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About Me

" Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it...we are all in charge of our attitude" I have a pretty amazing life!; I am an independent, caring, thoughtful, open-minded, positive woman. I enjoy making people laugh, ( and I can laugh at myself) Helping others, a great listener and non-judgmental are a few of my other great qualities. Looking for a little romance , a friend ... someone to enjoy new adventures with and the simple every day that is reality. A sense of humour is very important to me (sarcasm is even better). If you are someone who is financially independent ( not living in a van down by the river), has their own interests (and I'm not talking gaming), a cool group of friends (who know your dirt), one who is open-minded and has a good sense of self (or at least someone who knows what they want to be when they grow up) please feel free to send me a "hello".I am honestly and truly looking for a REAL relationship, at times I may take a few days to respond ( my daughter lives with me half time and she does come first) Yet I am feeling that life is short, the last 10 years flew by and I don't want to miss out on meeting that special someone now .P.S. I know that smoking is a BIG turn off to most people. I am a respectful, occasional smoker...and will quit when the time is right for me. I can go for long periods of time without and I don't care for the smell of it on my clothing, breath, in my car or home. I smoke less around non-smokers. All the best in the Okanagan lake of meetville.. Thank you for checking me out!....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Valentine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi there, Thanks for checking my profile. I am looking for someone to hang out with for now. I think we are all on here for the same reason. I think relationships evolve naturally so my intent on here is to form a friendship and a connection and see what grows from there . I prefer shyer people, maybe because I am somewhat shy myself. I think I am down to earth and the kind of girl you can feel comfortable with. I am a fun and positive person, passionate, kind, fun, looking for someone to enjoy some good times ahead with. Making new friends is always appealing...I am a little shy at first, but it disappears if I like you. I have a house full of music *** I love creativity. My leisure goals right now include learning photography, gourmet cooking, and learning how to play the banjo. I am a spiritual person. I like anything to do with relaxation. I have two cats. I love all kinds of music except country. One day I would like to write a screenplay.Here are the things I love to do with another...Have long lazy decadent breakfasts and watching movies, go laze on a beach on a resort, go to football games, concerts, live theatre, experiment with new gourmet recipes, maybe try photography, play scrabble or cards, bbq, bowling, go on picnics near some glorious body of water with some wine, the zoo, road trips, rafting, suntan, dinner theatre, camp, lotsa things. I love an excuse to get all dolled up and hit the theatre or a nice restaurant, but don't feel the need to do this all the time, but once in awhile is nice. I travel a lot, often to a tropical place two or three times a year. Really want a partner for that.Really looking for people to hang out with and enjoy life with. If you are not very educated we probably won't have much in common. I am most attracted to men that don't look like seniors and are reasonably in shape. Love nerds. Won't respond to you if you have shirtless bathroom shots, sunglasses, seem conceited or uneducated, or haven't held on to a relationship more than a year. It saddens me how many men are unable to make time or room for others. I can't believe how many slimy married or attached men there are on this site. Also, some of you look like your profile pic is taken in a cell. Don't even bother!!! Ah the coffee date? Is there anyone else that doesn't like them?They are like a job interview. I find them so generic sounding and cheap. My skin crawls when I get asked on one. I also think they are boring. Breakfast is nice. So is pizza or wings and a beverage. Less impersonal.

  • Molly

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So, I am self-employed, which I love, but it takes a lot of my time. It's difficult to start a relationship when you forget to make time to cultivate one. If you have some patience, or if you're in the same predicament, maybe we can both teach each other how to find a good balance in life.I've been told I am fun to be around, soft spoken (unless I am really angry - then I whisper, haha). I'm a good listener, sensitive, independent, close to family, daydreamer, have a great figure, sexy and intelligent.I think we would get along very well if you like a little bit of everything -Eventually some travel would also be good to fit in and share the experience. That seems to be a popular activity with POF'ers. I went to India in ***. Wow, everyone needs to do something like that at least once in their lifetime! Maybe Argentina next, or Turkey, or Australia or....back to India? Let's spin the bottle! First encounter - the usual, a coffee shop. Then first date -

  • Bettye

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello there, thanks for checking out my profile. So, just a little bit about me. I have a positive attitude, a strong sense of adventure, and I enjoy keeping active. I am usually the one organizing the next social event, whether it's a night out at the movies, or a restaurant, or just any excuse to get people together for some fun. But I also enjoy a nice, quiet night at home to watch a good movie, a favorite TV show, or just cook a fabulous home cooked meal. It's all about finding a good balance.My family and close friends are very important to me, and I am fiercely loyal to all of them, so it's very important to me to keep these relationships strong. I am looking for someone who understands the importantance of family and friends, and who values these relationships as much as I do. I also believe it's important to truly enjoy your job since we spend so much of our time at work. I consider myself fortunate to have a job and career that I love, which makes me one of the lucky few who truly enjoys going to work each day.My favourite sport is beach volleyball, and I try play as often as I can. When I am not playing volleyball, I try to stay active by working out, rollerblading, bike riding, climbing, running or walking. Other than volleyball, I don’t really watch sports, although I will if it means there is a social event involved. I also really enjoy traveling. So far I have been to over 40 countries and I feel like I have barely scratched the surface. There are so many places I would still like to see, it seems like I never have enough vacation days to fit them all in. Not that I don't keep trying!I enjoy most types of music and my ipod is a confused combination of songs ranging from classical to rap. And for some strange reason that I can’t quite explain, I still have a soft spot for music from the eighties. I also enjoy watching a good movie, and any TV show that makes me laugh like Modern Family, The Office, Family Guy and the Big Bang Theory or TV shows that involve a good mystery like Cold Case, CSI or Without a Trace. If any of this sounds interesting to you, I'd really like to hear from you, so send me a message. I will make every effort to reply to anyone who sends me a message that reflects a sincere attempt to get to know me better. However, I will not reply to one word *** as "Hi", "Nice", "Hot", etc. as I would prefer to *** who put some effort into the first communication. I believe communication is important in every relationship, and first impressions are important to me.All the best of luck! There are really endless options and I will try just about anything once. And if you can think of something completely original, even better!

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