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Emiline, 43
United States, New Mexico, Clovis

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Feb 2026 13:47:14

About Me

I'm looking for you and only you - you unique, heartfelt, kick-ass, easy-on-the-eyes man. And in return you'll get a playful, adventurous, genuinely sweet and drama-free woman of integrity who is supportive of your life's mission and goals. Your inspiration to be your best self - as YOU see it unfolding before you.As for me, I can pretty much have fun anywhere, doing anything (you'll find I'm easy to please!). Give me a snowy hill and a garbage lid and I might go sledding. Road trippin' from NOLA might find me jammin' to 80's on XM with my head out the sun roof doing my best impression of "The Robot" or a modified moon walk (don't worry, you'll be driving! lol). I adore dancing (I’m taking two-step and salsa lessons) so if you can spin me around a dance floor, I’ll be in heaven (and if dancing's not your thing, just know I love an admiring audience! **). Good conversation is another pleasure — I’m one of those people you talk with only to be surprised that hours have gone by. We won't run dry of fascinating topics to discuss unless we are just enjoying an easy silence in each other's presence.I'm an animal lover and spoil my pets. I support numerous charities that benefit dogs our soldiers have rescued in the Middle East as well as Wounded Warriors for those who need assistance when returning home. I admire a man who, like me, desires to give more to those who deserve it and ultimately leave this world a better place.I’ve been told that I’m a thoughtful person. To see your surprised smile, I might stock my fridge with your favorite beverage or learn to cook that dish you mentioned liking. I am your biggest fan and will always have your back. What I’m looking for here is a lifetime commitment that feels like a gift, not an obligation. While compromise and communication are crucial, we won’t have to be “on” to get along. More often than not, being together will be easy-peasy. You can be 100% yourself around me because I completely accept you and am not trying to change who you are. Ultimately, we can be our most flawed, vulnerable selves and love each other anyway (or hopefully, love each other even more)...You’re a man’s man whose idea of being in touch with his feminine side is giving his girl a kiss that will make her lips melt. Own a power drill and can use it? That’s HOT! You’re a gentleman but will happily take charge and feel comfortable making decisions (although you'll take my opinion into consideration when making them, of course! *smile*).Like me, you stay in shape and enjoy the outdoors but won’t mind that me and camping do not mix (you’ll save that for your “guys” weekends). You are curious and love to learn which keeps our conversations fresh and interesting. Nothing make me happier than when my man makes me belly-laugh after a grueling day. Because I've inspired your protective *** you know it's those "little" things that make my heart sing), you might fill up my car if you notice the tank is low. You definitely want to get married, you just want to make sure you’re marrying the right person. You may not have kids, but you’re not ruling it out.Together, we’ll expand each other’s worlds and share in the excitement and knowledge that the best is yet to come. When you look in to my eyes, you know you have found the real deal. You are ready for it. I am waiting... The ideas below do not describe a first date (the best ones, by the way, do NOT involve the word "coffee" and also create the possibility of an incredible kiss at the end of the evening if things go well. I consider our pre-meeting communications as a first date. From there, we should know if it is worth our mutual time, effort and energy to meet in person. Coffee breath does not inspire a passionate clinch!). The following weekend sounds spectacularly fun to you… Dinner at a nice Italian restaurant, then House of Blues for a burlesque show. Saturday morning starts with homemade breakfast and a visit to a historical site just outside of town. Or maybe wine tasting in the hill country? Let’s cap it off with a lazy poolside Sunday - BBQ on the grill and margaritas at the ready.Your thirst for adventure will mean a passport is always close at hand and waiting to be stamped with all the fascinating places we will explore together - I am far less interested in where you have already been. I'd rather focus on where we are headed! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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