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Karren, 44
United States, New Mexico, Pecos

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I don't want to be second in your life! For the first time in my life, I want to be someone's #1. I don't want to be second: - to your job - if you feel that you have to work to live, that's fine - but I don't need that much stuff and I'd rather have your time than your money. - to your kids - I've done the stepmom thing and believe me, it is the hardest thing to be, knowing that you will NEVER be first in your spouse's eyes. I'm sorry but spouses should never put their kids first above themselves. Your spouse is first, your kids are second. Those of you now that are saying my kids come first are divorced or separated and will probably stay that way because of the message you convey that you will never put anyone above your kids. Not where I want to be. - to your quad, your sled, your boat, your guns, etc - hobbies are cool and are to be enjoyed but I believe that they can also be shared and done in moderation as well. If you want to spend your free time doing a bunch of singularly enjoyed hobbies, that's fine. I would rather have someone that wants to spend time sharing activities with me and find new or different things that we can do together. I'm sorry, but I've spent the last 10 years doing stuff alone. Why would I want to get with someone and end up still being by myself?So if you are still reading, then maybe your looking for the same thing I am. I'm looking for conversation and companionship. Someone to do things with - go to movies, concerts, Rider games, travel, etc.Things that I want to share: talks, desserts, walks, showers, beds, chores, bills, laughs, problems, the remote (maybe), road trips, driving (maybe), my cats, your dogs, yardwork, movies, renos, concerts, vacations, life, fights, tears, fears, family, friends.What I'm looking for in a guy - humour, conversation, nice smile, clean shaven, nice arms, average build, small town guy, Rider fan, movie lover, not allergic to cats, good manners, polite, into current events, non-religious, Mr. Fix-It, patience, non-smoker, almost non-drinker, lanky, fun, wants to do things with a girl and not always having to hang with the boys, open-minded - no closemindedness re: sex, race, gender, religion.Me - loyal, funny, Rider fan, loves concerts, movies, books and cats, dogs are OK too, green eyes, will actually go fishing with you, not into big houses, small town Sask girl, wanting company but OK with being on my own, 'live and let live', respectful, helpful, accepting.I've posted pics so I'd appreciate if you post/share pics too! Movie, drink(s), virtual golf (haven't tried it), hit a bucket of balls, SIR track (haven't been there yet), go-carts (have never driven them), 10 pin bowling (have never tried it), comedy club, playing pool, mini golf, oh...and a walk by the river lol!I haven't golfed yet this year! Hitting a bucket of balls somewhere would be awesome!I haven't played pool since I had my eye surgery - was harder to play with glasses on.Laugh club at the Park Town, driving around the city, walking around the neighbourhood, soft ice cream cones in Outlook and a walk on the SkyTrail and BOB.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Fitness / Gym American Portuguese Spanish Thai Family & Kids History Horror Mystery
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