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Xara, 43

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About Me

No silly, it's not a new car. Hi and thanks for viewing my profile. Like you've probably heard a million times, I want to find my best friend. I have no drama and expect that you do not either. My pictures are recent and accurate. I have a friendly personality which sometimes is mistaken for flirting... okay, so what's wrong with a little innocent flirting? I am caring, honest and loyal sometimes to a fault. But make no mistake, I am very independent and know when to put my foot down and say no, well... most of the time. My interests are stated above, plus many more and I am always up for trying new things. I have two small children, 6 and 10 that I share custody of with my ex-husband. If this is a problem, for any reason, I am definitely not the girl for you. My faults: I work too much, I have tattoos (Just 2, not necessarily a fault, but thought I'd disclose this information), my mouth gets me in trouble (a little too direct at times), and I curse like a sailor now and then (not in front of the kids). I could go on, but I'll save the rest for later conversation. My last profile was a novel. BORING!Taking applications for the following: handsome, confident, fit, fun loving, responsible (most of the time), kid friendly, caring, honest and respectful. Please note: I like to go out and have drinks now and then, but I am not interested in men that drink to excess and/or use/abuse drugs of any kind. If you need to medicate yourself (prescribed or not) on a regular basis in order to be stable, please move on. I have no interest in trying to fix or change anyone, and I don't want your problem to become my problem either. I try to stay in shape and eat healthy most of the time and expect that you try to do the same. And to all you D/s guys out there, no thank you, either way. Btw, D/s=Dominant/submissive. I get so many messages asking me what this means. If you have an interest, don't just peek at my profile from time to time, message me and say hi! I will message back if I'm interested, if I don't message back, no hard feelings, not trying to be rude, I am a busy woman. Let's keep it simple, fun and relaxing. Drinks?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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