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Serafina, 41
United States, New Mexico, Sunland Park

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About Me

I am a fiercely independent woman. I love dancing, long baths and reading, watching movies, trips to the beach (which I do not get to do nearly enough), spending time with my kids, drinks on the deck in nice weather and basically just being out with friends. I love doing anything outdoors - camping, rafting, deep sea fishing, hanging out at the beach, whatever, I just like being outside- in the NICE weather. To date, Cabo is my favorite place. Would still love to go to Europe though. As for inside activities, I love to cook and I am pretty good at it. I like dancing, reading and working out. My son and daughter are the most important things in the world to me and they come first.. My son is 8 years old and my daughter is 5 going on 16. She is a LOT like her mommy and really independent and outgoing. She is going to be my payback for being the wild child. I am the middle girl of three girls and the only one to get in trouble, sneak out.... basically the black sheep of the three girls. But at least now I can say I am the only one that has worked hard for the things she owns. (again independent). I am really outgoing and have a sense of humor, I am respectful, loyal, hard working, supportive, and I have a big heart. I love my friends and spending time with them. I would do anything for the people I care about. Family means the world to me. My sister is one of my best friends and I can always count on her to pick me up or make me laugh when needed. I believe in the old fashioned way of dating. Where the man calls the woman a few days prior to going out, makes the date and then picks her up and takes her out. I hate how things have gotten to texting and people thinking that is romantic. I guess I am a romantic at heart. Who I am looking for.... I would really just like to find a nice, mature, funny person to spend some time with. A must is someone with a job. I am not too picky but it is pretty much a deal breaker for me if you don't have one. :-) Fifteen years ago, you couldn't tell me I would be ok with being single with two kids, but I am. I am totally content and happy with my two beautiful kids but wouldn't be opposed to finding a good man to spend some time with. A first date would be something fun with someone fun. Maybe going to dinner and having a little wine and then do something where we could get to know each other without it being too serious. Perhaps going to play miniature golf, bowling, going out on the lake or to an amusement park. It would be filled with laughing, flirting and chemistry. My date would pick me up, open the door for me and then drop me off after with a nice kiss.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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