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Ellenor, 41
United States, New Mexico, Clovis

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 May 2025 02:10:21

About Me

looking for someone who works hard and plays hard. fun and adventure are always welcome. I'm kinda spontaneous, with a bit of a wild side , i am an aries after all, but still value romance; quiet times just "being", passionate kisses, hand holding, and snuggling for a movie or the game. treat me good and vice versa. New beginnings for me and excited about that! Dating kinda sucks but you gotta start somewhere. Would like to find that special someone someday. Communication is key to everything. Without it, its broken from the beginning. Nothing better than long hugs, feeling appreciated, hving mutual respect, and lil surprises that make u smile. love surprises, and flowers, love beautiful flowers ;) love the outdoors, riding my motorcycle, camping, walks/hikes in the woods, bonfires, boating, layin around at the beach, volleyball, even ice skating and walks in the snow....true N.E. girl at heart...i love all the seasons.. Not really into watching sports other than hockey (go Bruins!) But not out of question. love to see new places learn new things, live bands, dancing (love 80's hair metal and not ashamed to admit it..lol) and just being lazy on a Sunday afternoon, by a beach or a fire or both. Im a sucker for an acoustic jam by the fire! I mght even join u in a verse or two! Im as comfortable in the city as i am in the woods. A dress and killer heels or jeans and boots. Black tie events or laid back and let loose. Yes i smoke occasionally, but am not a big smoker and would ultimately like to quit. I also enjoy my weekends with a few drinks and fun. I can tell you I like to drink moderately in social settings when the company is good and fun is in the air. I would love to go to a wine tasting, as i have yet to find a red i like. I love to meet new people, make new friends and socialize, but also like quiet time to balance. Not into players, don't waste your time or mine.. Looking for someone who is comfortable with them-self, likes to have fun but is also a stable, hard working guy who can treat me rght, vice versa, and knows what he wants out of life. I realize this is a long shot...but what the hell.......maybe there's a connection to be made somewhere out there. Please hve a profile pic. We all know it begins with a look.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting Skiing British Canadian French Drama Sport
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