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Deja, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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Me; Accused by others to be intelligent, witty, social, have a great sense of humor and to be lots and lots of fun – I have a very playful, small child, silly side. Love the outdoors. Affectionate, honest, kind, very loyal, both practical yet spontaneous, have a big sense of responsibility & commitment. I’m a driven, think outside the box thinker with an entrepreneurial spirit and own a business doing what inspires me in both fitness and living whole food nutrition. I have a strong moral compass and I feel it is important to treat others how you want to be treated. I continuously aspire to grow as a human being intellectually and spiritually. This includes; giving back to my community and fellow human beings, meditation, living in gratitude with a deep sense of interconnection with all things and I always try to approach others and life from a place of peace, love, understanding and forgiveness. I also have a 19 year old step son that is and will be a big part of my life. Looking for: Ultimately; I’m looking for an interdependent long term relationship that of course must have a foundation of chemistry and friendship. Open to children in the right situation however at nearly 42 who knows how that would go and I’m perfectly ok with that. Definitely love other people’s children easily. Subtract the chemistry and the forever potential is friendship and that would be okay as well. Not opposed to have some local friends looking to inspire each other in fitness. I LOVE the outdoors and many varied activities as you can see by my list ;) You: Charming, handsome to me, romantic, like the outdoors, have an interest in eating healthy and are intelligent. I’m looking for someone willing to take time getting to know each other as friends and if established beyond you should love to receive and give copious amounts of affection. I would love to meet others with strong spiritual connection and ultimately a partner that gets this. You know how to have fun, can appreciate my humor (even the 'groaners') and hopefully you also have a youthful, silly side. Ultimately looking for a compassionately kind best friend that knows how to be playful and how to treat friends and a lady with integrity.How about some long, meaningful, (or meaningless for that matter) conversations. Let's have some fun and encourage each other to follow what inspires after all what is life without passion. How about a coffee and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Football
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I wanted a new environment for my boys, one filled with nature and culture. I love this town and the kind people in it. I'm continuing on with my volunteer work and I feel this town is filled with a giving and sweet spirit.I have been single now for 4 years and have enjoyed that time, raising my boys on my own and getting back to work. I hope to meet someone who is fun, enjoys the outdoors, likes kids, is responsible and honest....as those are all qualities I like in myself. It's just me and my boys....and a ridiculous looking dog right now. It would be fun to meet someone emotionally and financially secure. Someone who is easy going, intelligent, well read and well versed in the ways of our world. I am a huge animal lover so hunting is not something I would ever take part of. And smokers and heavy drinkers.....no thanks.Music has been and is a huge part of my life.I work from home, doing editing and translation and also give French lessons to kids around town. I love to travel, I've been to many cities and countries to list. Those are next on my list. And I would absolutely love to spend a month or two cruising around in an RV. I love living here....the sense of calm and quiet. The water and the trees and the fact that I can go barefoot most of the time. It would be nice to share this life with someone now. I finally feel the energy and positive attitude is back after spending some time hidden. Good luck out there, guys. It's tough meeting someone you click with. And I prefer to think that it just "happens". Love is pretty cool !! It's been a long time since I dated. I think I would most enjoy a nice dinner in a restaurant, sharing stories and getting to know one another. Anything outdoors too, would be a great time. I could never live in a big city again. I need fresh air, clean water, green spaces. So anything related to that would be a great date for me.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love football, pretty much all sports. Love the beach, grilling.... playing games...working hard, plus many other things. Would like to meet an interesting someone to share all the funs with.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Have Tattoos, but not pierced. Yes tattoos are addictive, I already have 10 and I know what my next few are going to be.Enjoy working out, going for walks and hikes with my dogs. Am more of a homebody than a bar star, those days of going out to the bars is long gone. I enjoy spending my spare time with friends and family. Am not into gaming, though I do enjoy a good game of crib/cards. I listen to pretty much all types of music, anything with a good beat. I find myself with a lot of free time, now that my daughter is 18, so time to try new things and meet new people.One just never knows what might happen once we meet. I've learned that you sometimes need to take chances or things just stay the same.I never know what else to put down on here...so want to know more? Ask and I'll answer.Happy Fishing everyone! open to suggestions

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