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United States, New Mexico, Portales

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The most IMPORTANT things in life, aren't THINGS ;-)(NO picture = NO reply)^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^My friends describe me as honest(almost too much), a devoted friend, helpful, happy go lucky. I have no time for victims of their own making, I have my own bed and I enjoy the sleep I get at night. Enjoy being alone, with friends/family stopping by to visit, while still wanting someone in my future to share my life with.My work keeps me away from home alot, so a person has to understand it is a job and but also my living. This has it's up & down's, time not working is always all the sweeter, come days off ;-) Enjoying being self-employed ;-)Working towards my dream of moving back to southern AB, and purchasing some land & retiring there. Miss the mountains I grew up in and breathing the fresh crisp air. Looking forward to visiting the hiking trails and old fishing holes once again. Ever been somewhere & it just feels right or that you feel like you have been there before?... I found it & going back! ;-)The kind of man I am hoping to get to know is...slim to fit, sorry pot bellies/bulky gym addicts scare me (guys I am a petite woman), no sugar daddies needed-I can support myself. Must like cats, I have 2 rescued purebred Bengals. I grew up with animals always around,whether house or farm, so enjoy most, only cats right now due to self sufficiency. Would like meet someone who respects their family and friends, with a bit of old school morals doesn't hurt either. I am big on sparks and initial attraction/intellect/character,...either they are present or they aren't. I always try to give any situation a chance. Never been married & no kids, time flew by... and here I am lol I want to have kids, so if you don't, please pass me by.I apologize to those who have a problem with this, I hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck in your search.I enjoy many sports and activities, reading, movies, etc...to many to list above, always upto participating or watching/learning something new. I have travelled to different parts of the world and loved every minute. I plan to do more travelling/exploring in the next few years. Raised partly on the farm or outside of town, already had my city time partying, so not much that I can't aclimatize too lol Outdoors wins everytime over city though lolI enjoy almost all music except rap, ...country & 80's still are the main favorite, always have music playing. Been a long time since enjoyed a night out dancing, ...need a dance partner lolI enjoy an OCCASSIONAL beer, a NON DRUG USER ***TOLERANCE. Each to their own,I don't want the merry go round/soap opera in my world. Something with no stress...lol, a walk, coffee, outdoor adventure...options are openAnything long term has to start out with meeting of minds and conversation, laughter is great also lol.Take care & stay safe :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Techno American Spanish Vietnamese Comedy Martial Arts
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