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About Me

" Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it...we are all in charge of our attitude" I have a pretty amazing life!; I am an independent, caring, thoughtful, open-minded, positive woman. I enjoy making people laugh, ( and I can laugh at myself) Helping others, a great listener and non-judgmental are a few of my other great qualities. Looking for a little romance , a friend ... someone to enjoy new adventures with and the simple every day that is reality. A sense of humour is very important to me (sarcasm is even better). If you are someone who is financially independent ( not living in a van down by the river), has their own interests (and I'm not talking gaming), a cool group of friends (who know your dirt), one who is open-minded and has a good sense of self (or at least someone who knows what they want to be when they grow up) please feel free to send me a "hello".I am honestly and truly looking for a REAL relationship, at times I may take a few days to respond ( my daughter lives with me half time and she does come first) Yet I am feeling that life is short, the last 10 years flew by and I don't want to miss out on meeting that special someone now .P.S. I know that smoking is a BIG turn off to most people. I am a respectful, occasional smoker...and will quit when the time is right for me. I can go for long periods of time without and I don't care for the smell of it on my clothing, breath, in my car or home. I smoke less around non-smokers. All the best in the Okanagan lake of meetville.. Thank you for checking me out!....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorena

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun loving girl that would like to find someone to spend some of my free time with. I am very independent and don't need to spend every waking minute with that someone. I do not believe that if two people come together as a couple that the rest of their own lives should cease to exist. There needs to be a healthy balance. I started a new career in January of ***and I am loving every minute of it. I traded in my dress shoes, skirts and blouses for steel toed boots, safety vests and a hard hat. I left the financial industry in the dust and joined the world of construction and haven't regretted a minute of it. That being said I am very well rounded. I am very caring...loving...loyal and honest. I pride myself on being a great listener and someone that anyone in my life can call in their time of need. That being said I can also be very strong willed at times and a little stubborn....just saying :) I need a strong individual that is not intimidated by me and that does not have a problem laying down the law when need be. I expect to be treated as an equal in my professional life but absolutely love chivilary and truly appreciate being treated like a lady in my personal life. Do not get me wrong I hold my own when it comes to yardwork and housework (prefer yardwork) lol. I guess that will do it for now. P.S.I love to laugh!(and yes this does include at myselfP.S. Goodluck all! PLEASE NO COFFEE MEETINGS...:) Surprise me...something spontaneous and fun. I am very easy going and pretty much up for anything.. .

  • Alma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I wake up happy every day, excited for the opportunity each new day holds and grateful for an incredible life. The only thing missing is my best friend, that great guy who will treat me right and inspire me, challenge me...who wants me there by his side. The man I'm looking for knows himself and is strong and confident with nothing to prove. Is compassionate. Motivated. Fun-loving. Adventurous. Someone who will be inspired by my strength of character and gentleness, who I can stand behind and support with everything I have. Where sparks fly between us and conversations are intriguing and meaningful. My world is all about respect, passion, adventure, curiosity, fitness and health, compassion, spirituality and admiration. I love to travel and experience new things, meet new people and be active - crossfit, swimming, scuba diving, sculling, kayaking, hiking - anything outdoors! That said I still enjoy time at home with someone special, cuddling by the fire with a glass of wine and watching a movie on a cold night. I like watching sports (except maybe golf :)) and enjoy live performances of dance, music and theatre.Life is short, live well and smile often. Wishing everyone success in finding their love. Conversation over a pint at the pub or coffee and a walk along the river. See if there's a connection and go from there...

  • Charlotte

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a 43 year old woman with 2 boys that are the best things I've done in my life! I am more a winter girl than a summer one, so I guess I live in the right province. I have playedsports all my life, up until recently I was still playing softball, but then 40 came and I stopped beingable to play at the level I wanted, so I packed up the bag and retired haha. At this stage of my life I am donewith the game playing of my younger years. I no longer have the will or desire for any of that. I am looking for someonewho is in the same stage of life as me. Once you hit 40, something changed. All of my priorities changed and I started to realize that life really is short, and you need to really live in the moment, and stop putting things off untiltomorrow, because you just never know if there will be a tomorrow. I have so much love to give, I am looking for someone to share it allwith. Loyalty, respect, love, kindness, patients, and love for my boys are on the top of my list, and I will not tolerate anyone who is a game player, or is not willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I don't expectanyone to do anything that I am not willing to do myself. I know that I sound a bit ridged, and harsh, but the truth is " I am just a girl looking for a boy " someone to love meand share the good and the bad that life throws our way as well as have a whole lot of fun along the way. I would leave the decision of the first date to the man, but I would love in the summer going out for dinner on a beautiful patio sipping margaritas quietly getting to know each other. After dinner go for a walk along the beachtalking and watching the sunset. If the time is right stealing that first kiss.If it is fall or winter time long walk in the fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other possibly if the time is right holding hands. Later, sitting by the fire, possibly having drinks, or sipping hot chocolate. Hopefully feeling the connection and wanting to see each other again.There are so many things to do, but really until you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, a nice dinner and goodconversation would be wonderful.

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