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About Me

Even if you know in your heart you made the right decision to end your last relationship and be alone it is still hard to be without a special someone. To quote one of my favorite 80's movies, "I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones.” Kids, Family, and Friends of course fill some of the void but there is nothing that replaces a special person in your life. A person who you cant wait to see, who will treat you just as wonderful as you in turn will treat them, someone who you cant wait to crawl in bed with at night and be in their arms. Someone who causes you to unconsciously smile when you think of them during the day and especially when they walk into the room. Someone who knows all your flaws and faults and loves you even more because of them.That being said... I am ***,7 Blonde with Green Eyes. I am adventurous and athletic, I love to try new things, love to travel love to be surprised. I am a Scorpio which I think makes me passionate for those I love and loyal to those I am friends with. I am not into what you drive or what you have so if you are superficial and want a shallow girl that is only impressed by these things then I am not for you. I am just as comfortable in the gym with no makeup as I am dressed up for a night out.. I would love to meet in a crowded place and see if out of all the people in the room you in fact feel a connection, right when you see each other for the first time. For it is this initial attraction that is a very big piece of the puzzle for me. Then after that is established maybe retreat to a quiet area where we can share a bottle of wine and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jolynn

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! My name is Jolynn. I am separated spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Roswell, New Mexico, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kath

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.

  • Toni

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let's have FUN AND ROMANCE...I hope you are a man who smiles and shares easily, appreciates and looks for the positives, and feels good about yourself, your life, and life, and are ready to move on (not let your past or present hold you back), and you truly want to build and maintain a PASSIONATE relationship and, even better, could want marriage and becoming a family together (of course with "The "Right" One"). I really am someone who is seeking "to settle down, but still not settle" (often reminding myself it IS worth the wait and about my past smart choices). While dating and great connection, gotta stay honest, direct, and respectful, and appreciative (of course again). I am emotionally AND lifestyle available and hope you are and that your life is well-rounded, too:)....More:***I'm pretty much "the girl next door, who has a fun "firey-side" ;)".... I hope you (like me:***are articulate and COMMUNICATE WELL AND EASILY, intelligent, have an easy sense of humor and like and understand puns and like well-timed, never rude sarcasm; are positive (NOT a "fault-finder"); can really have FUN (without being an adrenaline junkie, and are proud of your age/aging); can relax (not just when "you're tired" :)); accept that no one/nothing is perfect; are confident (not arrogant); understanding, loving, and compassionate; are sincere and considerate (no matter what), easily purely nice to others, honest, fair, and trustworthy (you know who you are); are trusting and secure (can't do clingy or insecure); ARE spiritual and not very religious; are truly naturally romantic, sexy and sensual, expressive, and affectionate; are NOT into drama (or playing games-- that aren't mutually fun >:) ); and have magnetic charm/charisma and use it well (you know who you are)!Let's help each other's lives be and stay EVEN happier :) together....Notice : No permission granted to use any part of my profile or pictures in any form or forum. Copyright to all photos and my personal narrative reserved. We'll figure it out on the phone talking (not texting) together. If not just lunch or dinner (NOT a "coffee place" and NOT a "walk on the beach" to first meet (lol)), then let's do something from our "interests and hobbies lists on here". Maybe more than "just "life-story-talk (lol)"", we could do something with more activity. Whatever it is we do, let's discuss our likes and dislikes and dealbreakers and show that we can and :) will treat each other right/amazingly.....

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