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Adelyn, 44

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About Me

FYI: I do not date outside my race.Hey there! My hearts been broken more times in the year and a half I've been on this site than it has my entire life. One of the most important things that makes up a strong, successful relationship is honesty and this site does not have an ounce of it..........It's this simple guys......I want a RELATIONSHIP that's fun, exciting, adventurous, trusting, honest, fulfilling, full of laughter and smiles and eventually love. About me......I'm a strong, confident, independent, self-sufficient and educated woman., and I love it. I'm very dedicated and loyal to my job(as I am in my personal life), and I work as much as they need me to. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls, 23 and 17. They no longer live at home, but they remain my life, my world, and my everything. They will ALWAYS come before anyone or anything. My motto is "I don't NEED a man......I WANT a man." When I have free time, I enjoy all the typical outdoor things......beaches, mtns, hiking, camping, fishing, canoeing, walking and amusement parks. I am committed to my weight loss so I try to walk everyday and I enjoy my P90X workouts. I have lost ~55lbs so far....looking to lose about 30 more. My one true passion in life is troubled children. I am very liberal so I believe in helping children grow into who they are not controlling them like their possessions. We don't accept being controlled so why should they have to. My dream one day is to be their support and their voice when adults won't listen.What kind of man can tickle my fancy.........Your not afraid to exploreYour open minded, out-going, adventurous, FUN and satisfyingMost importantly.....your not one sided Your confident and don't feel the need to control the relationshipYour compassionate, considerate and caringYour supportive, sensitive and unselfishA few things to remember before you message me.......Say what you mean and mean what you sayDon't come on strong if you don't want it in returnTreat me with the same respect you demand.......if you don't demand respect, don't message meSex and Nude Pics are things you earn.......your not entitled toDon't push your way into my world......I will let you in when I'm readyIf your a male chauvinistic pig.....don't message me. I have no time for archaic ways of lifeI am looking for what everyone ultimately wants.....love, friendship, companionship, happiness and laughter. I'm just not chasing it anymore. If you are looking for a woman like me and are seeking a long term relationship, let's talk and see what happens.I won't be any mans half-time, down-time, spare-time or sometimes. So don't waste my time."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Soledad

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I consider myself lucky to have great friends, two beautiful daughters and a job I look forward to every day. The only thing missing is someone to share it with and that is why I'm here. Where else can you sit at an outdoor bar with a cold beer in your hand and listen to live music all year around?? I am self sufficient and self confident and need the same in a partner. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and if you can appreciate that, I will keep you laughing. I love movies and go as often as I can. While I don't feel the need to go clubbing every day, I do enjoy getting out and dancing when I can....except during football season where I can be found at Brus. I am a huge football fan and am already suffering from withdrawal now that the season is over....for my team at least :) I don't need you to be a big sports fan but if you'll sit and watch the games with me, that would be great! I exercise as often as I can and try to eat healthy. I am not an amazing chef by any stretch but I love being in the kitchen cooking with someone else. I am a hopeless romantic and still believe that hopelessly, madly in love is a wonderful place to be. I am a happy person pretty much all the time and try to surround myself with people that have the same outlook. I don't make big things out of small things and I have no interest in drama. I believe it is remembering the little things in a relationship that make it successful and long lasting. I have done the online thing on and off for a while and it seems to have become less about finding someone and more a contest of numbers. I am in no rush to find a boyfriend or to get married again but I am on here with the intention of finding a relationship so please do not contact me if that is not your intention as well. The reality is that no matter how perfect someone seems on paper, you really won't know until you meet and see if you have that spark. Any place where you can sit, relax and actually hear each other speak makes for a great first date.

  • Sherell

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a veterinarian who is looking for a solid relationship with a smart, sweet, sexy and financially sound man! I want to be able to take fun trips, have intelligent conversation and have great passion with someone I adore. The hard part about internet dating is chemistry. I am looking for someone who is physically handsome and mentally sound but has a great personality too!! I also want a man who is evolved and has worked through his issues because we all have them and being self aware is important to having a healthy relationship with another person. If I don't have that physical connection or spark it is not going to go anywhere. I am attracted to men who take care of their body like I do. I also need someone who is educated and has good work ethic like I do. I am attracted to a man who knows how to romance a woman and is a gentleman!! Beach bums or men that are just coasting in life is not the right fit for me! Thank you for visiting my profile!

  • Joandra

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am driven and motivated and yet still have a soft, very feminine side that loves for a man to take charge. I have never been married, don't have any children and have a wonderful career which keeps me very independent. I am very happy with my life and have been extremely fortunate for all I have experienced; however I am ready to meet someone who shares similar interests, morals and values who could ultimately end up being my long term partner and best friend. I grew up in the Northeast and have have lived all over the country. About 9 years ago, I moved to S.;home". I love the sun and warm weather that allow me to play tennis, golf and waterski year-round. I hope to meet someone who loves to ski/snowboard too! I would like to meet someone who is career oriented, driven and motivated in their pursuits, who loves to play sports and who enjoys the outdoors. I am extremely active and have a hard time just sitting on the couch. I enjoy exploring really good wine and dining at fine restaurants, traveling, attending cultural events and going to the theatre. I would prefer to find someone who does not smoke, appreciates a healthy lifestyle and values health and fitness. I'm looking foward to meeting my match sometime soon; I welcome hearing from you!

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