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Vanesa, 45
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

Hello!!.. NO Reggies need reply :(.. I'm a single mother of eight on welfare looking for a sugar daddy! ..haha Ok, I'm kidding..I have been lucky in life!. I have two amazing sons who I love to death and now am looking to be lucky in love!I am a fun loving girl who loves to have a good time and fully believes that laughter is the best medicine.However, that said, I do know when and where to be serious and respect the trait in others as well.I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach to trail walks by flashlights, a jog in the rain or something more offbeat like roller skating at the local rink!Generally I consider myself to be very open to new experiences and will try anything at least once.Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather then what you are doing.Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great one.I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and I am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with.However at this time I just want to take things slow and have some fun with a fantastic guy.I think it's fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling on the couch with a good movie or just relaxing together... However..I am not in the market for a couch potato.If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match..IF this kinda/sorta sounds like you I'd love to hear from you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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