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Jalyn, 41

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About Me

I love to travel,and go to new places,whether its a road trip to a starnge little town Ive never been to,or another country.I prefer to jump into the mix with what the natives do,rather than the conventional tourist route.I love funny people,and would like to find someone who also enjoys travelling and people.I have never met a stranger and meet people easily,will talk to anyone.I tend to root for the underdog in many scenarios,because I think it's positive to encourage others to overcome obstacles.Being helpful and supportive is one of the only gifts we can give that has the value to change lives.I engage my of passions,music,art,photography,and anything creative and fun.I want to continue travelling and seeing as much as the world as possible before I die.I am spiritual,but do not heed one religious way,appreciate the best ideas from many different religions.I like to be around people who are smart,and make me laugh.I think I am funny.I think what makes me unique,is that I am not afraid to go after what I want ,and believe that in order to be happy,gotta follow your own heart..I want to be around people who are kind and think that life is interesting,or like to make it so..and the list goes on...I am a curious person,and love adventures in new towns,trying different things,etc. I have never been one to engage in gossip,or to follow the crowd.I'd rather make up my own rules,than follow someone elses.I believe in equality.yet when it comes to dating,I absolutely adore a true gentleman..I believe in love.I believe in being loyal.I also,believe that a couple should have hobbies they can do on their own,as well as together..**I am here without any expectations.If there is a positive chemistry and a mutual attraction,then I am willing to spend some time getting to know someone new.I consider myself open minded,but when it comes to romance,I have learned that itis very important to take things slow.......Please Note:-I am Not interested in married men,or someone in a relationship already,etc.....Thank you.... Meet somewhere and talk over coffee,then decide if there is "chemistry"..(A very important ingredient)-I'd like to see how a man will treat total strangers in a new enviroment,one that he is unfamiliar with.I want to be around people who are genuine and kind.. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jonell

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Very honest, down to earth single mom looking for a sincere and honest heart. The only games I want to play involve moving pieces around a board. Short of that, plz don't waste my time. I'm a hopeless romantic, who truly believes in the power of love. I'm fun, spontaneous, adventurous, and I LOVE to laugh!! :-) Not into racist, sexist, homophobic close minded ppl, and I won't tolerate dishonesty. That's a deal breaker for me. My ideal partner will understand that being a great mom is my top priority, and it will only work if he wants a good, strong relationship with my son as well. I'm a very strong willed, convicted, passionate person, but I do not like arguing on the home front. Someone asked me today what I'm doing on here. I told him that I was searching for my "intended." That one special guy that I'm supposed to be with (yes, I do believe in such things!). He then asked what I'm looking for in a guy. This was my response:Ideally, my perfect guy will be very honest (I hate being lied to!); he will be very loyal to me, and he wont cheat; he's faithful not out of fear of being caught but bcz he's happy...; he'll be smart, but not pretentious, (note: for me, smart and educated are NOT synonyms! Some of the most intelligent, well read ppl ik did not go to college; conversely, I know a lot of ppl w/college or even graduate degrees that are dumb as dirt!); he'll have a good sense of humor and will love making me laugh; he won't be judgmental or intolerant of human differences; he'll be adventurous and spontaneous; he will love the water, and feel a certain pull toward it; he'll be sweet and romantic, adoring and respectful; he'll be selfless, a giver not just a taker; he'll be hard working and hard playing; he's protective but not controlling;; he'll be a passionate and intense lover (compatibility here is essential); he's family oriented and he likes to have fun with family, he doesn't just tolerate them at the holidays! He will love all kinds of music, esp 70s and 80s (Although I wont lose sleep if he's not a big fan of rap/hip hop!), and will express himself frequently thru music (ability to play an *** a definite plus!) he'll have a healthy appreciation for movies, be able to quote them on command and get movie references when i make them (if i say "i gave her my heart, she gave me a pen" he'll get it, go play Peter Gabriel and lift his arms into the air!) But most importantly, he'll want a good relationship w/my son and ultimately will love him and be a strong positive role model in his life, helping me to shape and mold him into a great man one day. That's my wish list for my soul mate. I'm hoping to find someone w/at least one or two of these qualities! ;-) Perfect first date starts w/dinner at an amazing, but quiet, intimate restaurant, w/cocktails and/or wine, and shared dessert! Stroll afterward for more conversation, then find something fun to do, like go see a band, maybe meet up with some friends at a Fav bar and cut loose and have fun. Very relaxed and flirty and fun ;-)

  • Rosalie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

  • Opal

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello out there!!If you are reading this I hope today finds you well. A little bit about me.... I keep moving closer and closer to the city so I am thinking I will probably land there, but who knows.Music is definitely my passion and I find myself completely involved in one way or another. I sing all the time in chorus' and side projects (sing at weddings). I also sit on the Board of Directors for a musical organization. I have never been married, and NO there is nothing wrong with me! layed back and uncomplicated...I do not like the drama. I come with no baggage and look forward to finding another "normal" person on here. Does that even exist??? lolAnything else you wanna know... jut ask, I am pretty open.Have a good day!Trisha

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