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Fleta, 42

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About Me

I DO NOT date black men!When you read my profile, is there something wrong or something missing?I just want an after noon lunch date to see if there is a connection. If there is then we should spend the afternoon doing something fun then end the nighy bt a camp fire still getting to know each other.The light bulb finally shines--I want a chemical and physical attraction that makes sense emotionally.I want to spend time with a man who knows what he wants out of life, one that doesn't talk sex before we've even met and one that is drama FREE! A first encounter that warrants a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jo

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Affectionate one looking for just the right man to wrap his arms around me :DI'm a lady with a soft heart, a bit of a romantic and a little on the fiesty side. I like to stay active and work out on a weekly basis. Finding a man that likes to stay fit and may want want to work out with me would be a plus. We can motivate each other to get healthier together. I can go from workout clothes to heals and a dress and be comfortable in both. I like to think I have a nice sense of style ..but don't we all :) I enjoy a night out as much as I do a relaxing evening in snuggled up on the couch with a good movie. It's the company you keep that makes all the difference. Trust and communication is important to me and is the key to any strong relationship. We will probably not agree on everything in life and that is where comprimise comes in. Compromise is a good thing! Life isn't always easy but it is easier when you have someone in your corner. I have a child, who means the world to me but it doesn't mean that I don't have room for you and children of your own. I love to spend time with my man but it's okay if he has interests of his own and wants a moment to himself. It gives me some playtime of my own (get your mind out of the gutter). I'm talking about a good book, a bubble bath , or even a shopping trip with the girls.I try to respond to most messages, but if I do not respond in a day or two its just that I am not interested. It has no reflection on you its just that I know we would not be a good match. After all, we are all attracted to different types...so with that said, good luck to everyone on finding your match. No expectations. A quick lunch or coffee ( I like the fully loaded and packed with sugar ones) and good conversation. If the weather ever warms up we could do a picnic or a walk in the park. If we click we can always continue the date and start planning the next one. :)

  • Maev

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm outgoing, not shy. I'm Australian which makes me pretty laid back No drama. Goals and aspirations are to get the most out of life. Typical Aussie, I have a fairly sarcastic sense of humor. I'll try anything once and if I like it, I'll go back for seconds....sometimes even thirds or more :-). I like people who r confident but not over confident (big ego). Don't tell me a sob story about wanting to find a friend and then ask for a roll in the hay during the second sentence. I've bloody well heard those lines more times than I can count. If u want a quick *** or a one night stand, look elsewhere, its not my thing.. Honesty goes a lot further than bul!$%!t. If u lie to me once, then u've probably done it twice. I don't hold grudges, but I don't have a need for untruths. I enjoy my own company and the conversations I have with myself are never boring, not to mention, I always get the answer I like best :-). If u r hung up about age, then that's ur hang up, not mine. I'm 43, going on 30...I stopped counting at that point and anyway, math wasn't my strongest subject in school haha. I am quite affectionate, and like to snuggle buggle and watch a movie. I'm very much an open book and u can ask me anything, but don't get shocked when my answers are straight forward and directly to the point. No drama zone here.If u don't have a picture of yourself in your profile, I will question u as to what u r hiding, but it won't stop me from talking to u. Back to the lying, it's pointless...ur going to screw up at some time and I'm fairly intelligent even though I'm a blond.... haha...it doesn't take me long to figure out when I'm being played, so let's not waste anyone's time :-) If u r married, girlfriend, or have a significant other, don't waste my time and no drama . I'm fairly low maintenance and don't spend hours in front of a mirror to get ready to go out; what u c is what u get, like it or leave it...Good luck to anyone out there , with ur phishing...:-) A restaurant, (NOT FAST FOOD AND I PAY FOR MYSELF) and maybe just sit and talk or do something fun and sporty.

  • Brittania

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a Christian woman. I don't take my faith lightly. It's the most important thing in my life. I hold traditional values and morals. YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME IF......If you smoke even just once in a while please pass me up. If you can't find the best in people, complain about people, your job, your ex, see children as a burden not a blessing, you are wasting your time. If you'd rather watch a Packer game at a bar than in a home, have more than 2 drinks when going out for dinner or think its ok for teens to drink, you are wasting your time. If you'd rather work on holidays than spend them with your family you are wasting your time. If you can't admit YOUR fault for your marriage falling apart you are wasting your time. I'm in sales and just graduated as a nurse. I'm not shy, I'm bold. Sometimes I come on a little strong. I expect to be treated like you treat your mother with respect!!! I believe in traditional values and morals. I have 3 wonderful, beautiful children with good morals and values, that have NEVER been in trouble. My daughter is 3rd year in college Pre-Med. My son is a senior in high school. And my youngest is a 6 year old daughter whom I adopted as a single parent from Ethiopia. Yes. I WANTED to start all over again and enjoy being a Mommy now more than ever!!!I treat men the way they want to be treated, not the way they are used to being treated. Men want to be respected. And men like their egos stroked. Men don't like having to guess what a woman means when she says, "I'm fine, Sure, what ever you want," or how about the, "you know!" What a waste of time!!! I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I'm also a tough cookie!! I'll ask you the questions no one else has asked. I'm a girlie girl. I wear dresses and heals the taller the better. But you dress the way you want and I'll dress the way I want. But I also love coming home, throwing on some comfortable clothes, start a fire,(real wood) and just do nothing at all. I love having fun and enjoying life!! Traveling out of the country is a must! Vacations are needed even long weekends. I'm looking for someone to cuddle up on the couch and watch movies with, go camping with and rock at Lifest!!! I'm looking for my ROCK, my best friend, my teammate, the one who will always have my back, someone my little one can call Daddy. I own and maintain my home myself. I have a credit score of ***so I don't need anyone to get me out of debt!!. I can pretty much do it all on my own. But I'm finally at the point that I DON'T WANT TO. I think going for a walk is a great way to get to know someone without putting a lot of pressure on them.

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