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About Me

Hello!!.. NO Reggies need reply :(.. I'm a single mother of eight on welfare looking for a sugar daddy! ..haha Ok, I'm kidding..I have been lucky in life!. I have two amazing sons who I love to death and now am looking to be lucky in love!I am a fun loving girl who loves to have a good time and fully believes that laughter is the best medicine.However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious and respect the trait in others as well.I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach to trail walks by flashlights, a jog in the rain or something more offbeat like roller skating at the local rink!Generally I consider myself to be very open to new experiences and will try anything at least once.Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather then what you are doing.Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great one.I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and I am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with.However at this time I just want to take things slow and have some fun with a fantastic guy.I think it's fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling on the couch with a good movie or just relaxing together... However..I am not in the market for a couch potato.If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match..IF this kinda/sorta sounds like you I'd love to hear from you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jonell

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Very honest, down to earth single mom looking for a sincere and honest heart. The only games I want to play involve moving pieces around a board. Short of that, plz don't waste my time. I'm a hopeless romantic, who truly believes in the power of love. I'm fun, spontaneous, adventurous, and I LOVE to laugh!! :-) Not into racist, sexist, homophobic close minded ppl, and I won't tolerate dishonesty. That's a deal breaker for me. My ideal partner will understand that being a great mom is my top priority, and it will only work if he wants a good, strong relationship with my son as well. I'm a very strong willed, convicted, passionate person, but I do not like arguing on the home front. Someone asked me today what I'm doing on here. I told him that I was searching for my "intended." That one special guy that I'm supposed to be with (yes, I do believe in such things!). He then asked what I'm looking for in a guy. This was my response:Ideally, my perfect guy will be very honest (I hate being lied to!); he will be very loyal to me, and he wont cheat; he's faithful not out of fear of being caught but bcz he's happy...; he'll be smart, but not pretentious, (note: for me, smart and educated are NOT synonyms! Some of the most intelligent, well read ppl ik did not go to college; conversely, I know a lot of ppl w/college or even graduate degrees that are dumb as dirt!); he'll have a good sense of humor and will love making me laugh; he won't be judgmental or intolerant of human differences; he'll be adventurous and spontaneous; he will love the water, and feel a certain pull toward it; he'll be sweet and romantic, adoring and respectful; he'll be selfless, a giver not just a taker; he'll be hard working and hard playing; he's protective but not controlling;; he'll be a passionate and intense lover (compatibility here is essential); he's family oriented and he likes to have fun with family, he doesn't just tolerate them at the holidays! He will love all kinds of music, esp 70s and 80s (Although I wont lose sleep if he's not a big fan of rap/hip hop!), and will express himself frequently thru music (ability to play an *** a definite plus!) he'll have a healthy appreciation for movies, be able to quote them on command and get movie references when i make them (if i say "i gave her my heart, she gave me a pen" he'll get it, go play Peter Gabriel and lift his arms into the air!) But most importantly, he'll want a good relationship w/my son and ultimately will love him and be a strong positive role model in his life, helping me to shape and mold him into a great man one day. That's my wish list for my soul mate. I'm hoping to find someone w/at least one or two of these qualities! ;-) Perfect first date starts w/dinner at an amazing, but quiet, intimate restaurant, w/cocktails and/or wine, and shared dessert! Stroll afterward for more conversation, then find something fun to do, like go see a band, maybe meet up with some friends at a Fav bar and cut loose and have fun. Very relaxed and flirty and fun ;-)

  • Karon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just a little bit about me.... I am a very open, honest and grateful person. I appreciate the gifts and talents I have been given and my heart is open to share my life with another. I enjoy all types of music and I love to take long walks along the lake. I am a spiritual person and I believe in holistic healing. I can also be silly, crazy and love to laugh and have fun. To find out more let's have a conversation.

  • Kayla

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Just moved here from KC MO!...I am laid back and easy to get along with. With the right person I can be very affectionate and attentive. I love to cook, camping, being outdoors, long walks, long sultry kisses, consistent cuddling and caressing, massages, or just sitting and listen to you talk about whatever you want. I believe that we should start as being friends...building a firm foundation for a lasting relationship.I want to know that I can tell him my most personal thoughts and he will keep them close to his heart. I want to know that he will help me reach any goal or help me fulfill any dream I may have! He will know that is wanted, needed and want for nothing. We would do our best to make each other happy and not ever make them feel they are the blame for our own shortcomings. We would give each other 110% so that way we should make both of us happy.I want to be the girl that you will think about all day long! Are you that Guy I will think about alll day?? I do not smoke, nor will I date someone who does.I do not drink or do drugs.I like most types of music. I also like most movies. For the first "date" I'd prefer somewhere in public maybe at a nice restaurant, surprise me! Step outside the box!

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