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Janis, 43
United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PUTTING THINGS ON HOLD FOR A WHILE GUYS!!!! FAMILY ISSUES TAKE PRECEDENCE OVER MY DATING LIFE. I AM SORRY FOR ANY INCONVENIENCE......Hi everyone!! I am a 43 yr. young mother of 3 children. Ages 25, 22, & 12. They are & always will be, my life, my reason for living! I am being honest, I have been separated from my hubby for 10 months & will not be going back to him. It was over a long time ago just haven't finalized papers yet. Navy brat, water baby, MISS THE BEACH!!!! Therefore I love the warmer seasons because I love to be outside. Especially when I can swim or just lounge beside the pool, work in my flower gardens, play with my daughter or my dogs.You can't be afraid of large dogs because I have a Rottweiler and a Husky and they are just big babies. I am currently disabled, but don't let that word scare you because I am still kicking!! I am a strong, independent, woman & I can still handle everything life throws at me. I have been seriously working on getting rid of the weight gained from being bedridden & the 4 surgeries I have undergone in 5 years. I have lost 43 pounds, but I want to get back to my pre-injury weight and I WILL SUCCEED! I also want to be able to get back into horseback riding, hiking, & kneeboarding! I also want to quit smoking & be as healthy as I can be!I am not the kind of woman who is afraid of breaking a nail or getting dirty. I am a Daddy's girl, so I can work on my own car, mow my own lawn, pretty much whatever needs to be done I can do it.I started painting abstract art a couple years ago. I had never painted anything in my life besides finger paints in elementary school. I still paint abstracts but i have done some waterfalls, beaches, I never know what I am going to do until I pick up the brush.; I was bored!! LOLI like many different genres of music, from old country, to Awolnation, 80's music, heavy metal and some classical. Spontaneous! One minute I may be watching tv and the next I am rearranging my living room or coming up with a renovation project. It depends on my mood :-)I am looking for a man who can be honest, loving, not afraid to show affection, knows the real meaning of intimacy, needs to be strong emotionally & mentally, physically is a plus ;-) I want a man, not another child to raise. I will not be your mother, your maid, or your cook. I know we all have baggage from previous relationships, but please try to leave them behind. It makes life so much easier :-) I will not deal with liars, cheaters, users or abusers. Been there, done that, not ever going back. I would like to go somewhere quiet, or a walk in a park with a picnic break. I like movies, but you can't talk or get to know someone while watching a movie.Save that for another date ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Disco Metal Rock
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