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Soledad
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I consider myself lucky to have great friends, two beautiful daughters and a job I look forward to every day. The only thing missing is someone to share it with and that is why I'm here. Where else can you sit at an outdoor bar with a cold beer in your hand and listen to live music all year around?? I am self sufficient and self confident and need the same in a partner. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and if you can appreciate that, I will keep you laughing. I love movies and go as often as I can. While I don't feel the need to go clubbing every day, I do enjoy getting out and dancing when I can....except during football season where I can be found at Brus. I am a huge football fan and am already suffering from withdrawal now that the season is over....for my team at least :) I don't need you to be a big sports fan but if you'll sit and watch the games with me, that would be great! I exercise as often as I can and try to eat healthy. I am not an amazing chef by any stretch but I love being in the kitchen cooking with someone else. I am a hopeless romantic and still believe that hopelessly, madly in love is a wonderful place to be. I am a happy person pretty much all the time and try to surround myself with people that have the same outlook. I don't make big things out of small things and I have no interest in drama. I believe it is remembering the little things in a relationship that make it successful and long lasting. I have done the online thing on and off for a while and it seems to have become less about finding someone and more a contest of numbers. I am in no rush to find a boyfriend or to get married again but I am on here with the intention of finding a relationship so please do not contact me if that is not your intention as well. The reality is that no matter how perfect someone seems on paper, you really won't know until you meet and see if you have that spark. Any place where you can sit, relax and actually hear each other speak makes for a great first date.
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Kath
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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Beckah
Online
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Single lady looking for a down to Earth guy with a good sense of humor and varied interests. I love singing, I just started dabbling in it over a year ago and I go to meet up groups for singing, it's a lot of fun. I am an animal lover too, and take my pups to the park or to outside cafes to enjoy their lives too! No movies or loud clubs.. You should be able to converse without yelling. Coffee houses are always a nice and relaxed place to meet too.