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Lana, 41

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About Me

I'm going to try this site again... I'm a mother of two, daughter 14 son 12 so that means I'm a package deal..My kids are the world to me. I love being around people, love to laugh and make others laugh. I enjoy pretty much anything as long as the company is right anything can be fun. I love all kinds of music, I love to dance. I like to stay in shape and am looking for someone that is also into staying fit. I'm a very loving person and care about people. I'm looking for honesty if you cant be honest dont message me. But If I dont message back I have learned in the past that you cant respond to everyone, please dont get upset and send me mean messages, your just not my type. Dont confuse you not being my type as stuck up!!!!! I'm looking for a man who enjoys life someone who likes to go out and do things or just curl up on the couch with me and a good movie. I love to cook, and spend time outdoors. I'M NOT A CAMPER!! unless you have a rv or something with a inside bathroom with a shower sorry not interested lol.. I'm not looking for a one night stand, so dont message me with that crap, and dont expect anything right away. I have more respect for myself. Dont get me wrong I love sex but I believe it should be with someone you care about, that you have a connection with. I know what I bring to a relationship and I expect the same. I will not settle for someone who will not treat me right, I'm not one of these woman who go back and forth in a relationship, nor do I give a guy a 2nd chance after cheating..My EX- husband was a drinker (to much) I'm not looking for someone who drinks everyday. I dont play games.. If you feel you need to play games take it to another field I'm not interested.Say what ever you want but I believe that you have to be phycially attracted to someone for things to get started. I dont have drama in my life and dont want any. I dont get upset easy, life is to short to always be angry. We get one life why be angry and mean to ppl. I dont like to argue! I much rather talk it out and understand where the other person is coming from. I'm not looking for a perfect guy there is no such thing but I am looking for the perfect guy for me..If its right anything is possible!!!!! Maybe a nice dinner, somewhere where we can have a great confersation and just go have a good time..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tifany

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to spend time with family I am a single mom of four my two oldest boys are 19,20 and my youngest are 7&12.I also love long walks,going to the beach to collect seashells,grilling outdoors, watching a real good movie with some action, i even enjoy shooting some pool even though im not to good at it but that's what makes it fun,fishing is also something i enjoy doing it's still a little new to me but it's fun...I like listening to R&B and sometimes a little of that old rock music...I love to talk and listen to each others past and struggles..Im very independent,strong and wise as you could imagine raising Four children after seperating from there dad 5 years ago was not the easiest but i have done a good job and never given up on my children like some of these mom and dads in this world we live in....I am an honest loveable person with a big heart who needs the same..Im intrested in someone who will love me,respect me,make me happy,trust me,and someday marry me...Even though i was with my childrens father for 17years I have never been married im done with this dating i need a serious relationship that is willing to spend the rest of there life with me.so if you read this and your just looking to have a good time or booty is on your mind and your not serious move on because you have the wrong one no game playing here im 41 so game playing is over and i can not stress that enough..Im not a gold digger but i would like to be wined and dined once in awhile,I love flowers,love when a man opens a door for me...One thing i do not like either is someone who judges me we are not petfect we just do the best we can life is to short to criticize one another i am me and i can not change so except me for who i am not what you want me to be..I think i just about finished this and hope to not be on here long at all this is actually my second time doing this so hopefully this is my last...Oh and just one more important thing my kids are very important in my life so if you can't deal with kids move on...I love to cook to :-) Out for dinner or maybe a coffee even a drink,whatever we feel comfortable doing then take a walk on the beach and share each others stories

  • Lauralee

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Let me start off by saying, I am tomboy at heart but I know when and where its time to be a lady.I do not judge as I wish not to be judged, we are all human. I work hard and I love my job. I have a work/life balance. With that beingsaid it is time to add another chapter to my book. I am hoping to meet some interesting people and make new connections.-ball, volleyball and baseballSorry but ***is the best number ever (:I'm not out here looking for Mr. Right.If I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message:) coffee, mini putt or something fun...to break the tension

  • Hertha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an attractive, articulate, educated medical professional. I enjoy varied music, travel, and like to squeeze in a little adventure when I can. My sense of humor tends to be a bit dry and sarcastic. I am just as comfortable dressed to the 9's for a sophisticated evening as I am in jeans and a tee shirt for a backyard barbecue. I am very much "in charge" in my professional life. In my personal life, I have a much softer side. I have been told I am a study in contrasts. I am strong, but tender hearted; I like adventures, but enjoy a quiet evening at home; I have well worn, comfy sneakers, but love my stiletto high heels; I am opinionated, but open to other's ideas; I am confident, but still have insecurities at times. I am not a gourmet cook, but I've never killed anyone with my meals, haha. I am very affectionate, but like having some personal space too. I have life-long friends and very strong family ties. I have 3 children, 2 girls and 1 boy. My own little 3 ring circus! They bring me so much joy and the occassional headache, as all children do. I love and care deeply for those important people in my life. I am open to meeting new people and making new friends. Different people bring different things into our lives. The trick is to find people that bring something positive. I take good care of myself and am often told I look younger than my age. I am more of an "active" person rather than someone who likes to work out for the sake of working out. I would rather go swimming, take a hike, go on a bicycle ride, play softball, or go dancing rather than just hitting the gym, but I do go to the gym. It's important to try to take care of yourself. I am not overly regimented or fanatical about it though. I'm looking for an educated, successful, professional, relatively fit, out-going, active SWM. I'd like to meet someone to share a mutual attraction and interesting times.- A man that takes the important things in life seriously, but doesn't take himself too seriously. A man that cares about how he looks, but doesn't spend more time getting ready than I do. I'm looking for a man that still knows how to treat a woman like a lady. Someone that recognizes my strength, but will still open a door for me. I am a successful and together person. I expect a match to be as well. While there must be physical attraction, intellect, sincerity, and humor is important. I'm looking for someone with varied tastes that appreciates the finer things in life, but sees the beauty in simple pleasures. Someone who has learned from their past, but looks to the future. A simple pleasure I enjoy is a really good cup of coffee. Really good conversation to go with it is a bonus. Somewhere we can have an actual conversation and eye contact.

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