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Shannan, 44

United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Oct 2026 01:47:49

About Me

Hoping to meet good people and to maybe eventually find the right Beta to welcome to my pond. If you are beyond a 20 mile radius from Red Deer please don't contact me as I am not into the long distance dating scene. Hoping to maybe chat with or hear from some decent gents. I will tell you about me if you start first. Wondering if there are any decent men out there that would like to communicate with a very down to earth lady that has values, morals and integrity. Not into drama or the games that people seem to like to play, not in a rush but would like to get to know the person beyond the pics and profiles on here. Very sensual person and romantic, I like to be treated like a lady and friend. The physical aspect of a relationship comes to me later, if I can connect with you mentally and you can make me laugh it is a good start. I enjoy camping and fishing. Taking my dogs for a walk. Gardening and hiking are fun too. Even just driving in the evenings or going to the foothills for a day is an nice getaway. Now that my children are grown and out of the home, I would like to begin travelling to see more of the world. Maybe you could be the one to be my travelling friend and we could go swim with the Dolphins in the other land downunder. Hope to hear from some pleasant and serious gents.If a physical or sexual fling is your thing, keep a looking. I have chatted with a few men on here and it seems that many are only seeking a one night stand or wanting to have a sexual encounter. I have a very strong appetite for the physical aspect of a relationship but that doesn't mean I want to be intimate on the first date, there are other sites for that sort of thing if that is what you are seeking. Coffee, a walk in the park, dinner or maybe a game of pool. Guess we could decide when or if the time came.Olny 55% of Pepole can raed tihs I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh?yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! fi yuo cna raed tihs, palce it in yuor porfiel aslo.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a 43 year old woman with 2 boys that are the best things I've done in my life! I am more a winter girl than a summer one, so I guess I live in the right province. I have playedsports all my life, up until recently I was still playing softball, but then 40 came and I stopped beingable to play at the level I wanted, so I packed up the bag and retired haha. At this stage of my life I am donewith the game playing of my younger years. I no longer have the will or desire for any of that. I am looking for someonewho is in the same stage of life as me. Once you hit 40, something changed. All of my priorities changed and I started to realize that life really is short, and you need to really live in the moment, and stop putting things off untiltomorrow, because you just never know if there will be a tomorrow. I have so much love to give, I am looking for someone to share it allwith. Loyalty, respect, love, kindness, patients, and love for my boys are on the top of my list, and I will not tolerate anyone who is a game player, or is not willing to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I don't expectanyone to do anything that I am not willing to do myself. I know that I sound a bit ridged, and harsh, but the truth is " I am just a girl looking for a boy " someone to love meand share the good and the bad that life throws our way as well as have a whole lot of fun along the way. I would leave the decision of the first date to the man, but I would love in the summer going out for dinner on a beautiful patio sipping margaritas quietly getting to know each other. After dinner go for a walk along the beachtalking and watching the sunset. If the time is right stealing that first kiss.If it is fall or winter time long walk in the fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other possibly if the time is right holding hands. Later, sitting by the fire, possibly having drinks, or sipping hot chocolate. Hopefully feeling the connection and wanting to see each other again.There are so many things to do, but really until you get to know each other's likes and dislikes, a nice dinner and goodconversation would be wonderful.

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