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Deja, 42

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About Me

Me; Accused by others to be intelligent, witty, social, have a great sense of humor and to be lots and lots of fun – I have a very playful, small child, silly side. Love the outdoors. Affectionate, honest, kind, very loyal, both practical yet spontaneous, have a big sense of responsibility & commitment. I’m a driven, think outside the box thinker with an entrepreneurial spirit and own a business doing what inspires me in both fitness and living whole food nutrition. I have a strong moral compass and I feel it is important to treat others how you want to be treated. I continuously aspire to grow as a human being intellectually and spiritually. This includes; giving back to my community and fellow human beings, meditation, living in gratitude with a deep sense of interconnection with all things and I always try to approach others and life from a place of peace, love, understanding and forgiveness. I also have a 19 year old step son that is and will be a big part of my life. Looking for: Ultimately; I’m looking for an interdependent long term relationship that of course must have a foundation of chemistry and friendship. Open to children in the right situation however at nearly 42 who knows how that would go and I’m perfectly ok with that. Definitely love other people’s children easily. Subtract the chemistry and the forever potential is friendship and that would be okay as well. Not opposed to have some local friends looking to inspire each other in fitness. I LOVE the outdoors and many varied activities as you can see by my list ;) You: Charming, handsome to me, romantic, like the outdoors, have an interest in eating healthy and are intelligent. I’m looking for someone willing to take time getting to know each other as friends and if established beyond you should love to receive and give copious amounts of affection. I would love to meet others with strong spiritual connection and ultimately a partner that gets this. You know how to have fun, can appreciate my humor (even the 'groaners') and hopefully you also have a youthful, silly side. Ultimately looking for a compassionately kind best friend that knows how to be playful and how to treat friends and a lady with integrity.How about some long, meaningful, (or meaningless for that matter) conversations. Let's have some fun and encourage each other to follow what inspires after all what is life without passion. How about a coffee and see how it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cathrine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just as my Headline says, I have spent my whole life looking for that Mr.Right, Sweep me off my feet kind of guy, & that just never has worked so well. I don't ask for much, I'm pretty independent, I don't take being told what to do very well, I have a strong mind & will, but I also have that a Good heart & affectionate. I love cooking & baking & spend a lot of my spare time doing thatI love my family & like to see them as often as I can. I have a few friends that I keep close, but I'm very much a Stay at home curled up on my couch, watching movies when it's cold outside,but also don't mind sleigh rides, or snowmobiling in the winter or spending time in the mountains, riding horses when I get the chance, camping, fishing, enjoying the outdoors when it's warm. I'm kind of shy, till I get to know you, then you'll see a more relaxed me. I'm not interested in giving out my number, so as for text right away that's not me. If you can't post a profile pic, then you obviously have something to hide, not interested..If you are a decent guy, hard working, sweet, honest, who isn't pushy, lets the cards fall where they may kind of guy,then we might have a few things to chat about.

  • Chia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Back again and still dont know what to say , its super hard to talk about yourself but lets try... Ive been told im a great friend (often lol) but also been told that I dont have time to date.... not sure about that but then thats why im looking for something not serious. I like action, drama and scary movies. Please no chick flicks!!Almost all types of music but my fave has to be rock. Ill listen to anything with a good beat though. I dont judge so Ill listen to what you do without complaining. I like going to concerts and comedy clubs. I like fast cars and fast life. Its to short for boring. Went to the Indy and loved it! I would love to try and drive one but thinking they may not let me.I will try almost anything so just ask.( did your mind just go to the gutter?) Im fairly fearless and have the scars to prove it lol!I dont think I act my age because I dont think age is defined by your birthday, your as young as u feel.My treadmill and i have an on again off again relationship but im fairly fit. Im not into the club thing but i like a good pub with a pool table and the game on.(yes i do like sports !) Hockey, football and baseball are my faves but truthfully I would rather go to the game than watch it on tv. I love to laugh and have fun! I have a fantastic bucket list! My friends are important in my life as are my family. They all tell me im very funny!I think its hard to put into words what makes me unique but I am the type of person who can dress up to go out but can also dress down to play in the dirt. I like trying new things and would love to travel more. I take pride in my individuality and look for someone who is okay with it. I've been told I take bad pictures. Tend to agree with that.Im a great listener and will always respond if u *** wish everyone could be the same.Im not looking for a husband or a dad for my kid im just looking for someone to have some fun with sometimes. I have a job that takes up a lot of my time so if you want someone for every friday and saturday night you wont get that here.I think that great relationships start as friends first.Anthem for life ... Dont need nothing but a good time... and if you dont know who sings that you might be too young for me lol!I know everyone comes into a relationship with some baggage, lets just not dump it on each other.And just because it says nothing serious that does not mean i want a married guy! Seriously !!And lets say what we mean and mean what we say. If u say your going to do something then do it. Regret what you have done not what you havent! Coffee and a walk would work but if thats not your thing we will have to play it by ear.

  • Dymphna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have changed my profile so many times not sure what else to put on here. I'm honest, loyal, caring and very affectionate and want to find someone who is the same and also will appreciate a good woman. Want to find someone who likes goin out once in awhile but yet enjoys stayin in and cuddling. I have 3 children who are older and are independent, but they are my world. I dont like the long convos on here drawn out for months, rather chat a bit, exchange numbers, meet and c if there is a connection, why waste each others time? Not into one night stands so plz move on. If u r married or have a girlfriend I'm not interested, don't appreciate being lied to or having angry women track me down!I am very much of a smart ass and humor is a must!Please have a pic when u message me!!! I don't talk to faceless men. Face it attraction is a big thing, so talkin to a faceless person is a waste of time, and also shows u didn't even read my profile. Or u have something to hide... Hence my comment bout women tracking me down! Sorry if that's forward but tired of the bs on here! Meet for a drink and chat.

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