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Chia, 41
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

Back again and still dont know what to say , its super hard to talk about yourself but lets try... Ive been told im a great friend (often lol) but also been told that I dont have time to date.... not sure about that but then thats why im looking for something not serious. I like action, drama and scary movies. Please no chick flicks!!Almost all types of music but my fave has to be rock. Ill listen to anything with a good beat though. I dont judge so Ill listen to what you do without complaining. I like going to concerts and comedy clubs. I like fast cars and fast life. Its to short for boring. Went to the Indy and loved it! I would love to try and drive one but thinking they may not let me.I will try almost anything so just ask.( did your mind just go to the gutter?) Im fairly fearless and have the scars to prove it lol!I dont think I act my age because I dont think age is defined by your birthday, your as young as u feel.My treadmill and i have an on again off again relationship but im fairly fit. Im not into the club thing but i like a good pub with a pool table and the game on.(yes i do like sports !) Hockey, football and baseball are my faves but truthfully I would rather go to the game than watch it on tv. I love to laugh and have fun! I have a fantastic bucket list! My friends are important in my life as are my family. They all tell me im very funny!I think its hard to put into words what makes me unique but I am the type of person who can dress up to go out but can also dress down to play in the dirt. I like trying new things and would love to travel more. I take pride in my individuality and look for someone who is okay with it. I've been told I take bad pictures. Tend to agree with that.Im a great listener and will always respond if u *** wish everyone could be the same.Im not looking for a husband or a dad for my kid im just looking for someone to have some fun with sometimes. I have a job that takes up a lot of my time so if you want someone for every friday and saturday night you wont get that here.I think that great relationships start as friends first.Anthem for life ... Dont need nothing but a good time... and if you dont know who sings that you might be too young for me lol!I know everyone comes into a relationship with some baggage, lets just not dump it on each other.And just because it says nothing serious that does not mean i want a married guy! Seriously !!And lets say what we mean and mean what we say. If u say your going to do something then do it. Regret what you have done not what you havent! Coffee and a walk would work but if thats not your thing we will have to play it by ear.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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