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Elwanda, 43

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About Me

Hello! It's great to see you! Come on in and have a seat. Can I get you a drink or something to eat? How about some warm apple pie? Want to lounge in the hottub for a while or sit on the patio and enjoy some sun? I find that most profiles read the same, but I can assure you that I'm not like most women you will meet. I'm recently single and so I'm a bit apprehensive to enter the "dating world" again. It's not like it used to be! To best describe what I'm looking for now, I'd like a man that could be a best friend, a companion to laugh with in the good times and hug in the more difficult ones. I don't like a man with a temper, without a sense of humor or without a job. Most importantly, I want a man that can be himself, because I'm not going to pretend to be anything but who I am - I'm very straightforward.; and I tend to smile a lot. I love beaches, road trips, margaritas or a glass of wine, dressing up for a night out dancing or lounging in sweatpants and a hoody for a lazy evening watching a movie – as long as we’re able to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm very passionate and compassionate. I have a huge heart and I'm definitely a giver. I tend to spoil my loved ones. Cuddling, kissing, touching is welcomed and enjoyed. I love to cook and sometimes, I'm even good at it! LOL! I work hard, because I like to play hard and I take pride in the fact that I can provide for my sons and I. By the way, my sons are great young men, soon to be own their own. I'm intelligent - I know, not the stereotypical blonde- with a fun sense of humor. No matter what the situation is, I promise you I will be able to find something positive out of it. If you like what you've heard so far, I look forward to telling you more! Hugs! *** That's my next weekend trip that I'm working on. Let's go to Beale Street!*** On a side note... teeth, the ability to have sex and being gainfully employed are all important attributes to me when looking for a potential relationship. If you lack these characteristics, I will have to pass. And if you have unmanaged bi-polar disorder and you tend to pick fights in bars and pull knives on people, that's just not who I am and I would, again, have to pass.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Daniella

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm looking for my Mr. Forever but I'm in no rush, so there is no need to settle for anything less. Of course we are all honest on this site and can be trusted, but not only am I honest but I'm the one you can be totally honest with... I wont judge you EVER.. We've all had lesson to learn in the past and if we are growing as people then we are still screwing up and have more lessons to learn.. But lie to me once and it will take forever for me to trust what you say.What is my Forever?? He is a man of strong character meaning he is man enough to make mistakes and admit them. He is a sweet and kind man meaning he is man enough to treat other with care and concern. He is also a very assertive man.. meaning he is man enough to be a man!! I want a man who can take charge.. I'm a strong and independent woman.. I can take care of myself.. I dont need a man to take charge.. I WANT him too.. I think there is a difference. I'm kind, caring, compassionate and want to make my guy feel like he is the most important person in the world. I can also tell you all sorts of things about me, but really.. it doesnt make them true.. you have got to get to know me to really know me. :)Thank you for all the *** my looks.. You guys have to understand is that my looks come and go from day to day.. The more fun I am having the less attractive I am.. The pics you see here are the good ones out of about ***pics... That's all part of the plan you see.. I get your attention with the good pics and then I hook you with the personality.. you will have to look me up on meet me to see what I am talking about. If my looks are that important to you then I am not the girl for you..... but because I don't always "get done up". sometimes it really is a no hair and make-up day..I know I've already said this but JUST BE HONEST.. You have no idea how much give and take there is if you are honest about it.. Not just at the beginning when you first meet someone.. but later on too.. I don't usually date anyone who isn't local.. One reason is because I don't have the time, energy, or money to spend on the road looking for love. The second is just because I am not cut out for a long distance relationship. I'm not jealous at all.. but I know taste and wants change.. Plus some people are always looking for the next best thing *** choosing what they have... and these things are just easier to notice if it's local.. besides .. how can you get to know someone unless you spend time with them. Our first date doesn't have to break the bank. I'm okay with anything from meeting for cokes to putt-putt to dinner, to dancing, to trips to the beach- watch the waves- watch the stars, to whatever.. A trip to the Bahamas is okay with me too.... then it's one quick ferry ride and you're there.. It's not worth trying to impress me by spending money. Lets just have fun and get to know each other. Ummm.... but I'd like for you to come up with the date. It's not that I dont have opinions.. it's just I'm up for anything and it's your dime... so might as well make it something you'd enjoy too.. I promise if we hit it off I will come up with all sorts of things for us to do!!

  • Beatrix

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have a huge heart & I love to laugh, even if it's at myself!! I love all kinds of movies, from B/W to recent & all genres. I also love all kinds of music, anywhere from rock to Bach......lol My ideal first date is going somewhere quiet to begin with, so we can get to know one another. But, after that, I like to go somewhere fun.......like a concert, an amusement park, a zoo, etc. I really love life & wanna live it to the fullest!

  • Maev

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm outgoing, not shy. I'm Australian which makes me pretty laid back No drama. Goals and aspirations are to get the most out of life. Typical Aussie, I have a fairly sarcastic sense of humor. I'll try anything once and if I like it, I'll go back for seconds....sometimes even thirds or more :-). I like people who r confident but not over confident (big ego). Don't tell me a sob story about wanting to find a friend and then ask for a roll in the hay during the second sentence. I've bloody well heard those lines more times than I can count. If u want a quick *** or a one night stand, look elsewhere, its not my thing.. Honesty goes a lot further than bul!$%!t. If u lie to me once, then u've probably done it twice. I don't hold grudges, but I don't have a need for untruths. I enjoy my own company and the conversations I have with myself are never boring, not to mention, I always get the answer I like best :-). If u r hung up about age, then that's ur hang up, not mine. I'm 43, going on 30...I stopped counting at that point and anyway, math wasn't my strongest subject in school haha. I am quite affectionate, and like to snuggle buggle and watch a movie. I'm very much an open book and u can ask me anything, but don't get shocked when my answers are straight forward and directly to the point. No drama zone here.If u don't have a picture of yourself in your profile, I will question u as to what u r hiding, but it won't stop me from talking to u. Back to the lying, it's pointless...ur going to screw up at some time and I'm fairly intelligent even though I'm a blond.... haha...it doesn't take me long to figure out when I'm being played, so let's not waste anyone's time :-) If u r married, girlfriend, or have a significant other, don't waste my time and no drama . I'm fairly low maintenance and don't spend hours in front of a mirror to get ready to go out; what u c is what u get, like it or leave it...Good luck to anyone out there , with ur phishing...:-) A restaurant, (NOT FAST FOOD AND I PAY FOR MYSELF) and maybe just sit and talk or do something fun and sporty.

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