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Hi there, Thanks for checking my profile. I am looking for someone to hang out with for now. I think we are all on here for the same reason. I think relationships evolve naturally so my intent on here is to form a friendship and a connection and see what grows from there . I prefer shyer people, maybe because I am somewhat shy myself. I think I am down to earth and the kind of girl you can feel comfortable with. I am a fun and positive person, passionate, kind, fun, looking for someone to enjoy some good times ahead with. Making new friends is always appealing...I am a little shy at first, but it disappears if I like you. I have a house full of music *** I love creativity. My leisure goals right now include learning photography, gourmet cooking, and learning how to play the banjo. I am a spiritual person. I like anything to do with relaxation. I have two cats. I love all kinds of music except country. One day I would like to write a screenplay.Here are the things I love to do with another...Have long lazy decadent breakfasts and watching movies, go laze on a beach on a resort, go to football games, concerts, live theatre, experiment with new gourmet recipes, maybe try photography, play scrabble or cards, bbq, bowling, go on picnics near some glorious body of water with some wine, the zoo, road trips, rafting, suntan, dinner theatre, camp, lotsa things. I love an excuse to get all dolled up and hit the theatre or a nice restaurant, but don't feel the need to do this all the time, but once in awhile is nice. I travel a lot, often to a tropical place two or three times a year. Really want a partner for that.Really looking for people to hang out with and enjoy life with. If you are not very educated we probably won't have much in common. I am most attracted to men that don't look like seniors and are reasonably in shape. Love nerds. Won't respond to you if you have shirtless bathroom shots, sunglasses, seem conceited or uneducated, or haven't held on to a relationship more than a year. It saddens me how many men are unable to make time or room for others. I can't believe how many slimy married or attached men there are on this site. Also, some of you look like your profile pic is taken in a cell. Don't even bother!!! Ah the coffee date? Is there anyone else that doesn't like them?They are like a job interview. I find them so generic sounding and cheap. My skin crawls when I get asked on one. I also think they are boring. Breakfast is nice. So is pizza or wings and a beverage. Less impersonal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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