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Jalyn, 41
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Fri, 20 Mar 2026 21:44:57

About Me

I love to travel,and go to new places,whether its a road trip to a starnge little town Ive never been to,or another country.I prefer to jump into the mix with what the natives do,rather than the conventional tourist route.I love funny people,and would like to find someone who also enjoys travelling and people.I have never met a stranger and meet people easily,will talk to anyone.I tend to root for the underdog in many scenarios,because I think it's positive to encourage others to overcome obstacles.Being helpful and supportive is one of the only gifts we can give that has the value to change lives.I engage my of passions,music,art,photography,and anything creative and fun.I want to continue travelling and seeing as much as the world as possible before I die.I am spiritual,but do not heed one religious way,appreciate the best ideas from many different religions.I like to be around people who are smart,and make me laugh.I think I am funny.I think what makes me unique,is that I am not afraid to go after what I want ,and believe that in order to be happy,gotta follow your own heart..I want to be around people who are kind and think that life is interesting,or like to make it so..and the list goes on...I am a curious person,and love adventures in new towns,trying different things,etc. I have never been one to engage in gossip,or to follow the crowd.I'd rather make up my own rules,than follow someone elses.I believe in equality.yet when it comes to dating,I absolutely adore a true gentleman..I believe in love.I believe in being loyal.I also,believe that a couple should have hobbies they can do on their own,as well as together..**I am here without any expectations.If there is a positive chemistry and a mutual attraction,then I am willing to spend some time getting to know someone new.I consider myself open minded,but when it comes to romance,I have learned that itis very important to take things slow.......Please Note:-I am Not interested in married men,or someone in a relationship already,etc.....Thank you.... Meet somewhere and talk over coffee,then decide if there is "chemistry"..(A very important ingredient)-I'd like to see how a man will treat total strangers in a new enviroment,one that he is unfamiliar with.I want to be around people who are genuine and kind.. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Italian Japanese Korean Spanish Biography Documentary Family & Kids Mystery
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