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Lorena, 43
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

I am a fun loving girl that would like to find someone to spend some of my free time with. I am very independent and don't need to spend every waking minute with that someone. I do not believe that if two people come together as a couple that the rest of their own lives should cease to exist. There needs to be a healthy balance. I started a new career in January of ***and I am loving every minute of it. I traded in my dress shoes, skirts and blouses for steel toed boots, safety vests and a hard hat. I left the financial industry in the dust and joined the world of construction and haven't regretted a minute of it. That being said I am very well rounded. I am very caring...loving...loyal and honest. I pride myself on being a great listener and someone that anyone in my life can call in their time of need. That being said I can also be very strong willed at times and a little stubborn....just saying :) I need a strong individual that is not intimidated by me and that does not have a problem laying down the law when need be. I expect to be treated as an equal in my professional life but absolutely love chivilary and truly appreciate being treated like a lady in my personal life. Do not get me wrong I hold my own when it comes to yardwork and housework (prefer yardwork) lol. I guess that will do it for now. P.S.I love to laugh!(and yes this does include at myselfP.S. Goodluck all! PLEASE NO COFFEE MEETINGS...:) Surprise me...something spontaneous and fun. I am very easy going and pretty much up for anything.. .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just as my Headline says, I have spent my whole life looking for that Mr.Right, Sweep me off my feet kind of guy, & that just never has worked so well. I don't ask for much, I'm pretty independent, I don't take being told what to do very well, I have a strong mind & will, but I also have that a Good heart & affectionate. I love cooking & baking & spend a lot of my spare time doing thatI love my family & like to see them as often as I can. I have a few friends that I keep close, but I'm very much a Stay at home curled up on my couch, watching movies when it's cold outside,but also don't mind sleigh rides, or snowmobiling in the winter or spending time in the mountains, riding horses when I get the chance, camping, fishing, enjoying the outdoors when it's warm. I'm kind of shy, till I get to know you, then you'll see a more relaxed me. I'm not interested in giving out my number, so as for text right away that's not me. If you can't post a profile pic, then you obviously have something to hide, not interested..If you are a decent guy, hard working, sweet, honest, who isn't pushy, lets the cards fall where they may kind of guy,then we might have a few things to chat about.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi there, Thanks for checking my profile. I am looking for someone to hang out with for now. I think we are all on here for the same reason. I think relationships evolve naturally so my intent on here is to form a friendship and a connection and see what grows from there . I prefer shyer people, maybe because I am somewhat shy myself. I think I am down to earth and the kind of girl you can feel comfortable with. I am a fun and positive person, passionate, kind, fun, looking for someone to enjoy some good times ahead with. Making new friends is always appealing...I am a little shy at first, but it disappears if I like you. I have a house full of music *** I love creativity. My leisure goals right now include learning photography, gourmet cooking, and learning how to play the banjo. I am a spiritual person. I like anything to do with relaxation. I have two cats. I love all kinds of music except country. One day I would like to write a screenplay.Here are the things I love to do with another...Have long lazy decadent breakfasts and watching movies, go laze on a beach on a resort, go to football games, concerts, live theatre, experiment with new gourmet recipes, maybe try photography, play scrabble or cards, bbq, bowling, go on picnics near some glorious body of water with some wine, the zoo, road trips, rafting, suntan, dinner theatre, camp, lotsa things. I love an excuse to get all dolled up and hit the theatre or a nice restaurant, but don't feel the need to do this all the time, but once in awhile is nice. I travel a lot, often to a tropical place two or three times a year. Really want a partner for that.Really looking for people to hang out with and enjoy life with. If you are not very educated we probably won't have much in common. I am most attracted to men that don't look like seniors and are reasonably in shape. Love nerds. Won't respond to you if you have shirtless bathroom shots, sunglasses, seem conceited or uneducated, or haven't held on to a relationship more than a year. It saddens me how many men are unable to make time or room for others. I can't believe how many slimy married or attached men there are on this site. Also, some of you look like your profile pic is taken in a cell. Don't even bother!!! Ah the coffee date? Is there anyone else that doesn't like them?They are like a job interview. I find them so generic sounding and cheap. My skin crawls when I get asked on one. I also think they are boring. Breakfast is nice. So is pizza or wings and a beverage. Less impersonal.

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