and those around you. Being self driven and motivated, you have achieved and take pride in what you do and what you have accomplished. You also know the importance of balance of work and play and the impact of that within your life and that of others around you. Mostly, I would love to find someone that is my best friend, lover, confidante, as well as makes me laugh..loosen up, life doesn't have to be soooo serious all the time! Don't get me wrong, I have serious,deep side, but I love to enjoy life, family, friends and laughter is key. Men, if you are searching for the perfect body and size 2, I am not the women for you.If that's not ok, then pass me by...I'm not looking for the shallow Hal's of the world. ..I'm 43, beautiful, charming, funny, sexy, successful, smart, very smart, an incredible kisser and mother of three! I'm a real women and not trying to be a plastic barbie that's 25 yrs old... I was an All American athlete in 2 sports, basketball and track; a 2time gold medalist in the Jr. Olympics in the ***meters and long jump...a LONG TIME ago...Being at that level fuels me...who I am and responsible for much of my success, but I'm not in shape now. This is just where I am at this particular time in my life. I'd rather spend my extra time being a mother to my children! I believe in honesty...so there ya go! Yes, there must be attraction, but not perfection, nobody's perfect, including you. If you don't like me calling it like it is....good then, Quality Control ;) Honesty is the best policy :) My pics are CURRENT...are yours?Lastly, as direct as this profile comes across, I am quite soft, sweet and tender to those I let in my world and would do anything for those I love!A few fav quotes:How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.~; joy's soul lies in the doing.~William Shakespeare“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"~ ~ With the right person anything can be fun! Coffee, lunch or dinner. You typically know right away if there is chemistry or not. No pressure and laid back. Intimate setting so we can talk and get to know each other. Stroll on the beach, a sunset, a glass of wine, dinner in a small quaint cafe, coffee.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Please let me start off by saying Hi, nice to meet ya. Now to the gritty details of one's expectations from the meetville life. I have been on and off this site for a while. Mostly I kick back and read profiles. I am gun shy here! Reason being is for the one's who would never speak to the females in their family or would like for the females in their family to be spoken to an a manner that is unbecoming. First, If you are looking for a one night stand, move on. If you want to send messages that no one can make out, don't send me one. Don't have the first words out of your mouth something nasty and sexual. If you want to take the time to get to know me then drop me a line. Things about me, Yes I have KIDS, They live with me full time!! If that is a problem bye bye. I am not a mom that will be leaving my kids off in the middle of the night when I first talk to you on here for some booty call. Next, I have drama in my life. Sorry, for all of you that don't; it's cause you are having it dropped off at my door step. I am a college student. If you can not handle me not getting back to you when you think I should. Sorry, I pay for my classes and there fore I want to pass. Things that come first in my life and in this order is GOD, My Kids, 2nd amendment, school. If you have a hard time dealing with that. There are other women out there for ya. I like all kinds of music. I like to dance. I like all kinds of stuff and I like to learn new things. Yes, I can spend the day, night or whatever outside without being all upset. I can dress up and be a knock out. So If I haven't scared you off by now, drop me a line. I do try my best to reply to all that I get. So, have fun searching. Remember to be kind to others and most important of all "Get Where You Need To Be"! For a first date, maybe a movie, dinner & some conversation.

  • Scout

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am testing the waters.. again... Online dating can be such a crock. You ask for one thing then get another. Is it too much to ask for someone who says what they mean and means what they say? I don't judge (we've all had our struggles), I won't try to change you, I am fairly sane (or so I've been told) and I accept and understand that everyone has some kind of baggage. Respect yourself and respect me as well as my time. We only get so much time on this planet and mine is important to me so I don't want to waste it. I have a few extra pounds but I'm committed to working hard to take care of them. I do eat right and exercise. I've just begun another round of P90X (yes I've completed two rounds of it as well as 1 round of Insanity) I just let myself slide backward a little ***pounds but I've taken it in hand :) If you can't handle that I'm interested in being healthy but still have some work to do then you can move on. I ran my first adventure race, the Gladiator Run and I absolutely loved it. I'll do it.. I have that much commitment ;)I want someone I can be friends with, laugh with, run with, and travel with. No I don't want to go to the same place over and over... let's try something new! And please... be honest about your status as a social drinker, again.. the time thing and wasting it. I don't want to sit at home and watch you get hammered every day... there is a huge world out there. I plan on seeing and enjoying it.I come into this with no expectations other than finding some cool people to hang out with. surprise me - why don't we call it a meet then we can decide if it's a date later ;)

  • Dandrenor

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very open, honest, caring, loyal, and FUN person! I'm always smiling and want to make everyone smile around me. I enjoy going out with friends and family. Like I said, I am a true redhead, and that I think makes me special. You don't find many of us out there and I have the attitude to match, sassy! I like country music and pop, but will listen to almost anything. I play in a pool league and have been doing so for about 3 years now. I am loooking to find a companion, someone I can share my life with and enjoy each others company. So if I've piqued your interest so far, then let me know. I would love to go out to eat, play some pool, listen to the jukebox, and get to know each other.

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