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JeannaOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am pretty boring. I work, work and work. I am not looking for someone that wants to see each other every day right from the start. I have to be able to talk to you and you to me. Communication is key. I have loved and been hurt, even recently, but it was my own fault for not being open and honest about things in my past. I have learned from that and trying to be open here before anything ever starts with anyone. Hurt and pain doesn't keep me from wanting to eventually share life with someone. I'm just not in a rush for it right now. It has to develop into that. I don't smoke and actually can't stand smoking. No offense, it's your life and your body, I just don't want to be around it. It's nothing against you personally, I just love to wear high heels. I love to go for rides on the back of a Harley but truly have a desire to purchase my own. I need to work out and be in the gym every day but I'm not. I am satisfied with who I am but there's always room for improvement. This is the not my first time on this site. I have learned a lot from being on here. I said I'd never get back on here again so that was a lie because here I am. I am going to be transparent here. I have done the bar scenes in my younger days, I have lived a life I'm proud of in aspects and not so much in others. I had long relationships, short relationships and relationships that were just simply about relations. I have lived some times in my life that were not pleasing to God but thankfully I have been forgiven for that and have found my way back to church and trying to live right. I am human and fall short everyday. I don't want to be judged for my past. I'm not looking for one night stands, booty calls, friends with benefits or players. My past involves the likes of such and they are of no interest to me. I want someone that is interested in getting to know me and become friends before ever becoming romantically involved. If you are still here and want to know more, ask. Somewhere that isn't full of noise or traffic. No movies, need to talk and get to know each other.
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KathOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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JeanetteOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I would like to start off by ensuring you men out there that I am NOT looking for a father figure for my chidlren. THEY HAVE ME! I have 3 awesome kids, 2 live at home with me and my oldest is in the Air Force. Yes, I am a Mother of three kids but I am a woman who is not Confused or Undecided on what I want in life. I also know what a real relationship should be built on. I'm not looking to rush right into anything heavy, I just want to go slow and see if that "CLICK" or "SPARK" is something real and not a false alarm. I am looking to make a connection with someone who can give that mutual respect and honesty, one that can be trustworthy and has no problem with communication. Someone who takes care of himself, has his own goals and aspirations. He would need to be sincere, considerate, passionate, playful, affectionate. Someone who believes in a MONOGAMOUS relationship. I would say that I'm fun and a little silly with a touch of sarcasm...lol, affectionate and caring, honest, respectful, strong willed, humorous, romantic, generous, creative, playful, and confident (not arrogant). I can be classy (love to dress up) and yet I know how to let my hair down (blue jeans and t-shirt are fun also). I love to Laugh, Smile, and Have Fun. I love football, muscle cars -- love car shows!! Love festivals and concerts ( love ALL kinds of music except country... sorry!) I'm open to new opportunities and to try new things and maybe one day travel. Friends and family are extremely important to me and my children will always come first, but love to meet new people. Enjoy sunsets and picnics... put them together and you have something great. Even better when you have someone to share it with. Not big on game players, liars, and trouble makers. It really isn't attractive!! Plus, a lot of you men say that you're aggrivated with woman who post pictures of themselves that look good enough for you to meet, then when you do and that woman is not what she promised......it goes both ways.... The feeling is mutual!!!! If you have any other question you would like to know..... just ask. We all have some sort of past that we left behind and that is where it should remain. It's time for the NEW. Are you the "NEW" I'm looking for? A great first date would be something casual to talk and see if there is chemistry and interest!