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Erma, 45

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About Me

Here i am! Time to get back on the horse as they say.I am a very honest and straightforward person, open to adventure and what life has to offer. I like to explore all the experiences that are presented to me. Not afraid to do anything once. Once that is...and then I re-evalutate after the fact to know whether or not I will try it again. I have a great career of which I enjoy and it always keeps me busy doing what I love. I do have down time when needed and like to spend time at home or doing anything outdoors. I love stimulating conversation and am a good conversationalist. I have a great sense of humour and love to laugh. We all need to laugh at ourselves or with others on a daily basis. I can be a bit cheeky now and again. I have an amazing family and some very close friends who all are a part of my fantastic support system. I ultimately am looking for someone to share life experiences with me, whatever that may be we can make it up as we go. A good balance of life, fun and adventure. I really do appreciate someone who can be openly honest with me. Someone with integrity, who is caring, kind, supportive and a true gentleman. coffee, glass of wine...depends on the person and the circumstances.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharri

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I've spent the last years building a business and raising a son...I used to say I like to work hard and play hard, with some quiet time in between, but truthfully after years of crazy hours, I'm finding the joy in working smarter *** for myself, my son, enjoying the balance. Room for other things. Passion. Travel. A relationship.I'm fiercely independent, maybe a little stubborn and definitely sarcastic. I consider myself 'evolved', yet realize there is room for much more; that growth is constant and essential to maintaining healthy relationships with self and others... My free time is often spent playing sports, relaxing at home or enjoying friends - good food, good wine and conversation. I believe in laughter, playtime and just pure silliness at any and every age! Simple things. I am very much an urbanite and love living within walking distance of the beaches, neighbourhoods and restaurants that make up our beautiful city. My preference is to meet someone with a similar geography but one never knows with love... Although i am 'sporty' and enjoy the outdoors, I'll take a 4 star over camping any day! Sweats and pretty dresses and everything in between. This Gemini likes it all :)Ideally you prefer playing sports to watching them (I won't begrudge if you watch and may join you for some but otherwise will likely make other plans to occupy my time) You are health conscious and maintain a balance of quiet times and social events. You are active, a good communicator, confident and responsible. You're open to, desiring even, a relationship yet patient enough to let it evolve naturally...Although I may enjoy the flirtations of written word, and can form an opinion on a photo and a few exchanges, I am a firm believer that personal presence is required to truly get a feel for someone. So let's leave the endless *** grab a coffee, if there's chemistry we can take it from there... Coffee and a walk, something short and sweet to see if we connect.

  • Rosalin

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like wandering and exploring, watching people, and learning about different cultures. I like to stay active and fit. I like being with people who are fun, flexible and curious. I love to learn. I think life is very interesting.I like spending time with people who introduce me to new things, can be playful and are open minded. I'm down to earth, friendly and open. I like to laugh and smile and enjoy. I strive to be genuine and authentic and I value those traits in others. I love the outdoors and thrive in the city also. Kindness, humility and simplicity is what I try to live by.I have recently lived and worked in the Canadian Arctic which is a beautiful part of our country. I have spent the last couple of years travelling. I am fortunate that my career is flexible and allows me the opportunity to experience and explore different parts of the country and the world.I would like to find someone who is interested in exploring and learning about the world with me and is fortunate to have a career or lifestyle that allows him to do that. For a first date I'm open to lots of things. I prefer doing something active and fun.

  • Chia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Back again and still dont know what to say , its super hard to talk about yourself but lets try... Ive been told im a great friend (often lol) but also been told that I dont have time to date.... not sure about that but then thats why im looking for something not serious. I like action, drama and scary movies. Please no chick flicks!!Almost all types of music but my fave has to be rock. Ill listen to anything with a good beat though. I dont judge so Ill listen to what you do without complaining. I like going to concerts and comedy clubs. I like fast cars and fast life. Its to short for boring. Went to the Indy and loved it! I would love to try and drive one but thinking they may not let me.I will try almost anything so just ask.( did your mind just go to the gutter?) Im fairly fearless and have the scars to prove it lol!I dont think I act my age because I dont think age is defined by your birthday, your as young as u feel.My treadmill and i have an on again off again relationship but im fairly fit. Im not into the club thing but i like a good pub with a pool table and the game on.(yes i do like sports !) Hockey, football and baseball are my faves but truthfully I would rather go to the game than watch it on tv. I love to laugh and have fun! I have a fantastic bucket list! My friends are important in my life as are my family. They all tell me im very funny!I think its hard to put into words what makes me unique but I am the type of person who can dress up to go out but can also dress down to play in the dirt. I like trying new things and would love to travel more. I take pride in my individuality and look for someone who is okay with it. I've been told I take bad pictures. Tend to agree with that.Im a great listener and will always respond if u *** wish everyone could be the same.Im not looking for a husband or a dad for my kid im just looking for someone to have some fun with sometimes. I have a job that takes up a lot of my time so if you want someone for every friday and saturday night you wont get that here.I think that great relationships start as friends first.Anthem for life ... Dont need nothing but a good time... and if you dont know who sings that you might be too young for me lol!I know everyone comes into a relationship with some baggage, lets just not dump it on each other.And just because it says nothing serious that does not mean i want a married guy! Seriously !!And lets say what we mean and mean what we say. If u say your going to do something then do it. Regret what you have done not what you havent! Coffee and a walk would work but if thats not your thing we will have to play it by ear.

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