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Lana, 41
United States, New Mexico, Clovis

Offline, last seen Fri, 10 Apr 2026 22:01:51

About Me

I'm going to try this site again... I'm a mother of two, daughter 14 son 12 so that means I'm a package deal..My kids are the world to me. I love being around people, love to laugh and make others laugh. I enjoy pretty much anything as long as the company is right anything can be fun. I love all kinds of music, I love to dance. I like to stay in shape and am looking for someone that is also into staying fit. I'm a very loving person and care about people. I'm looking for honesty if you cant be honest dont message me. But If I dont message back I have learned in the past that you cant respond to everyone, please dont get upset and send me mean messages, your just not my type. Dont confuse you not being my type as stuck up!!!!! I'm looking for a man who enjoys life someone who likes to go out and do things or just curl up on the couch with me and a good movie. I love to cook, and spend time outdoors. I'M NOT A CAMPER!! unless you have a rv or something with a inside bathroom with a shower sorry not interested lol.. I'm not looking for a one night stand, so dont message me with that crap, and dont expect anything right away. I have more respect for myself. Dont get me wrong I love sex but I believe it should be with someone you care about, that you have a connection with. I know what I bring to a relationship and I expect the same. I will not settle for someone who will not treat me right, I'm not one of these woman who go back and forth in a relationship, nor do I give a guy a 2nd chance after cheating..My EX- husband was a drinker (to much) I'm not looking for someone who drinks everyday. I dont play games.. If you feel you need to play games take it to another field I'm not interested.Say what ever you want but I believe that you have to be phycially attracted to someone for things to get started. I dont have drama in my life and dont want any. I dont get upset easy, life is to short to always be angry. We get one life why be angry and mean to ppl. I dont like to argue! I much rather talk it out and understand where the other person is coming from. I'm not looking for a perfect guy there is no such thing but I am looking for the perfect guy for me..If its right anything is possible!!!!! Maybe a nice dinner, somewhere where we can have a great confersation and just go have a good time..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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