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Lexi, 41
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

I'm pretty go-with-the-flow, and love to have fun, but I'm also extremely sarcastic - I'm also extremely honest. You'll never wonder where you stand with me. I'll do it nicely, but I'm unwilling to be fake. I'm fairly competitive, maybe it's trivia, bowling, board games, or laser tag - I'm a pretty gracious winner though (sometimes). If you get your feelings hurt easily, or you find yourself offended a lot...I'm probably not your girl.I'm not a fan of "hi", "hello", or "hey gurrl, you're hott, why don't you give me your number?"... it's awkward enough trying to meet someone online, and if that's your best effort, we're probably not a match. I'm looking for the man who's confident without being****...sweet without being clingy...flirty without being dirty...affectionate without being overwhelming...secure in himself. I'm looking for the man who doesn't need to be completed, but complemented (not complimented, though I love to do that too***by a woman. I'm looking for the man who - whether or not he has a college degree - is educated enough to use your/you're, there/their/they're, and to/too correctly. I'm kind of a spelling and grammar nerd :)I'm looking for the man who's trustworthy and honest (we don't have a single thing to say to one another if you're not ) the man who doesn't dog-talk women...even his exes. We've all got 'em, and they're exes for a reason - if yours come with baggage and drama, please keep fishing. I love 80s music ***hit wonders are a particular favorite ***s country, almost any genre of music, save for metal and rap.My kids are grown, and while I'm totally open to a man with kids of any age (and a cordial relationship with the mom), I won't meet kids unless and until we're in an actual relationship. It just wouldn't be fair to them to expose them to the smartest, coolest, funniest, most amazing person they'll ever meet if they might never see me again! Somewhere we could actually talk, so definitely not the movies. Maybe bowling or a game, I'm pretty open.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello out there!!If you are reading this I hope today finds you well. A little bit about me.... I keep moving closer and closer to the city so I am thinking I will probably land there, but who knows.Music is definitely my passion and I find myself completely involved in one way or another. I sing all the time in chorus' and side projects (sing at weddings). I also sit on the Board of Directors for a musical organization. I have never been married, and NO there is nothing wrong with me! layed back and uncomplicated...I do not like the drama. I come with no baggage and look forward to finding another "normal" person on here. Does that even exist??? lolAnything else you wanna know... jut ask, I am pretty open.Have a good day!Trisha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    looking to become friends with someone then whatever happens from there may be a plus,if we like oneanother alot maybe start to date , not into games, liers or someone looking for a home cuz hes to lazy to get a real job ,, loves a very honest person who loves to laugh and enjoys life, dont like when a man comes on to strong ,im a very easy going woman not scared to say whats on my mind ,very down to earth once u get to know me well i can be lots of fun .PS PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME TELLING ME HOW SAD U THINK I LOOK IN MY PICS LMAO THERE JUST PICS AND WHEN THERES SOMETHING TO SMILE AT OR LAUGH AT BELIVE ME I DO ,AND WHEN THERES NOT I WONT THAT SIMPLE ........ there is no real first date for me ,if he woud just wanna meet me it have to only be for a coffee no strings ,talk laugh and if theres something there maybe see one another again if not nice knowing u ,not expecting nothing at all ,just never know who u will meet and some times it can be a plus who we meet in our life .( those who knew me knew me well and those who dident can go to HELLOO very nice to meet u :) ..... LOL love the people who treat u right and forget about the ones who dont .............

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