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Jo
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Affectionate one looking for just the right man to wrap his arms around me :DI'm a lady with a soft heart, a bit of a romantic and a little on the fiesty side. I like to stay active and work out on a weekly basis. Finding a man that likes to stay fit and may want want to work out with me would be a plus. We can motivate each other to get healthier together. I can go from workout clothes to heals and a dress and be comfortable in both. I like to think I have a nice sense of style ..but don't we all :) I enjoy a night out as much as I do a relaxing evening in snuggled up on the couch with a good movie. It's the company you keep that makes all the difference. Trust and communication is important to me and is the key to any strong relationship. We will probably not agree on everything in life and that is where comprimise comes in. Compromise is a good thing! Life isn't always easy but it is easier when you have someone in your corner. I have a child, who means the world to me but it doesn't mean that I don't have room for you and children of your own. I love to spend time with my man but it's okay if he has interests of his own and wants a moment to himself. It gives me some playtime of my own (get your mind out of the gutter). I'm talking about a good book, a bubble bath , or even a shopping trip with the girls.I try to respond to most messages, but if I do not respond in a day or two its just that I am not interested. It has no reflection on you its just that I know we would not be a good match. After all, we are all attracted to different types...so with that said, good luck to everyone on finding your match. No expectations. A quick lunch or coffee ( I like the fully loaded and packed with sugar ones) and good conversation. If the weather ever warms up we could do a picnic or a walk in the park. If we click we can always continue the date and start planning the next one. :)
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Wendy
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!
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Lisette
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
A little about me: I am my own person. I'm very independent and a little stubborn. I have been this way since I was a little bitty girl. I have NEVER relied on anyone to take care of me...ever!! I might ask a man for his opinion on what that noise from my car is coming from though....I'm dumb when it comes to "guy" stuff. I was raised the "old" fashion way where morals and RESPECT top that list. Here's where the tricky part comes in...I have respect for those who have respect for others! I can't begin to tell you how many men I have started talking to or met on here who I thought were really sweet, only to have them turn around and want to know how good in bed I am etc. I'm sorry, was that suppose to turn me on? It's the biggest turn off, and guess what? You'll NEVER know, because now you just lost any trust and respect I once had for you!I can be as sweet as pie or bold and sassy like a barbeque sauce. Most first meet me and find that I am pretty quiet. Well, I do like to talk, but I'm no loud mouth by any stretch of the imagination. I don't have a temper. If I get really angry, it will happen maybe once a year and I'm over it in a matter of minutes, but I no longer allow anyone to walk all over me anymore!Things I love: Music...music..and more music. Get me near music cd's and I am like a kid in a candy store. My collection is a vast one. I'm most partial to classic rock. I love my music and l love it loud. It's what drives me and has kept me going and got me through some hard times in my life.Exercise: I love it because it makes me feel good. I am very dedicated and work hard to stay in somewhat decent shape. I've been this way since I was 14. I am not built like a Barbie Doll and always see room for improvement, but am determined not to be wearing spandex or "mom" jeans...you know...the ones with the elastic waist! lolDomesticated: I love to cook, bake and I run a tidy ship. I don't expect my man to be this way, it's just how I am...I'm a neat freak. Everyone says I will make someone a great wife again someday...my response to that..."Don't you need a man for that"?Although I appreciate all of the compliments I receive on here...it usually goes in one ear and out the other. I don't think I am anything special at all...in other words, I'm not conceited in any way, shape, or form. I am flattered though...so thank you :-)I am a very bold woman. If something is on my mind, I'm not afraid to say something...In case you haven't noticed that already! Humor: Humor baby....I love it! I have a very sassy, witty, sense of humor. If I can find someone who is equally as humorous...that would be great! I take great pleasure out of making someone laugh...I'll do whatever it takes. Life is too short not to laugh at least once a day...try it...it feels so good :-) My best date was with someone over a year ago...he made me laugh so hard, I almost wet my pants. You must be young at heart as well!Faithfulness is very important to me. Cheaters suck!! I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone...so it goes without saying, If you're a cheater...goodbye! Cheating on someone is like a knife to the heart and the wounds take forever to heal...I know...I lived it! Intelligence: I love it when I find a guy who knows how to spell and use correct grammar. I am an Aquarius...we are ALWAYS thinking and I am ashamed, but I have been accused of overthinking...sorry...I can't help it. Ok, I think I better wrap this up for now. Again, only message me if you are serious about finding your forever...don't waste my time if all you're looking for is someone to bed. Life is too short...grab a hold of it while it's here! Happy Fishing ;-) Just meet somewhere...talk and get to know each other. A beach or park would be sweet :-) I love the outdoors!