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Aliya, 44
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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About Me

Do you dance when no one is looking or when EVERYONE is looking??? I truly believe that it doesn't happen only in the movies. How to describe myself... I know, it's a hard one. I'm fun and outgoing and I love to meet people. I love to find out their stories and what makes them who they are. I am a single mother of 4 daughters (20, 18, 13 & ***I know.. sounds like alot of hormones under one roof, but they're all alot of fun and very independent. We have the best relationship and they are truly my best friends. I love being outdoors doing absolutely anything. That includes gardening, festivals, the beach, sledding, anything with the kids. I find cooking relaxing and would love to find a partner that enjoys it as much as I do. I'm not a date-a-holic and am just picky with how I spend my time and on whom. My ideal match is someone I'm attracted to both physically and mentally. I'm not looking for a model, but I have reasonable standards. So, If you are older than my father and younger than my daughter, chances are I'm not going to be interested. Just sayin'.I'm seeking a like-minded man, and someone who shares a similar qualities. Please take the time to get to know where you're "at" in life and leave the game-playing at the door. It will make things a lot easier for both of us. I'm a big fan of honesty and hope you are as well. If you're "not ready" for a relationship, then please don't get involved. I am not being mean or negative in any way, I just don't want to waste your time or mine. If anything I've said makes you curious, I'd love to hear from you. Let's go have some fun together. Thank you for taking a look and good luck with your search. Tammy . Casual... drinks or lunch. Somewhere that you can talk and actually hear each other. Hopefully it'll lead to a second date. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cooking Watching TV Comedy Drama Martial Arts
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