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Elsie, 43
United States, New Mexico, Lordsburg

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I am a single mom to a gorgeous 9yr old daughter and while it would be nice if you had children as well, it is not a deal breaker. I believe family should and will always come first as they will be with you until the end.I have a career I enjoy that allows me to travel often, I own my home and I am not looking for someone to support me financially but emotionally - I will do the same in return.Do you have a slightly twisted sense of humor?Do you believe that integrity and honesty should be one in the same trait? Can you handle quiet evenings at home? Do you enjoy movies? Are you honest, regardless if you think I can handle it or not?Can you appreciate Jackie Chan and Family Guy?If you can say yes to all of the above questions - we need to meet.I am funny, smart, confident and honest to the point of being blunt. I dont believe in playing games and you will always know where you stand with me. If I am upset, I will tell you and then yes, I will get over it! I enjoy going to movies or heading to a pub to listen to live music- keeping it casual.What else?......I wont stand for cheaters or liars and if you currently have a few women 'on the go', then make up your mind and pick one.I only wear makeup for work and often go 'naked' on the weekends.....and I have been told I am easy on the eyes first thing in the morning.I am a recent cancer survivor but i know that experience has only made me stronger and everything happens in your life for a reason - you have to accept it and appreciate each morning that you can wake up to face a new day. I am very proud of myself as i just got a new tattoo on my wrist, acknowledging my ongoing battle, and it looks pretty sweet :)I also had to cut my hair very short, chemo is very nasty, but hair always grows, right? LOLI should also say that due to all of the radiation i had to have to survive, i can no longer have children....so if you dont have any and want one, best to pass me on by.I hope I have perked your interest and I dont believe in chatting online forever. I like to meet in person and see if the sparks will fly.2 requirements.... ***NO picture on your profile = NO response. You know what I look like, so it is only fair....***i only date guys that are my height or taller (5'***. I hate being the amazon in the relationship lol*****UPDATE****Do all guys expect women to pay for their own drinks/meals at the first meeting? Maybe i am expecting too much but if I pay for a sitter to go meet you, then the least the guy can do is buy me a bottle of water or some wings and a glass of milk! I only drink water and milk (no alcohol at all ; not by choice) so I am a VERY cheap date. :) But if you ask me to 'chip in my share', then that is a telltale sign you are not interested.Am I wrong? I hope i dont sound ****y but i would really like to know what the general male opinion is about meeting for the first time and not willing to pay $15 when i would have already paid my sitter $20 before even walking out the door. OK- i am done LOL***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile if***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Or who may be suffering from it maybe meeting at a pub for a drink, or water LOL, that isnt too loud so we can chat. save the dinner and movie for 2nd or 3rd date. could also meet at a park for a walk on a nice day

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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