Total users: 65,034,564 Online users: 233,835

Wendy, 44

United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

Offline, last seen Sat, 03 Oct 2026 02:05:09

About Me

After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Irish Mexican Thai Vietnamese
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Emmy from Rio Rancho | Woman | 33 years old | Aries
    Emmy

    Offline

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-33

    Hi! My name is Emmy. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Rio Rancho, New Mexico, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Devan from Rio Rancho | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
    Devan

    Offline

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I really love my boys and enjoy sports! March is great for basketball. When its nice outside, I enjoy sitting outside enjoying life. I love yard sales and shopping at craft stores. I would to have someone to share my day with or do something on the weekends with. I can be shy until I know you and I love to text. I can't wait to watch my boys this summer. I just moved onto a little place and we are trying to do some things.(so yes I know all you guys must be laughing at a blonde, trying to hang some things)I hope I meet some really nice people here, because I could use a friend. Other than my girlfriends, we sometimes need a man's advice. Hope to chat soon! I guess a little dinner, but hopefully we have been talking so it won't feel so awkward! I just want someone easy to talk to and doesn't always wants to stay on the couch.

    Chat
  • Anima from Rio Rancho | Woman | 44 years old | Libra
    Anima

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I enjoy life to the fullest. I am outgoing I like to have fun. I love to travel and fine dining. To be taken out to a nice restaurant. I love to go out spare of the moment or just like to snuggle on the couch watching a movie. I want someone financially, I dont want to support any men. Someone who is stable who is not up tight and very laid back and enjoys life also.I like to sit back watch a football game and drink a beer as much as I do like to be taken out.I like to be treated like a lady. I am a country girl with a little bit of city in her. I don't do drugs and don't much care for anyone who does.I am looking for that someone special who can be my best friend partner for life and lover. I am not looking for a one night stand. I am looking for the one who wants a LTR. I have been told more then once I don't look my age. I do smile a lot and do enjoy a good laugh, the one for me has to have a good sense of humor. Without a good sense of humor life to me is pretty boring.I love to laugh and smile!!Men say the love my eye's and my smile..I love 70's and 80's music the most, Actually I like anything that sounds good. And of course I love Country music also..And I would like to talk to white men please. Not racist just not interested in other races... go out and eat sitting have a good visit and have a few drinks..

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: