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Elwanda, 43
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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About Me

Hello! It's great to see you! Come on in and have a seat. Can I get you a drink or something to eat? How about some warm apple pie? Want to lounge in the hottub for a while or sit on the patio and enjoy some sun? I find that most profiles read the same, but I can assure you that I'm not like most women you will meet. I'm recently single and so I'm a bit apprehensive to enter the "dating world" again. It's not like it used to be! To best describe what I'm looking for now, I'd like a man that could be a best friend, a companion to laugh with in the good times and hug in the more difficult ones. I don't like a man with a temper, without a sense of humor or without a job. Most importantly, I want a man that can be himself, because I'm not going to pretend to be anything but who I am - I'm very straightforward.; and I tend to smile a lot. I love beaches, road trips, margaritas or a glass of wine, dressing up for a night out dancing or lounging in sweatpants and a hoody for a lazy evening watching a movie – as long as we’re able to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm very passionate and compassionate. I have a huge heart and I'm definitely a giver. I tend to spoil my loved ones. Cuddling, kissing, touching is welcomed and enjoyed. I love to cook and sometimes, I'm even good at it! LOL! I work hard, because I like to play hard and I take pride in the fact that I can provide for my sons and I. By the way, my sons are great young men, soon to be own their own. I'm intelligent - I know, not the stereotypical blonde- with a fun sense of humor. No matter what the situation is, I promise you I will be able to find something positive out of it. If you like what you've heard so far, I look forward to telling you more! Hugs! *** That's my next weekend trip that I'm working on. Let's go to Beale Street!*** On a side note... teeth, the ability to have sex and being gainfully employed are all important attributes to me when looking for a potential relationship. If you lack these characteristics, I will have to pass. And if you have unmanaged bi-polar disorder and you tend to pick fights in bars and pull knives on people, that's just not who I am and I would, again, have to pass.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aleigha from Rio Rancho | Woman | 42 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello,This will be short and sweet... I'm looking for a "nice" man who knows how to make time to enjoy what life has to offer. Other than working, spending time with family and friends I have no real hobbies. In the summertime I really enjoy being outside gardening or just relaxing in the nice warm weather. My favorite foods are sushi, mexican and italian. I grew up traveling with my family since my father worked for the airlines. I've been camping, waterskiing, snowmobiling, etc. Otherwise good luck with your search and have a great day.

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  • Jadwiga from Rio Rancho | Woman | 43 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ...about me...A spunky lil one, (5'4", 125#) UNIQUE, full of life and adventure. HAPPY, FUN, Open minded, caring, sincere, honest, grateful, compassionate, INDEPENDENT.....not a jealous person but a very confident one...enjoying what I have, who I am, where I been and where I'm going....I believe in reasons things CAN BE and can do without company that only sees reasons something CANT BE. I have a great job, 3 awesome kids, 2 American bulldogs...(I love kids!!!) and a life I love, just looking for that special someone to share it with...I value individual space, as well as, togetherness...I believe time apart is just as important as time spent together. I've been on here a while because I'm very selective on who I allow in my life. Everyone should be. I've met some great people who are now friends and also some straight up fakes. If u don't own a business. Please don't say u do. If u say u have a bike. Don't tell me it's in boxes in your garage when I ask to go ride. Please be who u claim to be because if your not. I have absolutely no time for liars n will drop ur friendship like a bad habit.I have a good life. Great life actually. Financially set. Have what I want. Do what I want when u want i have no limitations n see none in anything I set my mind to doing. Just looking for a good man to do them with, possibly grow with. I like tall guys (sorry, just keeping it real) I'm 5'4". If I have 5" heels on, look down to see u and your not on your knees. That is a problem. LolSome will send nasty grams. Try to save my soul. Peace. But your opinion means nothing to me so keep it to urself. Ill block the message before I finish reading it... I am who I am. I do not want anyone to feel the need to change cuz I won't. Ill bend w u. But never ***, that being said. Hun I'm just being brutally honest. To much bs n to many players not to be! Interested? Send an ***? I hope only the best for you in your search. HugsPs. "what I'm looking for..." I'll know when I find him....til then.... I am looking to have fun...no expectations...no baggage, NO DRAMA!!!! Everything that's good starts with friendship...I'd like to meet POSITIVE, CONFIDENT, HONEST, OUTGOING, HAPPY, SECURE.... those who are not afraid of whom they are and accept others for the same. Life is to short, each moment should be cherished and respected for what it is.....A GIFT............Life is lived fully, by taking chances...I'm ready. Are you? Now.....A first date eh? Hmmmmm... TBD....lol...I'm pretty open, I like variety and adventure and can make any situation fun ...Thanks and good luck to everyone!!!

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  • Floretta from Rio Rancho | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
    Floretta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    "We come to love by not finding the "perfect person", but rather by seeing and loving that imperfect person perfectly."Hey there :)Thanks for taking the time to stop by and read my profile. :)) I'm just a kind and loving woman, who is out here searching for and guy who is honest, trustworthy, genuine, kind, loving, affectionate, has great sense of humor, and is family oriented and who is an amazing communicator. A man who is and looking to have fun and peace in his life. LAUGHTER IS A MUST...taking life too seriously all the time isn't good for the soul. Please know that the things I'm looking for are the same things you can expect from me as well...and more. :)) This girl enjoys watching sports and going to sporting events, music festivals, being in or on the water, exercise, day trips, camping, weekend getaways, and spending quality time with family. I'm simple yet classy...not into the bar scene. Looks are secondary to me. What's most important is a mans heart...who he really is on the inside. We are all going to get old and wrinkly. Looks fade, but the heart of a person is what will last forever. Also...If you're looking for a quick "hook-up" or "intimate encounter", in your 20's, or taking a whole bunch of meds for pain or depression, please don't contact me. I don't wish to sound mean, but I simply want to maintain a peaceful, healthy, and close to "drama free" life. :) I would be willing to share more info about myself with the right person. So...If you would like to know more about me, shoot me a message and lets see where it goes! I would ABSOLUTELY love to hear from you! :)))Go to this URL...Just a little something to show you a small glimpse into my heart. What better way to do it than through a song. :) *** a place quiet enough to be able to talk and get to know eachother and see where it goes. :***

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