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Collette, 42

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About Me

I would like to think that my last few years of single life have taught me a few things about myself.I've learned that patience is always a virtue, but sometimes too much can cause problems.I've learned that compromise is important but you also need to not be as flexible.I've learned that laughter is essential in everyday life along with hugs and kisses and hand holding.And most of all I have learned that you must must must communicate, no communication leads to confusion, leads to sadness, leads to misunderstandings and then everyone gets hurt.I'm a single mom who is involved in my childs life. My child will always be #1, never #2.I volunteer often for different things, they bring a bit of peace to my heart knowing I did something good for someone.I do enjoy different types of outings, movies, dinners out, music, comedy, or just a nice stroll somewhere to enjoy the sights and sounds of nature. But you can't beat a nice quiet night in with a silly movie, a serious movie or just a plain old scary movie....and a nice bottle of wine. Spending time with that special someone is important to me, but I do realize that space is needed sometimes to regroup and breathe.I have chosen a serious relationship as my ultimate goal, but first ....gotta meet, gotta date, gotta see if we can even stand eachother. Unless of course someone has invented a time warp to get us past the awkward confusing part of dating and get to the good stuff!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Henry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello,Here is a little insight about me:I am looking for someone who has a sense of humor, a kind heart, and likes to spend time outdoors. Open communication is a must – I am loyal, caring person; I do not play games or carry hidden agendas, and I expect the same from my partner.Life is great! There is so much to see, learn, enjoy, and share. I love to travel and be outdoors with my family and friends. I enjoy all sporty activities: anything from hiking to kayaking, and I adore mountains! Camp fire and starry sky fascinate me (you can guess I am romantic too).If it sounds promising, I hope to hear from you.

  • Lola

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    " Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it...we are all in charge of our attitude" I have a pretty amazing life!; I am an independent, caring, thoughtful, open-minded, positive woman. I enjoy making people laugh, ( and I can laugh at myself) Helping others, a great listener and non-judgmental are a few of my other great qualities. Looking for a little romance , a friend ... someone to enjoy new adventures with and the simple every day that is reality. A sense of humour is very important to me (sarcasm is even better). If you are someone who is financially independent ( not living in a van down by the river), has their own interests (and I'm not talking gaming), a cool group of friends (who know your dirt), one who is open-minded and has a good sense of self (or at least someone who knows what they want to be when they grow up) please feel free to send me a "hello".I am honestly and truly looking for a REAL relationship, at times I may take a few days to respond ( my daughter lives with me half time and she does come first) Yet I am feeling that life is short, the last 10 years flew by and I don't want to miss out on meeting that special someone now .P.S. I know that smoking is a BIG turn off to most people. I am a respectful, occasional smoker...and will quit when the time is right for me. I can go for long periods of time without and I don't care for the smell of it on my clothing, breath, in my car or home. I smoke less around non-smokers. All the best in the Okanagan lake of meetville.. Thank you for checking me out!....

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Not gonna bore you with my hobbies or what kind of music I like as that is minor and you can ask me later ......Just here to find the right mix of chemistry and physical attraction with someone...not into playing games or one night stands.Been married twice so I do know what I want now and sorry but I am a lot pickier now then I was years ago but hey I don't want to make those mistakes again and I am not here to waste anyone's time.I tell it like I see it and am straight up and honest,I don't care what kind of car or truck you drive or how much is in your bank account or if you live in a house or apt....I too have my own material things. I just miss being with someone as the last few years I have always been the third wheel with groups of friends and I do miss the couple thing....My kids are both old enough I don't need a babysitter so I can pretty much do my own thing and have some fun in life.....Fun meaning a relationship !!! I am NOT a barbie so I am not looking for ken and I do not get offended if my profile is flipped over like a page in a book...I know we are not everyone's cup of tea so why let it upset you.....I love being at home but then again love being out doing stuff.....I have met Mr.Control ,Mr .Jealous and Mr.Temper so I no not wish to meet them again....cause I am a happy go lucky girl...down to earth and likes herself for who she is.......I am not skinny either so for those of you that are after that....sorry guys I got meat on me and never wish to be boney!!! We all want certain things and I have been on here long enough to know everyone wants there women a certain way...and that's cool with me.....Cant judge this book by its cover so come say hello and find out what its all about!!!......

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