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Ardelle, 41

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About Me

Hi : ) Here you will find a family oriented, sincere, thoughtful, compassionate, fun with a witty and cheeky sense of humor kind of gal looking to find a quality family man with a good value system, shares similar interests and we have new interests to introduce each other to.In my spare time I enjoy quality time with family and friends…from a low key weekend at home enjoying a nice home cooked meal then a game of cards, board game or a movie to a fun filled weekend out enjoying a fine dinner and some dancing or a show, concert, hockey, soccer or football game... Listen to all sorts of music...you may even catch me singing a phrase or two now and then ; ) Not a big fan of getting to know someone over a multitude of ***…I mean chatting is a great starting point but ultimately the first meeting is what sets the stage for things to come. Some of my core beliefs…- Everything happens for a reason even if reasons aren’t clear; all is revealed in time;- Old fashioned values of loyalty, honesty, integrity more valid today than ever before;- That ‘serious’ doesn’t start out that way (as far as relationships go) they take one day at a time;- Trust is earned, not given;- Its possible to disagree without fighting;- That a gut feeling is usually right;- That intimacy is an integral part of a healthy relationship;- That being in a relationship shouldn’t mean surrendering your freedom & individuality;- Its possible to be proud without being arrogant;- Being alone is sometimes a blessing, but being lonely is always a curse;- That it takes real strength to admit & apologize for a mistake;

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerilyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi guys :) I closed my account because of ONE bizarre experience, and I decided I cannot let that ruin me. So I am here again because I have yet to find my perfect fish, maybe there's no such thing but I truly believe in my heart that there is someone out there for me to be 'imperfect' with... I realize we all have little things that make us special, needs and desires that must line up in order for things to work out long term. I am ready to put myself out there to this big pond. It's scary to feel vulnerable but I am positive it will be worth it in the long run.I am a cheerful and happy girl, I put 'average' body type but I do have curves :) and of course I have a bit of a darker side, (who doesn't?) ...but in a good way I think. :) ......I just want to find the one that has a similar way of looking at life. Please don't message me if you're just looking for something 'casual', and by that I mean just for a hook up. I am certainly not saying I want to rush into anything either, quite the opposite. I would like to build a great foundation with someone and be able to work towards the long term....I want someone who is trustworthy and loyal to just me. I will say up front I have come from a relationship where it was more give than take.. .. believe me, I am the type of person that loves to give and pamper my person with things to make them happy, I just believe that should be a ***thing. Or at least ***lol.I love love love hockey ( I live for October, for many reasons), I use music as therapy. I adore my one and only daughter, she makes me proud.I have my kitty cats, 2 of them (one is 14 this year tho) I think having pets is good for the soul. Good coffee is a MUST in my book. I am part Italian, could be why it's so important to have a good strong cup of coffee w/raw honey and cream to start my work day/night .....mmmmm I am a bit of a homebody but I think that's because I haven't had anyone that has challenged me out. (which I really miss) I love to play tennis but haven't had a buddy to do that for a while. I like to go out and do random stuff with my potential sweetheart... I do work long hours, 12 hour days and nights so sometimes that can be challenging but I really love my job.Message me if you think you would like to chat and get to know each other. Dinner, coffee.... decide together?

  • Shyla

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Time for another update :) How does one explain what they're looking for with dropdown boxes and radio buttons? Nothing really matches what's in my head...lol. My ideal results from this site is someone who wants to do things, simple things like sitting around a fire at a friends, camping for a weekend, floating down the Snye or just a night at home watching a movie. Someone looking for a relationship but not a serious/have to see each other everyday/must spend every waking moment together/lets get married relationship. I like my life right now but spending time with someone special is always a welcome improvement. I'd much rather meet a real person, not just their profile. If you have no intentions of meeting people face to face, this is probably the wrong profile for you. By the way...I'll never be mistaken for tall but BBW I am. Class Clown isn't exactly accurate either but nothing else seemed to fit. I do have a great sense of humor, though, and love comedy clubs/movies. I have a great job that I enjoy and I've finally finished studying! Looking forward to finding something new to fill my free time. Hobbies are definitely lacking after 5 years of the work, study, work, study routine. Maybe I'll finally make that trip to Vegas..lol.Ask me anything and I'll usually give you a very direct answer. I love to laugh and try to be positive. It doesn't always work, but I try. A small group of good friends certainly makes it easier, even if they don't all live here. And Red Green....the answer to all life's questions can be found in an episode of Red Green...lol. Remember, if the women don't find ya handsome, they should at least find ya handy ;) Happy fishing!Update: Finally made it to Vegas and I loved it!! Can't wait to go back again and explore off the strip. 3 days was way too short. Something casual, no pressure, easy to walk away from if there's no connection. If there is a connection, plans are made to be broken...lol

  • Rianna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmm. Revamping my profile little. Have met some really great people on here so far. New friends are always good right:-) anyways, looking to meet someone who is interested in a long term relationship. That wants to get to know one another with intentions to that end. Needs to have a unique sense of humour, a friendly, open and honest disposition and can really "Go with the flow". We all have busy lives and responsibilities and expectations thrust upon us daily, here's to hoping i find soneone that can mesh with all that and vice versa! I have two wonderful kids that keep me busy and a job that i have a love/hate relationship with. I try to be as active as time allows. Some things i enjoy are volleyball, biking, hiking, camping, and really just hanging. I've always been a pretty spontaneous person but admit that has slowed with the addition of kids. Doesn't mean i can't do some sudden and crazy thing, hope you can keep up:-) anyway, if you like what you read, you know what to do.... I usually like to do something active so we aren't feeling like we are interviewing each other! I'm pretty east going though so...whatever...

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