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Sharleen, 41
United States, New Mexico, Lordsburg

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About Me

I believe in enjoying life, I’m just finding that it is not as much fun trying to enjoy it alone.I like spending my evenings relaxing at home with a good book or a movie and a glass of home-made wine. My weekends are for fun! I like to get up early, hop in the car and see where the road takes us... Maybe it will be breakfast in Cereal, AB, or how about a hike in the mountains? I like exploring and discovering the world around me. My passport only has one stamp in it, and while I’m open to traveling my list of things to see are a little closer to home. I love the city I live in, but I love leaving it too! I like trips to Saskatchewan (seriously). I enjoy camping and hiking, but I’m not in to dirtbiking or quadding. I am past my party camping days, and prefer the crackle of a campfire and the chirp of frogs. I like canoeing, but am not in to water skiing. I would love to find someone who could teach me how to fish and actually catch something (bonus points for fly-fishing)!I enjoy history, and so, when I do travel I like to learn more about the location I'm in and where it "came" from. Therefore, I avoid resorts and package vacations. I like to meet people, eat their food, and learn about their culture. I love good food! I enjoy cooking when I have someone there to appreciate it. I try and eat healthy most of the time, but I’m not obsessive over it. You will likely never hear me talking about the latest fad diet, and if I order a salad, it’s because I actually want to eat a salad!I try and live a healthy lifestyle. I recently took up running (although I have found I don't enjoy running in the heat) and got back on a bicycle again (after 20 years), but hate going to the gym other than for the occasional yoga class. I prefer to get my exercise outdoors. I am not on the go all the time though; I have been known to spend the odd weekend at home in my pjs. I like some down time to recharge with a good book too.I have two children over the age of 16. My daughter lives on her own and my son lives with me every other week. I have a good co-parenting relationship with his father. I am attracted to people who are either artistic or musically inclined (or both). I like people who can challenge me to see the world in a different light, and are open-minded enough to consider a different perspective as well. I would like to meet someone who prefers conversation over television, and exploring over standing still. I would like to meet someone who is passionate enough about something to get excited, and who isn't afraid to dream. I would like to meet someone who is ready to write their love story. 90% of the time we'll probably end up going for coffee, but I prefer having a little fun. We can at least go for a walk with our coffee (or tea)... (and if it's raining I can almost guarantee that I will be wearing inappropriate footwear!)OR...I know a bowling alley that rents shoes with skulls and flames on them, and I believe you can tell a lot about people through their ability to laugh at themselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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