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Wendy, 44
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

Offline, last seen Mon, 27 Oct 2025 02:33:57

About Me

After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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