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Collette, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

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About Me

I would like to think that my last few years of single life have taught me a few things about myself.I've learned that patience is always a virtue, but sometimes too much can cause problems.I've learned that compromise is important but you also need to not be as flexible.I've learned that laughter is essential in everyday life along with hugs and kisses and hand holding.And most of all I have learned that you must must must communicate, no communication leads to confusion, leads to sadness, leads to misunderstandings and then everyone gets hurt.I'm a single mom who is involved in my childs life. My child will always be #1, never #2.I volunteer often for different things, they bring a bit of peace to my heart knowing I did something good for someone.I do enjoy different types of outings, movies, dinners out, music, comedy, or just a nice stroll somewhere to enjoy the sights and sounds of nature. But you can't beat a nice quiet night in with a silly movie, a serious movie or just a plain old scary movie....and a nice bottle of wine. Spending time with that special someone is important to me, but I do realize that space is needed sometimes to regroup and breathe.I have chosen a serious relationship as my ultimate goal, but first ....gotta meet, gotta date, gotta see if we can even stand eachother. Unless of course someone has invented a time warp to get us past the awkward confusing part of dating and get to the good stuff!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Family is most important, I have 2 beautiful children and they are my life.... Now that doesn't mean I don't have other interests or any spare time..... Joint custody! I am not looking for a father for my children either, they have a great one....but rather.... someone than has a positive influence on them. I love the outdoors and spend as much time as I can outside. Swimming, beach, yard work, riding horses, skiing, pool in winter, landscaping in summer when not up north working, volleyball, boating.... In general, I'm looking for someone to share my life with.... Someone that wants, and enjoys, spending time together.... with no drama involved, if u have baggage, keep it, not interested! If you want to know more, then send me a message. Make it a great day! Cheers!P.S. if your just looking to hook up or ur not Interested in looking for a relationship.... Please don't waste my time or yours.If I don't respond, please don't take it the wrong way.... I most likely don't think we are a match ;)Well..... It's quite obvious most of u don't read profiles..... We all have certain people we are interested in or attracted to, so why waste ur time by replying to someone that has stated in their profile that there are certain things users must NOT do in order to message that person!!!!! I am active and athletic, therefore I want an athletic or average guy...... And, YES.... Weed is a drug!!!!! C'mon!If you don't have a picture, I won't respond.... I hate pics of myself too, but it's only fair to put a face to a profile!! Cheers!!! That can be decided together, or u can surprise me!!

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a happy, loving woman looking to meet a kind, loving and happy man. I have been separated for over 7 years and I am now ready to meet someone special. I don't like to play games and I am wanting to meet someone who feels the same way. Honesty and communication are important to me, as is meeting new friends and finding joy in every day. I am not really sure what else to write..... :)Send me a note and lets start a conversation. My optimal first date would be to meet for coffee somewhere and get to know each other. See if there is chemistry and then go from there. Maybe a dinner and a walk.

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  • Madisyn from Portales | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a passionate girl looking for that man who will make me weak in the knees. Looking to find someone to build a life with and have fun doing it.A little about me... - Can be a bit of a clown and sarcastic but have a serious side also- Love the outdoors & camping- Enjoy sports.- Friends and family are important and a big part of my life- Enjoy dressing up for dinner and theatre or hanging out in flip flops and bumming around the city- Love dogs- A bit of a city girl and country girl- Romantic, dreamer but also realistic- AdventurousUltimately, I admire a man who has ambition & enjoys his career but can balance that with his personal life. I work to live now versus living to work :)It's always hard to write who you are in these things but if I have peaked your curiosity then contact me and we can chat. Talk soon! Surprise me!

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