SIMILAR PEOPLE
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LeannOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
UPDATE>>>>-)You know,it would probably save us all a lot of wasted hours on dates if when we first meet,we kissed *** going through a whole bunch of hrs on a date only to find out that we're not attracted to one another.If when we meet we DON'T want to kiss each other..Game over...end date...lol...Just a goofy thought ;-).I am single have 2 boys and run a small organic farm. I enjoy anything to do with the out doors.I live simply,modestly and frugally.I love live music,concerts,festivals and camping.I want someone who wants to be outside a lot.I am very easy going and drama free...I have found that what interests me most are the men that are super kind,patient,sweet looking/acting(bad boys need not message me) and truly are interested in getting to know me. I am a good person and I'm just looking for what most everyone else is looking for .Willing to travel to find it.I have come to this conclusion about how I would date in the future.I have children,but you will probably never meet them unless we become something serious,meaning we will have had to be dating for quite some time..I just feel it's very irresponsible to introduce your kids to someone who may not be there long term and I have just about every weekend free so there is no need to involve them.I enjoy a vast amount of activities and I am open to just about anything except sitting in front of the tube watching tv for days on end and watching someone play video games for the same amt of time.Surely there are better things to do that don't involve electronics and I love it all.I am not a couch potato and am very active.I would love to meet someone who has the same thoughts about these things as I do.I found this excerpt online somewhere and had I not read it,I may not have ever "got back in the game".I think it pertains to most of us on here so I'll share :-)The heart is not safeLove is not safe. Relationships are not safe. It is not safe to give your heart to anyone or anything. But, you didn't come here to be safe. You came here to live and love. You can not live and love and protect your heart at the same time.If you truly love animals and fill your life with pets, you will have to watch them grow old, get sick and die. If you have children, you will have to watch them be hurt by others, fail at some things and perhaps they will get sick and die before you do too.People leave, break promises, fall short of your expectations of them, lie, cheat and are often weak. And even if they behave perfectly, it may hurt you that they go off to work without you each day. Friends sometimes move far away. Life cant be controlled. The ego is very easily disappointed and disturbed by change. The problem is not that people are so full of character defects nor that life is so unpredictable. The problem is that so many humans think they can protect their hearts and still love. But this is impossible.Love is about taking down the fences from around your heart knowing that not only is it possible that you may be hurt- its a guarantee. This tiny little protected "self" is definitely going to be hurt no matter what. Even if you pull back and put yourself on the bench- still, there will be a long dull ache from withholding from what you came here to do.Love is the greatest sport in the world and like most sports you're gonna get dirty and have some injuries. But, what fun to get off the bench and get into the game!! Remember, you didn't come here to be an observer. You didn't come her to be in the audience watching from the stands. You came here to play. The only thing that's different is that in this game there is no competition, no winners, no losers. This sport is about exercising the heart- the love muscle.So, sometimes you may need a little time out to sit on the bench and get your knees wrapped and have a few sips of water and catch your breath. That's cool. But, don't sit too long. Don't let yourself get stiff and cranky. Get back out there and feel the thrilling rush of playing. The little self is never safe, but the real you can never be hurt.. I am easy going...someplace public.
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CarmaOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Some things you may want to know about me is that I care deeply about those I love, willing to communicate openly and be there when you need me. Things I want are respect, honesty and affection. I think intelligence is sexy. I think it is important to show interest in your partners involvements. I like to think I am stylish. I learn from my mistakes and hope to not make the same one twice. I tend to speed while driving(have a lot of experience talking my way out of a speeding ticket). I think laughter is the best medicine. I not here for hook ups but can offer a healthy attitude towards intimacy when the time is right. I cherish my dog who always cheers me up. Life is too short to live with regrets.
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LiviaOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
So, I'm trying this again with the belief that the guy for me is out there. I'm looking for someone who wants to meet their soulmate and is willing to put the time into getting to know me as I would with them. If you're old enough to possibly be my father or (ick my grandfather) then please move on. Same if you're married or recently separated. I'm not looking for a one off, a 'friends with benefits' relationship or someone who thinks asking about my sex life on a chat is a way to get to know me. So if you still feel after that statement, you might be interested, here's a bit about me.My friends would describe me as loyal, honest, a great listener, confident and fun to be around. I have opinions, but know when to keep them to myself. For the most part non-judgemental,at some point, we all judge others. I've always thought of myself as a homebody, just because I don't need to be out shopping, bar hopping all the time. I've been out dancing once since I moved here almost 5 years ago, had a great time! But feel no great need to do it every weekend. I do enjoy going to a movie once in awhile, maybe to a house party or bbq. I'm not materialistic and place a lot of value on how people treat others. ONE of my favourite ways to spend a stormy day is snuggled up watching a movie. I don't play games with someone's emotions and do my best to say what I mean and mean what I say. If we meet and I'm interested, you'll know. I don't go in for any of that 'wait for 3 days' nonsense. I also believe the greatest attribute you can bring to any relationship is honesty.I'm a firm believer that even if you're crazy about each other, it's healthy to need time apart. If you're a hunter(bonus because I love game meat), fisherman, or have a standing guys night/weekend thing, cool. My thoughts on going to pubs/bars with your/my friends is, 'go, have a great time and don't do anything you wouldn't do if your girl/guy was out with you.'You're thinking this girl is too good to be true!!!Still reading?So, what do I find attractive in a guy? Depends on the guy really. That being said, it does come down to personality, morals and whether or not you can carry on a conversation and if you know what it means to be a gentleman. While there has to be a physical chemistry between us, we also have to find each other emotionally and intellectually attractive. I understand if you prefer not to have a publicly posted image, but please include one in a message or I likely won't respond.It's always easy to find someone to do something with. It's hard to find someone you can have fun doing nothing with. The meet me feature doesn't seem all that reliable. Please feel free to just say hi!