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Elwanda, 43
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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About Me

Hello! It's great to see you! Come on in and have a seat. Can I get you a drink or something to eat? How about some warm apple pie? Want to lounge in the hottub for a while or sit on the patio and enjoy some sun? I find that most profiles read the same, but I can assure you that I'm not like most women you will meet. I'm recently single and so I'm a bit apprehensive to enter the "dating world" again. It's not like it used to be! To best describe what I'm looking for now, I'd like a man that could be a best friend, a companion to laugh with in the good times and hug in the more difficult ones. I don't like a man with a temper, without a sense of humor or without a job. Most importantly, I want a man that can be himself, because I'm not going to pretend to be anything but who I am - I'm very straightforward.; and I tend to smile a lot. I love beaches, road trips, margaritas or a glass of wine, dressing up for a night out dancing or lounging in sweatpants and a hoody for a lazy evening watching a movie – as long as we’re able to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm very passionate and compassionate. I have a huge heart and I'm definitely a giver. I tend to spoil my loved ones. Cuddling, kissing, touching is welcomed and enjoyed. I love to cook and sometimes, I'm even good at it! LOL! I work hard, because I like to play hard and I take pride in the fact that I can provide for my sons and I. By the way, my sons are great young men, soon to be own their own. I'm intelligent - I know, not the stereotypical blonde- with a fun sense of humor. No matter what the situation is, I promise you I will be able to find something positive out of it. If you like what you've heard so far, I look forward to telling you more! Hugs! *** That's my next weekend trip that I'm working on. Let's go to Beale Street!*** On a side note... teeth, the ability to have sex and being gainfully employed are all important attributes to me when looking for a potential relationship. If you lack these characteristics, I will have to pass. And if you have unmanaged bi-polar disorder and you tend to pick fights in bars and pull knives on people, that's just not who I am and I would, again, have to pass.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Annette from Rio Rancho | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
    Annette

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    In a nutshell.... I'm divorced, have a 15yr old son (joint custody), and I work ***hrs a day Mon-Fri. Obviously I don't have much time to go out & meet new people (hence my presence on this site!) :) I'm looking for someone as a friend to hang out with at first, then see where it goes from there. This person MUST have a sense of humor (preferably slightly twisted)& be somewhat sarcastic. Also, HAS to like cats! I would prefer someone UNATTACHED, no drama, no head games, no druggies or alcoholics, and no police record!!! ;) I would also prefer that you have all of your teeth. Oh, and if you're looking for a one night stand, KEEP LOOKING! NOT gonna happen here! ;) So on that note, to all you serial killers, rapists, etc., beware...I have a CCW and am ALWAYS armed!!! (not kidding on that one)I'm definitely a rock music person, so if you're into only country AND western (OR rap!), we're probably not going to hit it off! :-P I do love live jazz, and some of the newer whatever-you-call-it music that the teens are into (though NOT much!) If you want to know more, feel free to ask....Oh, and I'm a GEMINI, NOT A TAURUS!!! (although I CAN be "bull-headed!") lol!**UPDATE - APPARENTLY I NEED TO SPECIFY THAT I AM NOT BISEXUAL NOR DO I PLAN ON BEING SO IN THE FUTURE! ALSO, I AM NOT ON HERE TO FIND RELATIONSHIPS BASED SOLELY ON SEX! AND IF WE EXCHANGE CELL #'S, THAT DOES NOT MEAN I WANT YOU TO SEND ME "INAPPROPRIATE" PICS OF YOU!**One more thing... I have to INSIST that you be at least 6' tall! Thanks & good luck! :) Well this is a tough one. But to put it simply, I think a first date should consist of 2 people getting to know each other...see if there are any common interests, if there's any "chemistry" there...if so, move forward & see what happens. If not, you can never have too many friends to hang out with ;)As far as where to go/what to do... depends on what each of us enjoy!

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  • Melania from Rio Rancho | Woman | 44 years old | Virgo
    Melania

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey there im a fun loving out going hard working single white female. Looking to date have fun and see where things may go meet for drinks or dinner talk and see where things may go from there

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  • Michaela from Rio Rancho | Woman | 42 years old | Cancer
    Michaela

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Looking to find someone that is willing to join me in the things i do. I am not looking for a fast hook up or one night stand so don't ask. I am looking for friends first and see what happens. I enjoy a wide range of things and I am willing to add more things to the list with the right person .I have a 16 yr old son that is my life. I will try and answer all but if i can't sorry .

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