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Jonquil, 41

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About Me

My younger brother calls me the "glue" of the family. My father raised me to be independent and able to defend myself. My mother raised me to find the good in others and spread joy to those who need it.I enjoy meeting new people. I believe we are all different for a reason and we should seek the uniqueness in others. I won't pretend to be someone I'm not. I believe we should laugh every chance we get, apologize when we should and let go of what we cannot change. There's not one of us better than another or less than another. Material things are the least important in my life. Having nice things is nice. Having loving friends and family is what matters.Goals: My number one goal right now is to raise my 10-year old daughter to be a respectful and respected, happy young lady. I want her to learn how to love life, find her true self and be her true self. Interests:Working Out - I recently started running and working out. I've never had a weight problem, but at 40 I figure I might ought to start preventative measures. :-) Plus it just feels good to be fit. Eating/Cooking - I have always enjoyed being in the kitchen and experimenting with food. I won't claim to be the best cook, but I enjoy it. Seeing people enjoy what I cook brings a big smile to my face. I believe in eating healthy, but we have to have those occasional indulgences. The grill is my friend. Eating out is nice on occasion, but getting together with the grill is more fun to me. Dancing - My passion during my 20's and 30's was country dancing. I used to dance several nights a week...haven't danced much in the last 3 years though. Fishing - LOVE fishing! Any kind. A bad day fishing is better than a good day most other places. Haven't had the opportunity for it lately and that's just a darn shame.Outdoors - I really like most anything outdoors...camping, hunting, hiking, tubing (and, of course, fishing). Not afraid to get dirty.Music - I like music of all kinds, from *** to country to rock to jazz... (not much interest in rap or that crazy metal stuff, though)Photography - This is something I thoroughly enjoy, but just haven't made the time for it. I do make sure that my daughter and I take a road trip every spring through the hill country area to get pictures.Football is my favorite season. GO COWBOYS! (You can't hold that against me.)What I'm looking for:I know what I want. I want to be with someone who is happy with himself, confident but not self absorbed. A sense of humor is a must. I may be an independent tomboy, but I am very much woman and desire a masculine gentleman. Knowing how to balance responsibility and playing is a must. I don't do the jealousy thing...either way. I expect total honesty, as that is what I give.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jedidah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi!! I am an extremely honest, blunt woman, who is the mother of two very special children. They are my whole world and the man I meet must love children.Family is number one in my book!!! Hopefully you will feel the same, if not keep fishing. I am an extremely independent woman. I am not looking for a man who can take care of me, I am looking for a life partner....someone to share life with and someone to grow old with.I’m pretty much an easy going girl. I love the little things. I love to get all dressed up for an exciting night on the town but also enjoy just snuggling and watching a movie. I'm also the sort of girl who likes her chair pulled out, door opened and all the things that go with chivalry.I have a close knit group of friends, who mean the world to me and I enjoy spending time with them. We love to travel together....weekend trips, camping or hotels.I like all types of music from classic rock to some hip hop and a little bit of country (NOT MUCH) but am willing to tolerate it.I’m looking for my best friend, someone to share life's pleasures and treasures with. A partner to grow old with and enjoy life and love with. However, I enjoy my independence and will not put up with someone being clingy and possessive. If you have drama please don’t bother contacting me. I like to save my drama for the movies. I’d love to find someone who wouldn’t mind sitting on the couch curled up in each others arms with candles lit, a good bottle of wine, listening to good music or watching a movie. I’m not that hard to please! Oh and seriously to all you football and hockey fans....Yes I will watch sports with you....but I, for the life of me don't understand football. LOL I am looking for a man who is kind, gentle, fun loving, humorous, family oriented and is honest. I don't care what you do for a living as long as you are self-sufficient and motivated to do something.I am not looking for a one night stand, so if that is all you are interested in, please move on!!Hope to hear from you soon!!! Don't be shy!BTW...I am 42 not 40. Meeting for an ice cap or hot chocolate Or coffee would be great...doing something where we can chat and get to know each other...perhaps a walk along the green.

  • Seema

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well just a girl looking for a guy for friendship and whatever comes my way.Long term relationship over for awhile but want to take things slow.I have a great career that keeps me very busy and on the road quitea bit. Sorry if I don't feel we might have a connection please don't take it personally if I do not respond . Everyone is so nice . Just overwhelming to answer the *** If and when we connect I will explain why my age is wrong. I'm actually 54 .

  • Madge

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am easy to get along with. However I can be blunt and to the point, and don't care for any bull. I'm a single mother and I don't have a lot of time to waste, so i try to make it count. My spare time includes watching movies, walking and spending time with family and friends. Want to know more, ask. what I am looking for.. someone taller. Smart, have a job (no I do not need you to support me.. but I do want you to support yourself). I like someone who is serious but has a sense of humor. I am not looking for mr. perfect. just someone for meWould prefer to, after a minimum of ***, meet face to face, if interested. simple, easy

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