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Nicolette, 41
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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About Me

To you straight I don't want a boyfriend. Until I find someone to walk off into the sunset with I don't want to get exclusive with anyone until that guy shows up.I am a short, only 5"***, busty & a little chubby, trying to work on that. :) I have blue eyes & am a natural Red Head, a mischievous grin. I have been with women and do enjoy the female body BUT I prefer relationships with men. I am not your normal girl as I do not care about material things. I don't want diamonds, I am unique! So I want something different. A car is a car & I rarely look at the shoes people wear, if that gives you an idea. I do like money problems to not be an issue but who doesn't? I am open minded & do not always follow a set rule in beliefs, I take what I feel is right & bend others. I love to get out, walking around in a store, looking at things, is a pleasure, I worked at Home Depot and love to put things together, I fear not Ikea. It has been far to long sense someone showed me affection, meaning just holding my hand or giving me a random hug but I am not a person who crowds nor do I want that. I realize flirting is natural & do not get jealous when another does it, as long as I reap the rewards of the other person feeling good & happy with themselves.I love to get out as often as I can. Love to watch movies as they are a get away from my thoughts. You will come to realize I have a head that goes off on different tangents & you will get to laugh at me when I put my foot in my mouth. :) happens, a lot more often than I would like. :) I hope to travel on my weekends. Short trips are a blessing. What I am looking for is reasons to take those trips & reasons to share them. I do not care to be left behind all the time. It shows the person you are with, you can't imagine having fun with them if you want to leave them behind. Just means they are not the right person for you then. I have moved around a lot here in BC. Grew-up in the N.W.T, Arctic born. So have more of a small town view of friendship, don't make friends easily but when I do it is for life for me. I love to go out, doesn't really matter where, I am willing to experience just about anything, at least once. Sometimes it takes a new person to get you to step out of your safety zone. To step out of the everyday.I love humor, someone who can have me laughing even if I get a little mad. I love surprises. Random call to go do something is also nice & welcome. I am not looking to force anything. When I feel something that is awesome but I honestly have to be attracted to the person, otherwise I offer only friendship to anyone & everyone. Far from a gold digger type. Emotion and values in love are not based on wallet. I love talking to people from all walks of life, different ideas & beliefs. Learning is growth. So do not fear dropping me a line if you are truly offering insightful thoughts to another traveler on this blue ball. The mind if the first thing that connects people.Warning: Msg / chat request me with no profile pic, I delete. Simple 2 word msg, I delete. A girl needs something to work with. :). Never rush me with huggy, touchy stuff. That has to come natural & if you say it before meeting me. I find that creepy. So drop me a msg. And lets see what a new friend can be.I got wordy, sorry about that. lol I can be at times. :)PS: People, get a pic of just you. No one wants to think you carry secrets by you having a half cropped pic with your ex in it. Or can't tell who we are talking to because it's a picture of you & your best friend. ;) Happy Fishing. Simple coffee, walk in the park. Whatever is a good comfortable situation for the both of us. Surprise with an idea! Those are always welcome!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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