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A little about me: I am my own person. I'm very independent and a little stubborn. I have been this way since I was a little bitty girl. I have NEVER relied on anyone to take care of me...ever!! I might ask a man for his opinion on what that noise from my car is coming from though....I'm dumb when it comes to "guy" stuff. I was raised the "old" fashion way where morals and RESPECT top that list. Here's where the tricky part comes in...I have respect for those who have respect for others! I can't begin to tell you how many men I have started talking to or met on here who I thought were really sweet, only to have them turn around and want to know how good in bed I am etc. I'm sorry, was that suppose to turn me on? It's the biggest turn off, and guess what? You'll NEVER know, because now you just lost any trust and respect I once had for you!I can be as sweet as pie or bold and sassy like a barbeque sauce. Most first meet me and find that I am pretty quiet. Well, I do like to talk, but I'm no loud mouth by any stretch of the imagination. I don't have a temper. If I get really angry, it will happen maybe once a year and I'm over it in a matter of minutes, but I no longer allow anyone to walk all over me anymore!Things I love: Music...music..and more music. Get me near music cd's and I am like a kid in a candy store. My collection is a vast one. I'm most partial to classic rock. I love my music and l love it loud. It's what drives me and has kept me going and got me through some hard times in my life.Exercise: I love it because it makes me feel good. I am very dedicated and work hard to stay in somewhat decent shape. I've been this way since I was 14. I am not built like a Barbie Doll and always see room for improvement, but am determined not to be wearing spandex or "mom" jeans...you know...the ones with the elastic waist! lolDomesticated: I love to cook, bake and I run a tidy ship. I don't expect my man to be this way, it's just how I am...I'm a neat freak. Everyone says I will make someone a great wife again someday...my response to that..."Don't you need a man for that"?Although I appreciate all of the compliments I receive on here...it usually goes in one ear and out the other. I don't think I am anything special at all...in other words, I'm not conceited in any way, shape, or form. I am flattered though...so thank you :-)I am a very bold woman. If something is on my mind, I'm not afraid to say something...In case you haven't noticed that already! Humor: Humor baby....I love it! I have a very sassy, witty, sense of humor. If I can find someone who is equally as humorous...that would be great! I take great pleasure out of making someone laugh...I'll do whatever it takes. Life is too short not to laugh at least once a day...try it...it feels so good :-) My best date was with someone over a year ago...he made me laugh so hard, I almost wet my pants. You must be young at heart as well!Faithfulness is very important to me. Cheaters suck!! I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone...so it goes without saying, If you're a cheater...goodbye! Cheating on someone is like a knife to the heart and the wounds take forever to heal...I know...I lived it! Intelligence: I love it when I find a guy who knows how to spell and use correct grammar. I am an Aquarius...we are ALWAYS thinking and I am ashamed, but I have been accused of overthinking...sorry...I can't help it. Ok, I think I better wrap this up for now. Again, only message me if you are serious about finding your forever...don't waste my time if all you're looking for is someone to bed. Life is too short...grab a hold of it while it's here! Happy Fishing ;-) Just meet somewhere...talk and get to know each other. A beach or park would be sweet :-) I love the outdoors!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hildegarde

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am just an average woman seeking fulfillment from an average man. I have a good life but have always dreamed of that extraordinary relationship that few seem to have in their lifetime. I want YOU to think I am something special and I will be YOUR biggest fan. Together we are rare and incredible. I like to learn and grow but have no desire to jet off and see new countries every other month. I want a simple life that includes spending time with our extended families. Yes, I would love to go on some great vacations in our years together. I like to do and see things but value my time at home immensely. I like nice things but do not value a materialistic life. I like planning for retirement. I like an intelligent, professional, educated, funny and sexy man (a little geeky is cool, too). Chemistry and connection are so random and cannot be defined. In general I do NOT like younger men. I am only interested in men who want a relationship that has true intimacy, and a strong physical and emotional closeness. These things take time to grow. I love music and poetry. I am educated and down to earth. I am a mom first (two wonderful, fun, well adjusted boys ages 7 and 12). I am sarcastic and silly. I enjoy live music in small venues with great company. I do not want more children of my own but would love to blend families with the right man. Local guys only. You should be within a reasonable distance for realistic possibilities. I hate to put this out there but might save us both some time...I have mild herpes (have had this over 25 years). It is insignificant in my life and I get an "outbreak" maybe once every other year tops. I have never passed this on to a partner. I am cautious. ...hasn't hurt my sex life. My Motto: If I can't wear jeans then I don't want to go- OK, I do like to play dress up on occasion- see a show or the theater. Mostly I am happy with the simple life, watching my kids play baseball and soccer. I like to catch up with friends over drinks, read a good book, see an occasional movie. I hope to one day find a man who dreams of a great love. The ideal match would be so many things. He would be debt free with the exception of the house and car. He would be confident but not arrogant. He would LOVE touch, snuggling, hand holding, kissing and massages. The ideal man will be good with kids and enjoy throwing a baseball back and forth or shooting hoops. He would understand that while he would date only me for a while, if we were to hit if off that I am a package deal. I treat people with respect. I want to be adored. I want someone to adore. I want the sun, moon, stars all rolled up in a simple, happy real life. I want someone to emotionally grow with. I do not want to make the first move. If you are interested please send a note. Margaritas?!

  • Lelia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My hobbies include traveling, enjoying live music, movies, comedy shows or just spending time with someone special. I have two terrific kids that I adore, but I'm not looking for a father for them; they have that. I'm looking for someone intelligent, who has a sense of humor and who wants a serious relationship.I never thought I would do the online dating thing but the bar scene is just not for me. I want a meaningful relationship and online dating seems to be the way to go. I’d rather not see a photo of you holding up a dead animal that you’ve killed. It’s okay if you like to hunt or fish but I just don't need to see the poor, dead animal. I won't be going hunting with you because it's usually too early and too cold.I don't need to see a photo of your car or you working on it. Fake pictures of planes, tour buses or other "toys" do not impress me. I'm looking for a real person, an honest companion who will be good to me and to whom I will enjoy being good. So, while having expensive “things” is nice, it’s not a must for me. Please, no photo-shopped photos of yourself. I’ve noticed on this site that some guys will post a photo of only an eye or nose, or something similar. That seems odd to me. I need to see a photo of your whole face, not just a portion of it, or a photo of just your eye or your hand. And, the photo should be recent. I don’t demand that you look like a Greek god. There’s so much more that goes into a good relationship than just appearance. But, we must be honest with each other about our appearance. We’ll find out anyway if we get to the point of meeting and neither of us would want to be surprised in a negative way. I have a great job that I love, so I’m not looking for someone to support me. But your own financial stability is important. I enjoy all kinds of music except rap. My First date?From looking at some of the ladies’ After that, our butlers pack our things and we are driven back home in a long, black limousine. C’mon, do people really live that way? No, what sounds nice to me is dinner in a nice place with a nice guy who is just himself, putting on no pretensions, chatting and getting to know each other in a real way. After that, if we think we may like each other, then another date and even another date and we can see where it goes from there .....

  • Lottie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am an outgoing thick chick looking for someone to hang out with. I'm young at heart, and I am told that I'm funny, hence getting people to laugh makes me happy! I would consider myself to be compassionate and empathetic towards others. I am passionate about the things I truly believe in.I am an honest and loyal person....and I'd say warm and loving. However, I am a little rough around the edges in a comfortable setting...I like to let loose, and I'm not afraid to drop the "f" bomb.I work with cats for a living, so my friend must like animals!!! coffee or drinks

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