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Lola, 42

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About Me

" Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it...we are all in charge of our attitude" I have a pretty amazing life!; I am an independent, caring, thoughtful, open-minded, positive woman. I enjoy making people laugh, ( and I can laugh at myself) Helping others, a great listener and non-judgmental are a few of my other great qualities. Looking for a little romance , a friend ... someone to enjoy new adventures with and the simple every day that is reality. A sense of humour is very important to me (sarcasm is even better). If you are someone who is financially independent ( not living in a van down by the river), has their own interests (and I'm not talking gaming), a cool group of friends (who know your dirt), one who is open-minded and has a good sense of self (or at least someone who knows what they want to be when they grow up) please feel free to send me a "hello".I am honestly and truly looking for a REAL relationship, at times I may take a few days to respond ( my daughter lives with me half time and she does come first) Yet I am feeling that life is short, the last 10 years flew by and I don't want to miss out on meeting that special someone now .P.S. I know that smoking is a BIG turn off to most people. I am a respectful, occasional smoker...and will quit when the time is right for me. I can go for long periods of time without and I don't care for the smell of it on my clothing, breath, in my car or home. I smoke less around non-smokers. All the best in the Okanagan lake of meetville.. Thank you for checking me out!....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cecily

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm at a place in my life where I'm not worried about the future and I love living in the moment. I'm hoping to find someone on here who I can have a lot of fun with so I'm not really worried about what you do for a living or how much money you make. I'm a bit shy so someone who is super outgoing always helps bring me out of my shell in a hurry. I like a guy who is exciting and fun, likes to go out to the pub or the bar, smiles a lot, is clean shaven, my height or taller, nice build, smells good, and who knows how to treat a lady right. If you're between the ages of 27 and 39.....perfect. Some of the things I like to do are traveling, scuba diving, and playing guitar and singing at jams around town. I have worked in the past as a musician and am looking forward to doing some gigging again in the near future. If you're a musician too or even just love music it's a super big plus for me. I like music of almost every genre - classic rock, blues, rap, jazz, alternative, heavy metal.I'm a voluptuous woman...so you gotta love curves. I think a great first date would be just to meet up for coffee or drinks and see if there's any connection.

  • Zaria

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi!I have a great career that is chugging along nicely, one that I enjoy and I appreciate the life it affords me. Like many others here, I have great friends and family (I swear, mine are better ;-) that I take the time to enjoy as much as I can. My appreciation of the arts, music and culture is vast and I love to enjoy them all locally as much as possible...my music taste leans on the Indie side and between friends, I have been known as the mixed playlist girl. So if we date and it doesn't work out, you will likely get a killer "mixed tape" out of the deal! I can be serious when appropriate, but friends who know me would say I am playful, light hearted and look for humour in daily life. I have been called a foodie (I could be called worse) and I enjoy experimenting with food and wine both in our fantastic city at large and at home in my kitchen. I love to cook but it is always more fun with a sous chef at my side and a glass of wine in my hand. I have traveled quite extensively which has only proven to me that there is so much more to see and experience.... I am in my happy place when exploring hidden gems of the world.) I enjoy being outside on the ocean, on the mountains or in the city. I love to snowboard and "surf"..see foodie reference above) to cuddled up to watch a good movie or an episode of the Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Shameless or The Newsroom.My "fit" would be a man with a little edge- and by that i do not mean face-tattoo-edge - I mean witty and would feel comfortable at an indie concert or a wine tasting, and someone with varied life experiences.I am independent and self sufficient but I would like to meet that one man I can consider a partner in the true sense of the word - to take care of each other when one needs care, to share in life's realities, humour, dreams, hardships, and successes. Let me know if you think we might be a good fit. Something casual... Coffee shop or a beer on a patio... let's not make it over complicated, let's just meet and see where it goes from there. I think you can get a pretty good sense if you have a connection or not in a short period of time, so I like to keep the first meeting casual and then ....

  • Magnolia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a proud mom of a two and a half year old girl. She is my world and 100% mine. Mine being financial and custodial wise. No exes of mine to deal with here. I am a very kind and considerate individual. I am always happy to help others out. I am also much more of an optimist in life rather than a pessimist. I practice good manners, as does my daughter. I would love to find her the wonderful dad she so deserves and I am ready to find 'my man' and take care of him too!I am fully capable of managing any household or home. While I am great with finances, I really would love the man of the house to have that job. I can guarantee you that your friends, bosses, coworkers, ect. will endlessly tell you that you have an amazing woman!!! To clarify a few things straight away: I am not looking for a man to financially support my daughter. I am looking to live as a family in a nice home. Additionally, I am open to relocation to other cities or possibly countries. Perhaps a casual meet at a restaurant or coffee shop close to where my work or residence is. For safety reasoning is why have suggested that. Following time for each of us to digest our thoughts....we can either do a second date or not. A second date may entail a lunch or dinner at The Star Grill and then taking a walk through Assiniaboine park.

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