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Timika, 41
United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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About Me

About ME: I'm brand new to internet dating. I can offer the right man beauty, brains and personality. I am real in all senses mof the word. All natural parts (no silicone or surgical interventions/inventions) from my nose to my toes, and my personality is real as well--honest, authentic and down-to-earth. Most of all, I am a real woman who likes to be treated as such- like a lady. I was raised in the south. I'm well-mannered, and while I'm a modern woman, I'm old-fashioned when it comes to dating. I believe in the biological imperative that a man should pursue a woman. I love to flirt and I enjoy "the dance". ( that is not to say I'm into games or play hard to get, etc), rather evolution just doesn't work that fast. am a romantic, but also a realist,and I do believe in happy endings. Chemistry is everything. I don't like talking oni the phone or texting too much. I'd much rather be with you in person to see if there's a "spark" there. The song "It's In His Kiss," is exaclty right, and that's as far as I go on a first date. I have very positive energy and an optimistic outlook on life, a great sense of humor and am witty. I laugh at myself all the time and can find humor in anything. I am creative, outgoing, spontaneous, and open to trying new things- a bit of a free spirit, but wih roots down. I am kind, thoughtful, affectionate and giving. I graduated suma cum laude from University at top of my class. I'm well educated and well-schooled in life. I'm a professional and independent. I don't "need" a man to feel complete, but a personal life and pleasure are very important to me. I am not materialistic or superficial, not stuck-up or snobbish, not a diva, not high-maintenance, not a gold-digger and not looking for a sugar daddy. But I am looking for a man who knows how to take care of a woman. About YOU: Only gentleman need apply. I am looking for a REAL MAN--a masculine man to balance my feminine energy. You are mature, as well as secure--both in yourself and financially. You are stable and successful . You have high standards for yourself and your life-- across the board. You don't settle. You're not just looking for "eye candy" or an easy lay. You are tall, handsome and intelligent. I love a man who is charming and can make me melt. You know how to and enjoy romancing a woman. You can be soft-spoken or outspoken, as long as you are confident and you take the lead/take charge. You are genuine and caring. You have a great sense of humor and can make me laugh. You appreciate the differences between men and women. You are well-spoken and well-mannered. You know who you are and what you want. You are not conceited, but you consider yourself a "good catch," although you'll be the one who will be doing the catching. (This site is called "Plenty of Fish" after all!) Disclaimer/Legal Fine Print--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you DO NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private, legally privileged and contain confidential information. Violation of my personal privacy is punishable by state and federal laws. gentleman's choice.interested in a man who can see "beneath the beautiful"I am not the typical American female.and I assure you I am not like many of the other women on this site.I'm often mistaken for European, not only in my looks/style, also in my mannerisms, thinking, perspectives & I take that as a great compliment.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Indonesian Irish Middle Eastern
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