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About Me

Hi there, Thanks for checking my profile. I am looking for someone to hang out with for now. I think we are all on here for the same reason. I think relationships evolve naturally so my intent on here is to form a friendship and a connection and see what grows from there . I prefer shyer people, maybe because I am somewhat shy myself. I think I am down to earth and the kind of girl you can feel comfortable with. I am a fun and positive person, passionate, kind, fun, looking for someone to enjoy some good times ahead with. Making new friends is always appealing...I am a little shy at first, but it disappears if I like you. I have a house full of music *** I love creativity. My leisure goals right now include learning photography, gourmet cooking, and learning how to play the banjo. I am a spiritual person. I like anything to do with relaxation. I have two cats. I love all kinds of music except country. One day I would like to write a screenplay.Here are the things I love to do with another...Have long lazy decadent breakfasts and watching movies, go laze on a beach on a resort, go to football games, concerts, live theatre, experiment with new gourmet recipes, maybe try photography, play scrabble or cards, bbq, bowling, go on picnics near some glorious body of water with some wine, the zoo, road trips, rafting, suntan, dinner theatre, camp, lotsa things. I love an excuse to get all dolled up and hit the theatre or a nice restaurant, but don't feel the need to do this all the time, but once in awhile is nice. I travel a lot, often to a tropical place two or three times a year. Really want a partner for that.Really looking for people to hang out with and enjoy life with. If you are not very educated we probably won't have much in common. I am most attracted to men that don't look like seniors and are reasonably in shape. Love nerds. Won't respond to you if you have shirtless bathroom shots, sunglasses, seem conceited or uneducated, or haven't held on to a relationship more than a year. It saddens me how many men are unable to make time or room for others. I can't believe how many slimy married or attached men there are on this site. Also, some of you look like your profile pic is taken in a cell. Don't even bother!!! Ah the coffee date? Is there anyone else that doesn't like them?They are like a job interview. I find them so generic sounding and cheap. My skin crawls when I get asked on one. I also think they are boring. Breakfast is nice. So is pizza or wings and a beverage. Less impersonal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lanell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am very outgoing and very active Ive been working construction for 15 years as a Jm scaffolder I love to travel and ride my bike in the summer i also like riding quads and skidoos in the winter Am looking forward to a good year " Living life to the Fullest "

  • Deja

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Me; Accused by others to be intelligent, witty, social, have a great sense of humor and to be lots and lots of fun – I have a very playful, small child, silly side. Love the outdoors. Affectionate, honest, kind, very loyal, both practical yet spontaneous, have a big sense of responsibility & commitment. I’m a driven, think outside the box thinker with an entrepreneurial spirit and own a business doing what inspires me in both fitness and living whole food nutrition. I have a strong moral compass and I feel it is important to treat others how you want to be treated. I continuously aspire to grow as a human being intellectually and spiritually. This includes; giving back to my community and fellow human beings, meditation, living in gratitude with a deep sense of interconnection with all things and I always try to approach others and life from a place of peace, love, understanding and forgiveness. I also have a 19 year old step son that is and will be a big part of my life. Looking for: Ultimately; I’m looking for an interdependent long term relationship that of course must have a foundation of chemistry and friendship. Open to children in the right situation however at nearly 42 who knows how that would go and I’m perfectly ok with that. Definitely love other people’s children easily. Subtract the chemistry and the forever potential is friendship and that would be okay as well. Not opposed to have some local friends looking to inspire each other in fitness. I LOVE the outdoors and many varied activities as you can see by my list ;) You: Charming, handsome to me, romantic, like the outdoors, have an interest in eating healthy and are intelligent. I’m looking for someone willing to take time getting to know each other as friends and if established beyond you should love to receive and give copious amounts of affection. I would love to meet others with strong spiritual connection and ultimately a partner that gets this. You know how to have fun, can appreciate my humor (even the 'groaners') and hopefully you also have a youthful, silly side. Ultimately looking for a compassionately kind best friend that knows how to be playful and how to treat friends and a lady with integrity.How about some long, meaningful, (or meaningless for that matter) conversations. Let's have some fun and encourage each other to follow what inspires after all what is life without passion. How about a coffee and see how it goes.

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Not gonna bore you with my hobbies or what kind of music I like as that is minor and you can ask me later ......Just here to find the right mix of chemistry and physical attraction with someone...not into playing games or one night stands.Been married twice so I do know what I want now and sorry but I am a lot pickier now then I was years ago but hey I don't want to make those mistakes again and I am not here to waste anyone's time.I tell it like I see it and am straight up and honest,I don't care what kind of car or truck you drive or how much is in your bank account or if you live in a house or apt....I too have my own material things. I just miss being with someone as the last few years I have always been the third wheel with groups of friends and I do miss the couple thing....My kids are both old enough I don't need a babysitter so I can pretty much do my own thing and have some fun in life.....Fun meaning a relationship !!! I am NOT a barbie so I am not looking for ken and I do not get offended if my profile is flipped over like a page in a book...I know we are not everyone's cup of tea so why let it upset you.....I love being at home but then again love being out doing stuff.....I have met Mr.Control ,Mr .Jealous and Mr.Temper so I no not wish to meet them again....cause I am a happy go lucky girl...down to earth and likes herself for who she is.......I am not skinny either so for those of you that are after that....sorry guys I got meat on me and never wish to be boney!!! We all want certain things and I have been on here long enough to know everyone wants there women a certain way...and that's cool with me.....Cant judge this book by its cover so come say hello and find out what its all about!!!......

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