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Elwanda, 43
United States, New Mexico, Rio Rancho

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About Me

Hello! It's great to see you! Come on in and have a seat. Can I get you a drink or something to eat? How about some warm apple pie? Want to lounge in the hottub for a while or sit on the patio and enjoy some sun? I find that most profiles read the same, but I can assure you that I'm not like most women you will meet. I'm recently single and so I'm a bit apprehensive to enter the "dating world" again. It's not like it used to be! To best describe what I'm looking for now, I'd like a man that could be a best friend, a companion to laugh with in the good times and hug in the more difficult ones. I don't like a man with a temper, without a sense of humor or without a job. Most importantly, I want a man that can be himself, because I'm not going to pretend to be anything but who I am - I'm very straightforward.; and I tend to smile a lot. I love beaches, road trips, margaritas or a glass of wine, dressing up for a night out dancing or lounging in sweatpants and a hoody for a lazy evening watching a movie – as long as we’re able to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm very passionate and compassionate. I have a huge heart and I'm definitely a giver. I tend to spoil my loved ones. Cuddling, kissing, touching is welcomed and enjoyed. I love to cook and sometimes, I'm even good at it! LOL! I work hard, because I like to play hard and I take pride in the fact that I can provide for my sons and I. By the way, my sons are great young men, soon to be own their own. I'm intelligent - I know, not the stereotypical blonde- with a fun sense of humor. No matter what the situation is, I promise you I will be able to find something positive out of it. If you like what you've heard so far, I look forward to telling you more! Hugs! *** That's my next weekend trip that I'm working on. Let's go to Beale Street!*** On a side note... teeth, the ability to have sex and being gainfully employed are all important attributes to me when looking for a potential relationship. If you lack these characteristics, I will have to pass. And if you have unmanaged bi-polar disorder and you tend to pick fights in bars and pull knives on people, that's just not who I am and I would, again, have to pass.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

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  • Hildegarde from Rio Rancho | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am just an average woman seeking fulfillment from an average man. I have a good life but have always dreamed of that extraordinary relationship that few seem to have in their lifetime. I want YOU to think I am something special and I will be YOUR biggest fan. Together we are rare and incredible. I like to learn and grow but have no desire to jet off and see new countries every other month. I want a simple life that includes spending time with our extended families. Yes, I would love to go on some great vacations in our years together. I like to do and see things but value my time at home immensely. I like nice things but do not value a materialistic life. I like planning for retirement. I like an intelligent, professional, educated, funny and sexy man (a little geeky is cool, too). Chemistry and connection are so random and cannot be defined. In general I do NOT like younger men. I am only interested in men who want a relationship that has true intimacy, and a strong physical and emotional closeness. These things take time to grow. I love music and poetry. I am educated and down to earth. I am a mom first (two wonderful, fun, well adjusted boys ages 7 and 12). I am sarcastic and silly. I enjoy live music in small venues with great company. I do not want more children of my own but would love to blend families with the right man. Local guys only. You should be within a reasonable distance for realistic possibilities. I hate to put this out there but might save us both some time...I have mild herpes (have had this over 25 years). It is insignificant in my life and I get an "outbreak" maybe once every other year tops. I have never passed this on to a partner. I am cautious. ...hasn't hurt my sex life. My Motto: If I can't wear jeans then I don't want to go- OK, I do like to play dress up on occasion- see a show or the theater. Mostly I am happy with the simple life, watching my kids play baseball and soccer. I like to catch up with friends over drinks, read a good book, see an occasional movie. I hope to one day find a man who dreams of a great love. The ideal match would be so many things. He would be debt free with the exception of the house and car. He would be confident but not arrogant. He would LOVE touch, snuggling, hand holding, kissing and massages. The ideal man will be good with kids and enjoy throwing a baseball back and forth or shooting hoops. He would understand that while he would date only me for a while, if we were to hit if off that I am a package deal. I treat people with respect. I want to be adored. I want someone to adore. I want the sun, moon, stars all rolled up in a simple, happy real life. I want someone to emotionally grow with. I do not want to make the first move. If you are interested please send a note. Margaritas?!

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  • Wendy from Rio Rancho | Woman | 44 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    After a 17 yr marriage, it's time to rediscover myself. I have two amazing teenagers who keep me busy. But now, it's time to squeeze in some fun for myself, in between my busy lifestyle with my kids. One thing I don't tolerate: LYING.....hence, my impending divorce (which is taking longer than I ever thought possible). I've been separated for nearly 10 months (although I've been emotionally separated for many years) and am ready to move on with my life. What am I interested in? Maybe I should first list what I'm not interested in: old men with beer guts, biker dudes, farmers and cowboys, heavily tattooed men with ear gauges, fat men, men with long-hair, ZZ Top beards, men with gold teeth, nerds. IF ANY OF THESE DESCRIBE YOU, I WILL NOT REPLY TO YOUR MESSAGES. I have high standards, although not looking for perfection....just the perfect man for me. Things I like to do: I love to sing, go dancing, and love sporting events, except for NASCAR (which isn't a sport). I love running or playing anything competitive.! I'm a determined ball of fire and can compete with the best! What I want: I want a relationship with someone who is mature, respectful, full of conversation, even-tempered, accepting of my kids (ages 12 & 15), stable, passionate and attractive to me. No relationship should ever be exhausting. BTW, I'm learning that when men state they are "wanting a relationship," most of the time, that means a sexual relationship only. And I'm not interested in that alone. In addition, I am NOT looking for just a hot sexting/phone sex relationship. I deserve a real dating relationship that could potentially grow into something more. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Favorite music: R&B, pop music, smooth jazz, blues, contemporary Christian music. Turn-offs: Stupidity; excessively tattooed bodies; excessive facial hair; smokers; improper English (it's "you were", not "you was"); quiet men; hot tempers; lying; extremely hairy bodies; outdoorsmen; out-of-shape men; cowboys. In addition, if you don't know how to spell your profession, you're probably not going to be a good match. It's supervisor, not superviser. Also, note in a previous sentence how I used your and you're properly. ;-)Postscript: Messaging me for the first time "Mmmmm..." does not make a good first impression. And neither does the generic introduction, "Hi, how are you today?" Nor does the question, "Had any luck on here?" Be creative and make me smile! Please give me a reason to leave this site behind! Surprise me!

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