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Helene, 41

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About Me

So here it is. I am looking for the ONE!!!! I am not looking for the perfect man. I am looking for the one that is perfect to me. The connection is important and there is no changing that. I am looking for a Caucasian/European Man. Attractive and funny of course and out going. I am a social butterfly and I LOVE it!!!! When I see you...Butterflies in the stomach. When you kiss me....weak in the knees. I am self employed and work a lot of hours which makes it difficult to meet someone special considering I am not into the bar scene. I have tried this site before and to be honest I am very apprehensive to try it again. There are some spooky people here. I will get into greater length later if I decide to stay here. I will not chat without a picture. Oh Ya! And I am a princess!! I think the first date should be something simple just to see if the chemistry is there. More of a meeting. Then we can go a plan a first date. I would however be interested in hearing from you what you think would be a good first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Annemarie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    First of all I wasn't going to get back on this site after the last two guys I dated off here yet changed my mind and I'm not going to give up. I'm just going to lay it out there if I don't respond to your messages don't take it personally unfortunately you may just not be what I'm looking for and I can't respond to all and there are plenty of fish. PLEASE BE LOCAL. So now a little about me I am 41 with 3 children 23, 21, and 11. My youngest is the only one at home. I enjoy many outside activities camping, boating, swimming, running etc... I am looking for a sweet, loving, compassionate man and he must not be possessive especially after the 1st date makes a girl run. I want a man that is attentive, smart and funny. You can't be a couch potato. I love to stay busy and active. If you want to date me and I've responded to you then put effort out if not I'm not going to waste my time. Just keeping it honest and upfront. Dinner or drinks

  • Dominque

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ok the most dreaded part. I'm a mom of two wonderful boys. 20 and 23. They are my life but they are grown now and have lives of their own.I enjoy being active, laughing and the outdoors but also love to spend time with that special person snuggled up on the couch.I shoot pool on a league and love to go dancing. I have recently joined a gym. I am loving it.What I"m looking for... I am looking for my best friend and soul mate. Someone I can share everything with. Someone who loves to laugh and joke around but can also be serious when the time comes. Someone to be my partner in life. Through the good times and the bad.LOVE is Friendship on Fire!

  • Casie

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    This whole online dating thing freaks me out a bit and I'm not a huge fan but meeting someone in the produce section at Whole Foods isn't really working out and the tomatoes are complaining to management. More about me: I have been told I have a strange dichotomy of tastes and interests. I strongly believe in animal rights and welfare, but I can watch gory movies about people and not even flinch. I'm borderline vegan, but feed my dogs raw. I don't buy household products that test on animals, but I'm not completely anti-leather - like shoes - although I won't get superficial, unnecessary things like a couch or automobile seats in leather - that's just stupid. Looking for someone that has similar beliefs but doesn't necessarily have to be the same. I'm a bit of a grammar snob.;your" and "you're" is a turn off. And using the word 'of' *** 'have' (Ex: Should have) is also a turn off. I'm a little old school that way. I'm a smart girl that likes mental stimulation but also likes to just 'veg out'. I enjoy mini adventures and like them even more if my dogs are involved. Those are my only children. I won't pretend I love sports, but I certainly don't mind if you do. Going to an occasional live event is great, but going every weekend is not in my top 10 list of things to do. I watch the Super Bowl for the commercials. I'll stay quiet during the game if you do the same during those. Haha! If your opinion is the opposite, you may not want to read any further. I'm not religious. I was raised Catholic but am NOT a practicing one. I believe more in spirituality and doing the right thing because it's the right thing to do. I was married a while ago but I don't consider myself divorced because A: no kids; and B: if (Length of Marriage) is less than (4 x (Number of Years Since Divorce)), then me=Single. Oh and I'm not very opinionated...or sarcastic..After being on here a week or so, I've learned that a lot of men don't read. If you've made it this far, terrific. Here's more: These are the men to whom I will not reply for one reason or another: 1. If your first message to me is "Hi". - You're shy, don't know what to say? Whatever... If you can't say something that is going to prompt me to actually want to reply to you, what will trying to carry on a conversation be like? 1a. If you write in all caps or use vanity plate language.....in sentence case.....with punctuation. 2. If you don't have at least a Bachelor's Degree. Sorry if you're offended, but past experience shows it doesn't work. 3. If all your pictures are in a bathroom mirror or at the gym. 4. If you make a statement in your profile about how you expect other peoples pictures to be recent and then all yours are from ***. :)5. If you're holding a fish or other dead animal. 6. If your profile implies that you're looking for a hook-up. Too b****y? Hey, I know what I want and why waste either of our respective time by trying to communicate with someone that doesn't fit? Dinner or appetizers so we can chat and get to know one another. Walking through a downtown area makes for good topics of conversation.

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