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United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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About Me

I consider myself lucky to have great friends, two beautiful daughters and a job I look forward to every day. The only thing missing is someone to share it with and that is why I'm here. Where else can you sit at an outdoor bar with a cold beer in your hand and listen to live music all year around?? I am self sufficient and self confident and need the same in a partner. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and if you can appreciate that, I will keep you laughing. I love movies and go as often as I can. While I don't feel the need to go clubbing every day, I do enjoy getting out and dancing when I can....except during football season where I can be found at Brus. I am a huge football fan and am already suffering from withdrawal now that the season is over....for my team at least :) I don't need you to be a big sports fan but if you'll sit and watch the games with me, that would be great! I exercise as often as I can and try to eat healthy. I am not an amazing chef by any stretch but I love being in the kitchen cooking with someone else. I am a hopeless romantic and still believe that hopelessly, madly in love is a wonderful place to be. I am a happy person pretty much all the time and try to surround myself with people that have the same outlook. I don't make big things out of small things and I have no interest in drama. I believe it is remembering the little things in a relationship that make it successful and long lasting. I have done the online thing on and off for a while and it seems to have become less about finding someone and more a contest of numbers. I am in no rush to find a boyfriend or to get married again but I am on here with the intention of finding a relationship so please do not contact me if that is not your intention as well. The reality is that no matter how perfect someone seems on paper, you really won't know until you meet and see if you have that spark. Any place where you can sit, relax and actually hear each other speak makes for a great first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Canadian French Indonesian Mexican Animation Family & Kids Sport Singing Watching Sports
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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