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Lexi, 41
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

I'm pretty go-with-the-flow, and love to have fun, but I'm also extremely sarcastic - I'm also extremely honest. You'll never wonder where you stand with me. I'll do it nicely, but I'm unwilling to be fake. I'm fairly competitive, maybe it's trivia, bowling, board games, or laser tag - I'm a pretty gracious winner though (sometimes). If you get your feelings hurt easily, or you find yourself offended a lot...I'm probably not your girl.I'm not a fan of "hi", "hello", or "hey gurrl, you're hott, why don't you give me your number?"... it's awkward enough trying to meet someone online, and if that's your best effort, we're probably not a match. I'm looking for the man who's confident without being****...sweet without being clingy...flirty without being dirty...affectionate without being overwhelming...secure in himself. I'm looking for the man who doesn't need to be completed, but complemented (not complimented, though I love to do that too***by a woman. I'm looking for the man who - whether or not he has a college degree - is educated enough to use your/you're, there/their/they're, and to/too correctly. I'm kind of a spelling and grammar nerd :)I'm looking for the man who's trustworthy and honest (we don't have a single thing to say to one another if you're not ) the man who doesn't dog-talk women...even his exes. We've all got 'em, and they're exes for a reason - if yours come with baggage and drama, please keep fishing. I love 80s music ***hit wonders are a particular favorite ***s country, almost any genre of music, save for metal and rap.My kids are grown, and while I'm totally open to a man with kids of any age (and a cordial relationship with the mom), I won't meet kids unless and until we're in an actual relationship. It just wouldn't be fair to them to expose them to the smartest, coolest, funniest, most amazing person they'll ever meet if they might never see me again! Somewhere we could actually talk, so definitely not the movies. Maybe bowling or a game, I'm pretty open.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Sci-Fi Sport Rodeo
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