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Birdie, 44
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

So don't worry u can throw me overboard. In the winter I love the first snow. But get over it real quick. And rather be inside in front of the fire. I love to do just about anything as long as I'm in the right company. I'm a lady when I need to be A mother that tries to teach my children by example. To me that would be; honesty, values, morals, hard work, righteousness, never to judge someone. Because everyone has a story to tell and we don't know theirs yet. Always to give, because we will get so much more. And most of all to always believe and have faith in our God. Because he is always by are side.I'm trying to think of what else I can tell you. I have been wealthy and I have been at the bottom. I have owned my own business to a stay at home mother. I have been blessed to go and see many places. I'm sentimental, easy going, stubborn, shy, a follower , but leader when need to be, sarcastic, but not at someones expense, love to eat good food and do.Love good sheets ***count or more, candles, thunderstorms, any kind of music except rap love being sexy and a woman. You want to know anything just ask? And be a gentleman. Im not good on 1st dates. But i think it would be fun to meet somewhere and see if you can spot them out and go from there. that way its for a quick way out also.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Latin Traveling Drama Family & Kids Mystery Cricket Golf Shooting Sports Poker To Work Out
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If your looking for a Barbie doll... Go somewhere else. I'm a strong independent woman. I don't like liars or games. I've many tattoo's and piercings. I plan on getting many more. If you feel you must categorize or stereotype me.... goodbye. Solus Deus me judicare potest!! Yes, I have that tattooed on me. I don't do drama at all. If you have any in your life... I'm not the one for you. If your still reading this... then I guess you'd like to know more about me. I'm a fun-loving, free-spirited, go with the flow kind of woman. I'm a smartass.. I can dish it as well as take it. I love doing things outdoors. Photography is one of my favorite hobbies. I'm just as comfortable in a pair of cut-offs and flip-flops as I am all dressed up and bling blinged out. You wanna know more about me... let's talk. As long as it's fun... I'm game.

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  • Vickie from Carlsbad | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am looking for a real man to eventually share our lives together. i am a free spirit, so as they say, very spontaneous, enjoys life, loves to laugh,dont like the drama, understands everyone has a past but its your past. Theres a reason Y your past never makes it into the future. love the outdoors, anything outdoors i enjoy just to be out and having fun. good laughs, good friends, enjoy watching my kids with there sports and games...kids grow up very fast so treasure every moment good or bad with them..my kids come first...always but when im devoted to someone then im very devoted and loyal, dont like liars or cheaters, i enjoy all kinds of music, enjoy dancing but also enjoy those quiet moments i have as well. Lets figure it out together.....somewhere where we can talk, laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company...Its summer now so lets be outdoors and go to fests and watch the bands, anything outdoors.............I feel when u meet someone for the first time and you are getting to know each other, if the connection is not there and you dont feel the vibes for each other, ITS NOT GOING TO BE THERE... You can not develop that overnight with each other........If its not there, its not there...Move on.....

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  • Richelle from Carlsbad | Woman | 45 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ..Now that that is out of the way... ;)There is nothing sexier than trust in a relationship... and by definition it takes the desire and ability to open up and be vulnerable to some extent... In that vulnerability alone perhaps lies the key to ecstasy - when what you give is reciprocated right back. Undeniably, it hurts when it's not, but are you strong enough to not close yourself off because of the toads you have kissed? Hmmm...I consider myself social, outdoorsy and down to earth .. I feel really fortunate to have two beautiful sons and incredible friends and family. Turns out I'm quite driven and I have realized that it seems to be a challenge to find a compatible partner. I have always been independent and self sufficient. ;-)..I'm happiest outdoors; hiking, camping, riding my horses, skiing, gardening, kayaking, rafting, climbing to the top of the world and finding the roads less traveled. I love adrenaline rushes and you'll find me doing all the crazy stuff. I love art, photography and traveling in the U.S and around the world, experiencing new cultures. Every day should be an adventure! I work out and stay fit, I don't mind getting my hands dirty and working on endless home projects. I love to go out dancing to live music, hanging out with friends contemplating the meaning of life or having a romantic evening and enjoying some cava at home in front of the wood stove. Not a couch potato and not looking to find one either. I'm into healthy food (love to cook and try new foods). Exploring and learning are parts of my daily life.I'm passionate about life, spontaneous, tough, honest, healthy, straight forward and direct (European..); I like to face life head on. Oh did I mention I have a lot of energy? I'm not into drama (I have NONE in my life :)). I believe that chemistry, compatibility, honesty and communication can make a great relationship. It shouldn't have to be too difficult if you're operating on the same wavelength.. I can dream and be romantic but I'm also realistic and know where the dreaming ends. I know what I want out of life, I accomplish my goals and I try to live my life on a daily basis to the fullest as you never know what tomorrow will bring. As I get older time seems to go by faster and faster.Looking for somebody that doesn't fit the mold and lives life (it's amazing how many people just exist)... Traveling is a must as you'll never know what you miss when you haven't left the country.. I love crazy, funny and out there, life is too dull otherwise.. Let's live for today, not in the past!!!! Wake up and see what you're missing out on... This planet has so much beauty... It's fun to walk on the edge....PS: And yes, I'm actually doing all that stuff (and a lot more) that I mentioned. Some of you guys like to talk about stuff that you've done about 10 years ago but are just to busy now... :(... And PLEASE NO PLAYERS.. I'm not that shallow!!! Sorry! Life is too short... get over your midlife crisis and live life!!! I just can't believe the state most guys in their 40's are!!!! What?? Maybe a midnight picnic under the stars on top of the world??? I know just the perfect spot... it's close.. barefoot in the sand.. or anything else that is fun for that matter...

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